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    We've been away for a few weeks and only popping in for an occasional catch up. Something that we have search for a few times for here and in the wider WWW is the benefits of cuckolding from both perspectives and are surprised that we have not been able to locate.

    There are the obvious answers, but it might be nice to compile a list from cuckolding practitioners. Some will be common, others may not be so. As I see it there are three contributors, the Bull or Stud, the Wife or Girlfriend and the Cucked. In answering please indicate which you are....

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    I see nobody has responded to this yet so I will dive in. I believe I am an unwilling cuck (ie my wife has cheated on me) and I fantasise about becoming a consensual cuck. To this latter end I have compiled my own list of advantages with which I hope to persuade my wife one day when the time is right (not now).

    The advantages I am interested in are those to the couple (not the stud/bull) and in the style of cuckolding where the relationship with the bulls is used to make the couple’s own love-making more intense, not the style of relationship where the man is a masochist and is totally denied sex and is humiliated and diminished by the cuckolding.

    First, after a lot of reading around the subject I have concluded that women are probably biologically wired to find a life-long mate to support her (the provider) and then once she has secured this mate she looks for the best DNA for her children by having affairs with other men. So the first advantage must be that the woman gets to fulfil her biological programming rather than have to fight against it because people have declared it morally incorrect.

    (Men on the other hand are not, as commonly thought, wired to impregnate as many women as possible but to overcome the challenge of getting a woman to have sex with him. If that woman is his wife and she makes it a challenge by using denial techniques he will =feel no urge to seek other women.)

    Second, the woman, especially the older woman, will get an enormous boost to her self confidence to discover she is still sexually attractive to men other than her husband. This often becomes a concern after a number of years of marriage.

    Third, the woman will feel gratitude to her man for allowing her this pleasure, for allowing her to follow her instincts rather than fight against them and this will strengthen their relationship.

    Fourth, the man need not worry about whether the woman is having a secret affair because she should be getting all the satisfaction she needs from her man and the lovers he knows about.

    Fifth, the man will b grateful to his wife for allowing him to realize his fantasy of being able to watch or listen to his wife having sex with another man (or at least hearing her describe the encounters in great detail).

    Sixth, the man should derive a great deal of pleasure by witnessing his wife’s pleasure (which will be different and possibly better than the pleasure she gets from him) and knowing that he allowed her to do it.

    Seventh, the couple’s own sex life would be much more intense than if they restricted themselves to each other.

    Eighth, sex is a great way to keep fit and healthy. The more exciting the sex the more the benefit and so (see 7 above) the couple will get health benefits and live a longer more exciting life.



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    Quote Originally Posted by ocuck View Post
    First, after a lot of reading around the subject I have concluded that women are probably biologically wired to find a life-long mate to support her (the provider) and then once she has secured this mate she looks for the best DNA for her children by having affairs with other men. So the first advantage must be that the woman gets to fulfil her biological programming rather than have to fight against it because people have declared it morally incorrect.
    I actually agree with this based off of some studies that I read, as well as watched on the Discovery channel long ago. They weren't human studies, but studies on birds. Some bird species have females that act exactly as you described. They would choose a "mate" that had the best possible chance of providing for her young. This usually had to do with his ability to fend off attackers, as well as the location of his nest (easy access to food/water). Then, as soon as he was chosen, she'd go out and find the best "stud" to actually do the mating with. These choices were all about the DNA: the best looking, best built, etc. She'd fuck the stud, then go back to her mate to lay the eggs and let him support her and the chicks that hatched.

    Again, these studies were of birds, but it was suggested that it could be common behavior in other animals, including humans. More on that later.

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    (Men on the other hand are not, as commonly thought, wired to impregnate as many women as possible but to overcome the challenge of getting a woman to have sex with him. If that woman is his wife and she makes it a challenge by using denial techniques he will =feel no urge to seek other women.)
    This one, I'm not sure I can agree with completely. First, what I agree with. I do agree that the challenge of getting a female to have sex with him is a huge driver in many human males. You hear about it all the time. Guys who work so hard to get a chick to sleep with him. Then, as soon as she gives it up, he vanishes. I myself have done the same thing, mostly subconsciously I think (post-analysis).

