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    Default What do women like about cuckold men?

    I don't think I've ever read a thread about what actually attracts women to cuckold men.

    What do you women find attractive about cuckold men?

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    Default I'll be honest...

    To be honest, most women are not attracted to cuckold men. They are attracted to a man in a relationship -- for all the reasons that a woman is normally attracted to a man. The "cuckolding" comes afterward.

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    Default my 2 cents worth...

    Maybe the question is whether there are any personality traits cucks have that might be attractive to a woman. In my case, my wife really appreciated the fact that I wasn't very possessive and was pretty sensitive and gentle. I was also nonjudgemental when she told me that she'd cheated on past boyfriends, had affairs with married men, etc. I wasn't (and am not) a wimp, but I was plainly marriage material.

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    Default what's not to love about a cuck

    There are many different types of cuckolds as we see every day on this board. For me my wife found me attractive, well off, and easy to get anything she desired. She knew from when we were dating that i did not bring up the issue of her going away with old boyfriends on several different occasions or I readily accepted her week excuses as gospel.She knew early on that she could have her cake and eat it too.We had a great sex life back then, I am not a small cocked cuck and we fucked constantly. After we were married she stilled stayed in contact with several of her boyfriends,chatting with them,lunches, they thought nothing of calling her at our house and simply asked for her even if I answered the phone. She reassured me that nothing was going on and I was being paranoid about her having male friends.Eventually our sex life began to tail off and one boyfriend in particular seemed to be quite involved with her, now I am denied penetration in favor of him and I am fully cucked.I wait at home for her with fresh flowers when she spends the night with him.What's not to love about a cuckold husband!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Angel View Post
    To be honest, most women are not attracted to cuckold men. They are attracted to a man in a relationship -- for all the reasons that a woman is normally attracted to a man. The "cuckolding" comes afterward.
    I was speaking about cuckoldresses. I've seen quite a few who are specifically looking for cuckold men, so there is something that they have to like about cuck men.

    umm thanks for the answers but the question was specifically intended for women.
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    My wife had no indication when we married that I was a cuckold. This is because until we married I did not know how much I missed it from my previous marriage. I did know something was missing but did not know what. After many years of long talks I told her the facts about my x-wifes and my relationship. I told her that as odd as it was I did enjoy her sleeping with other guys. She began but her being outwardly flirtaous and now have reached the point where she is sexually independent. She loves it this way and even though I don't think she would have sought out this type of relatioship she is gald shes in one. For the last 3 years she has been exclusive to two boyfriends and loves it as much as I do.

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    Default A woman's thoughts

    I don't know that women are attracted to "cuckold" men. I was attracted to my husband and married to him a long time before cuckolding came into our lives. It had nothing to do with any "cuckold" traits.

    We were involved in SM from the very start of our relationship (2nd date) and I was attracted to that aspect of things because I wanted a wild sex life. When cuckolding came along as a fantasy, it was an extension of my desire to have a wild sex-life

    I think there might be a type of woman that really wants to fuck lots of guys but also have someone whom she knows loves her and will "care" for her emotionally in a way that other guys don't. But that type of woman also seems like she might be more of cuckold fantasy than a common reality.

    In one of your responses, you talk about seeing that woman are seeking cuckolds. Where? At most sites like these, the majority of post are cuckolds seeking cuckoldresses not the other way around.

    Your question also made me wonder about something else: how exactly do you imagine cuckolds are different from "regular" men? Do you think cuckolds have particular traits that might attract a woman? I'm not sure I really think that is true.

    The one "trait" that might have a real impact is that the guy is fine with the woman having lots of sex partners. If the woman wants lots of sex partners, then that's a good thing. If she doesn't, well then it doesn't matter.

    I think there are lots of "real" cuckolding situations where some poor guy is being emotionally and financially used by a woman and it's not consensual. That, to me, is totally different from what I do and not what I think the goal here is.

    A guy who is really cuckolded and used (probably mostly for his financial situation) may or may not want it. And I think that's fundamentally different from being in a relationship where your wife loves you but also fucks around because you BOTH like it.

    It's sometimes hard to see the difference but they are indeed very very different. For most of the couples here who actually pursue cuckolding, I think they were attracted to each other for all the "normal" reasons that people are attracted to each other and then long after they had established their relationship, they added cuckolding to the mix.

