Just curious what those of you on the Forum do/or appreciate most...
The woman wearing her rings or not when she plays...?
I wear my wedding rings when I play. Hubby purchased a our wedding set years ago and the set itself is lovely and something we designed. Just about 5 years ago we upgraded to a larger stone that is a bit hard to ignore. (Not my idea or request. Hubby surprised me on our anniversary)
It appears to me that the men I have played with have enjoyed the visual of my hands stroking them with my wedding rings on...one lover said it was the male's desire for competition. He said he enjoyed seeing his thick cream running over my fingers and across my rings...he said it made him feel like he was giving me what my hubby couldn't. Another told me it was the pleasures of "forbidden" fruit...another man's wife.
seeing the ring on is a humiliating turn on as a sissified cuckold. i personally know many of my wife's sex partners, and she does wear the ring. i bet they both get off on the wedding ring,,,,,,,, just joking,, i am sure more on each other.
My wife likes to surprise me with what ring(s) she wears
My wife enjoys surprising me (and her Bull) with what ring(s) she wears when she is out with him. She has the wedding rings (of course) and she has an Irish Claddah ring (the one with the crown and hands on it).
Sometime she wears the wedding rings and enjoys the attention she gets from people that know she isn't married to the guy she is hanging out at bars with (and probably hanging all over him after a few drinks). I know he likes when she wears our wedding rings because it reinforces his alpha-male role in her life (he is blue-collar and he loves the fact that he is fucking the wife of a white-collar guy).
Sometimes she wears only the Irish Claddah ring which, if the crown is facing the tips of the fingers, it symbolizes that she is taken. She wears it in this orientation when she is out with her Bull...and gets many comments on it!
However, when she is only wearing her Claddah ring and not her wedding rings while she is with me, she turns the crown the other way which symbolizes to men that she is "available". She (and I) absolutely love when we are out and a sexy guy asks her about the ring's "available" orientation and subsequently asks about me (an obvious attempt to see if it is ok to hit on her). She loves to tell the man hitting on her "yes, he is my husband, and yes, the ring is turned the right way!" I am so humiliated and turned on, that I blush like a little schoolgirl!
Anyways, I love that my wife mixes it up for me and always keeps me guessing!
I can't imagine my wife taking off her ring when she heads out for a date. I would be genuinely hurt if she did that.
We have been married for approx. 30 years now, and I am not sure if she could take off the ring, even if she would like it. For us it is crystal clear that the wedding ring will stay on. It is a sign about her/our status and in our opinion it is a special drill to know that she does not life in full consent of the given vows.
On the other hand it is a special sign of strength to show gentlemen in a bar that she/we have our own rules living our likestyle.
I personally LOOOVE to see my wife wearing her ring when she is with another man. But one of my biggest turn ons is to see her hand with her wedding ring (the symbol of my love for her) wrapped around another mans HARD cock while they are making out. I have never had the pleasure of seeing another mans sperm on her ring (as in the pic at the top left of this page), but i really would love too one day. I have had the pleasure (a couple of times) of seeing our neighbors sperm on her hand after she jacked him off in our backyard and she made me lick it off. But if it had been shot all over her wedding ring and i was made to lick it off there, it would have had that much more humiliation added to the mix.
i love watching my wife with other men. The sight, the sounds, the smells of thier sex permeating the room, not to mention the tastes of the aftermath and the feel of her wetness and looseness as i enter her. There is nothing as exciting or erotic.
or waiting at home, HARD as hell the whole time, CONSTANTLY wondering if they are fucking at that very moment or not (recuperating? talking? snuggling?) but never knowing for sure, waiting for her to return well fucked, and cum filled.
My Wife often wears her wedding ring when she fucks other men and, yes, that has an erotic effect on me. But just as often she takes it off. Even around the house she sometimes takes it off saying that it doesn't really mean anything to her, that it's not really meaningful to her. I know that she doesn't mean that out marriage is not meaningful but that the ring is just a thing. That still has an effect on me. I wonder if she would feel that way if a lover gave her a piece of jewelry and if she would wear it for him because it was meaningful in that case.
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Originally Posted by wifedateshubwaits
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