    What I don't agree with is that males don't want to impregnate as many females as possible. Males of a very large percentage of animal species are all about getting as many females to mate with him as possible for the sole purpose of reproduction. This is what drives them. Passing down his genes are the ultimate goal, and the more that are out there the better the chance that one of his offspring will live to reproduce again (lineage). What keeps human males from doing this (in most cases) is societal pressures, not genetic ones.

    The female actions I described above are really the same goal. Females have the same desire: getting her genes passed down successfully. They just go about it differently. Instead of mass reproduction, they find the best DNA from a "donor" then find the best "mate" that would provide the best survival chances of her young. This could possibly explain why human females (subconsciously or not) look for rich and/or powerful men regardless of their looks. Whether or not they do cheat and have children from outside that relationship isn't set in stone as societal pressures affect this portion of her behavior. This is why it's so hard for us cucks to get our wives to go through it it. While it may be buried in her genetics to do it, and she may have secret desires to do it, her upbringing and society around her tell her not to do it.
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    i am not a Bull nor could ever be. it takes a special relationship that find cuckolding as a way of life. can't imagine hiding my doubts about my ability to satisfy my wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ocuck View Post


    First, after a lot of reading around the subject I have concluded that women are probably biologically wired to find a life-long mate to support her (the provider) and then once she has secured this mate she looks for the best DNA for her children by having affairs with other men. So the first advantage must be that the woman gets to fulfil her biological programming rather than have to fight against it because people have declared it morally incorrect.


    (Men on the other hand are not, as commonly thought, wired to impregnate as many women as possible but to overcome the challenge of getting a woman to have sex with him. If that woman is his wife and she makes it a challenge by using denial techniques he will =feel no urge to seek other women.)


    I'm not sure I agree with your first advantage. I am not trying to be rude but I always have trouble with people trying to back up cuckolding as a lifestyle with "science" and "biology" and make it as if it is the norm for the entire human species. It would be great if you could include some examples of what books/studies your are talking about that have led you to this conclusion.

    I find your second advantage interesting because it brings up the whole sort of mental framework of the cuckold: why does he desire his wife more when she denies him? But again, I personally don't think of it as true of the entire species. The average guy denied sex by his wife doesn't start worshipping her nor does the average guy who finds out his wife is fucking other guys start desiring her more.

    I've been doing this awhile for pure sexual entertainment. I think that cuckolding couples come in all different types and there are probably different advantages for different couples. I don't find any of the "stereotypical" advantages to have an truth in them for me (e.g., bigger cock, better lover, black lover, more sex, longer sex, more macho guy). The only advantage (given what a pain in the butt finding worthwhile partners can actually be) is that it makes sex more exciting and interesting for long term couples.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EmmaK View Post
    I'm not sure I agree with your first advantage. I am not trying to be rude but I always have trouble with people trying to back up cuckolding as a lifestyle with "science" and "biology" and make it as if it is the norm for the entire human species. It would be great if you could include some examples of what books/studies your are talking about that have led you to this conclusion.
    Emma, i always love your posts, you are both hot and wise in the ways of cuckolding. But in this case, he is at least half right. There is lots of very solid science that women's desires alternate between the gracile (nerdy, gentle men) and the robust (neanderthaish jock men).

    In particular, science has linked this change of preference to fertility cycles. During fertile time, women prefer the neanderthal men. During non-fertile times, they prefer the sensitive new age guy.

    I say "half right" because i am unaware of any science linking this to cuckold behavior. I am a cuckold perv too, and i am all too aware of how easy it is to rationalize whatever facts i can find to justify my preferred sexuality, so i am not about to jump to the conclusion that the gracile/robust science data somehow "justifies" cuckolding.

    That said, Dan Savage in his "Savage Love" column has recently cited a book called "Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality" Amazon.com: Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality (9780061707803): Christopher Ryan, Cacilda Jethá: Books which sounds like it actually might have some substantial science to link in cuckolding, or at least poly relationships, to bioevolutionary effects.

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