    I would question how stable a long-term relationship could be if the only attractors had to do with his "cuckolding" personality. A very small percent of your time as a couple revolves around cuckolding. If you don't also like to sit and have a conversation with the person, then... you are probably doomed.
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    They clean the house and do the dishes

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    Do all cuckolds do that? I thought that was more a sub-male thing I don't think all cucks identify themselves as subs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EmmaK View Post
    Do all cuckolds do that? I thought that was more a sub-male thing I don't think all cucks identify themselves as subs.
    correct Emma, being a cuk does not mean being sub although inherently one must be partially sub I guess. I am not a sub but loe to be cucked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EmmaK View Post
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    you talk about seeing that woman are seeking cuckolds.
    yes I've come across quite a few so that's why I asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SoCalCucky View Post

    umm thanks for the answers but the question was specifically intended for women.
    I wouldn't expect much in responses from women here. There are only a handful of exceptions (EmmaK, Vixen, Karin). May be best to lower your expectations where volume of response is concerned.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KingBull View Post
    I wouldn't expect much in responses from women here. There are only a handful of exceptions (EmmaK, Vixen, Karin). May be best to lower your expectations where volume of response is concerned.
    that's o.k., seems like theres plenty of guys willing and ready to give me the womens perspective

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    I may be odd girl out here but I do seek out men who are either aware of their cuck desires or they have personality traits that tell me they would be willing cucks.

    There are so many traits to be adored in a cuck I'm just not even sure where to begin. Not all, but most cucks have submissive natures and respect and adore women in a way that most "vanilla" do not and their desire to make sure that they are happy extends far beyond anything sexual.

    There is a very attractive strength about a man that willingly shares his wife/girlfriend with another man or many different men.

    Trust is very sexy.

    I very passionately believe that if more men celebrated women as sexual and sexy creatures that the world would be a happier and more beautiful place. Women need to feel desired and sexy or we'll turn into frumpy, overweight, grumpy housewives which does nothing to sexually excite a man who will inturn become lazy and overweight himself or out chasing other women. None of these things contribute to a happy and healthy lifestyle for men or women.

    Personally, the more sex I get, the more I want. Sex makes me feel alive, vibrant, energetic and of course, sexy. If I'm not having sex I don't feel these things and without fail I will start to gain weight, have very little energy and generally become a frump. If I'm in a cuckolding relationship and I know that I don't have to ignore the advances of men then I'm going to make sure that I look as good as I possibly can, I'm going to take care of myself, my hair and nails are going to be done and all that good stuff.

    If I had to depend on one man to supply me with sex, I don't know what I would do. Probably turn into someone who doesn't want sex!

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    great post LeadLady. I think you said it perfectly.

    I adore women and appreciate them greatly.
    Even sluts :P

    Us cucks definately love to see girls being feminine and getting well pleased


    Quote Originally Posted by Lead Lady View Post
    I may be odd girl out here but I do seek out men who are either aware of their cuck desires or they have personality traits that tell me they would be willing cucks.

    There are so many traits to be adored in a cuck I'm just not even sure where to begin. Not all, but most cucks have submissive natures and respect and adore women in a way that most "vanilla" do not and their desire to make sure that they are happy extends far beyond anything sexual.

    There is a very attractive strength about a man that willingly shares his wife/girlfriend with another man or many different men.

    Trust is very sexy.

    I very passionately believe that if more men celebrated women as sexual and sexy creatures that the world would be a happier and more beautiful place. Women need to feel desired and sexy or we'll turn into frumpy, overweight, grumpy housewives which does nothing to sexually excite a man who will inturn become lazy and overweight himself or out chasing other women. None of these things contribute to a happy and healthy lifestyle for men or women.

    Personally, the more sex I get, the more I want. Sex makes me feel alive, vibrant, energetic and of course, sexy. If I'm not having sex I don't feel these things and without fail I will start to gain weight, have very little energy and generally become a frump. If I'm in a cuckolding relationship and I know that I don't have to ignore the advances of men then I'm going to make sure that I look as good as I possibly can, I'm going to take care of myself, my hair and nails are going to be done and all that good stuff.

    If I had to depend on one man to supply me with sex, I don't know what I would do. Probably turn into someone who doesn't want sex!

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