Is being left by your partner the ultimate cuckold situation?

Discussion in 'Controversial Issues' started by hankhavelock, Nov 3, 2017.

  1. hankhavelock

    hankhavelock Well-Known Member

    I posted this slightly controversial question at a quora forum and, obviously, didn't receive any noteworthy replies. Still, it was my reality as the end of my first cuckold-marriage, and yes, I actually DID get turned on by the whole rigmarole of it.

    Am I out on a limb here? Is it a crazy question?

    Let me stress that divorce is NOT on neither my spouse's nor my mind at all :)

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  2. JoeS

    JoeS Active Member

    No it's not. You're no longer a cuckold, you're just single
  3. masterdan

    masterdan Member

    Well, it is for me...but let me stress that, like you, my wife and I aren't divorcing. We're actually very, very happy. But I think that's part of what makes me so hard: if there was a guy who so perfectly possessed her sexually that she would actually consider leaving me at all...

    Yeah, I'd be hurt and humiliated and I'd be jerking off to it every night for the rest of the my life. It is, actually, my ultimate fantasy.

    I don't think this is a crazy question. People are turned on by what turns them on. If that's not the take-away from sites like, I don't know what it is.
  4. Mexcuck

    Mexcuck Active Member

    My wife and I agree this is strictly NSA sex. Not much more. She gets what she wants sexually and what I’m unable to give her, the Bull gets his nut off and I enjoy the show. All three parties are happy at the end. We enjoy a rather healthy and good relationship.
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  5. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I agree with you with the exception that the sex is not NSA. My wife is emotionally involved with her lovers, both male and female. She hasn't had that many, but keeps the good ones going. One of the couples she lived with for over two years before we met, and they got married during that time. He is also the bio father of our daughter (I had a vasectomy that turned out to be irreversible). It actually makes me feel good that they all (4 guys, 3 women) care about her and don't see her as just an easy fuck.

    The only person who is sometimes too close is the wife of this really close couple. Sometimes too infatuated with my wife even after all these years and sometimes too fawning over our daughter.
  6. obedientcuck

    obedientcuck Well-Known Member

    Certainly being left is among the ultimate in cuckoldry, right up there with breeding.

    In our arrangement, it would be very unlikely for my wife to leave me for our Bull. While he's a far superior physical specimen and they do have a sort of emotional bond, neither seems interested in anything but sex with the other. Also, he's got a live-in girlfriend that just about any other man in the world would have slipped a ring on her finger as soon as possible.

    That being said, i do fantasize about her leaving me for him and, more often, having him breed her. Neither is going to happen though, so they're safe fantasies.
  7. hankhavelock

    hankhavelock Well-Known Member

    You nailed it spot on! And do I want to be left by my partner? Not at all, still, it is a fantasy of some potency, and as I HAVE actually been left by a wife (partly) due to cuckolding which I found to be a mix of emotions, I thought it could be very interesting to hear fellow cuckolds' take on this slightly controversial issue.

    Dede, my current partner, actually was a bit bewildered by my posting, and I had to put him at ease explaining that part of cuckolding is most likely unfulfilled fantasy that we don't wish to make into reality :) But that doesn't make it less interesting.
  8. Kutapi

    Kutapi Member

    I don't think is the ultimate in cuckoldry, coz once you are left out by the wife, then you are no longer a cuckold. I believe there should be something that ties you both together, breeding for that matter can be considered as among ultimate in cuckoldry.
  9. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member


    I couldn't agree more if you've no wife you cant be a cuckold, having your wife breed to another man is the ultimate humiliation ....providing you still have her
  10. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Some Fantasies can be just as Effective as Fantasies as they would be in Reality.
  11. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    I didn't read this till after I had posted my above post, this said it better.
  12. Explore with me

    Explore with me Active Member

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  13. Explore with me

    Explore with me Active Member

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  14. Explore with me

    Explore with me Active Member

    You are right.. People are turned on by what turns them on...
    Enjoy !
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  15. Explore with me

    Explore with me Active Member

  16. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Wow? And here I was thinking that we were almost normal.
  17. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    You, Your Wife, and Most People here even, Are Almost Normal.
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  18. hankhavelock

    hankhavelock Well-Known Member

    Hahaha, Pathedick, you have a way with words :) "Almost Normal" I would rephrase to "Quite Normal" - but with pockets of "Non-Normative Behavior" - in a good, contentious way, obviously :)
  19. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    I am 100% normal for everyone that shares my life experiences 100%. We are a sum of our experiences. Fuck societies norms.

    Since the foundation of the word is in relationship to offspring, that may place insemination on top.

    I'm in conversations with a man that has recently discovered his desire to fulfill this need/fantasy. Problem is, he is divorced. Has a relationship with his ex including occasional sex. I have encouraged him to confront her. She has a couple steady men. He has informed me recently, that when he visits her and their child this spring, that she will fulfil this. Not completely sure, but I believe the divorce was because of her infidelity. I have seen pictures and my wife and I both think she is a knockout. Who knows, maybe this kid's parents will get back together. I told him before I joined this site, that he could be the ultimate cuck.

    Having your best friend as your BEST MAN at your wedding. Having him consummate the marriage, and taking the new bride on the honeymoon is tops on my list. Especially if a child comes 9 months later.
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  20. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    Donald.. now that would be kinky! then again why is he called the best man?
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