Your wife with a man vs. a woman

Discussion in 'Controversial Issues' started by Worth It, Apr 30, 2017.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife's, Audrey's, (mostly) lesbian girlfriend came by on Friday evening to spend the weekend. So the last couple of days is just the three of us. Which makes ask - why is it here on the Cuckolds Forum that cucking focuses so much on a wife having sex with a guy? Why doesn't a woman pleasing your wife, and she enjoying the pleasures of a woman, get the same attention on the Forum?

    From a personal perspective, they are pretty much the same for me knowing and/or watching my wife have her fun. The emotions are the same, it's just how I may jump in that's different.
  2. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    I think that it is mostly the same. Either way your precious wife is receiving sexual pleasure from someone who is not you. And maybe you are stimulated by her pleasure. I think my husband would be stimulated by anything that gives me pleasure. And I don't pursue women because it just isn't awesome for me. If it was, I would do women.

    The part that isn't the same (for me)....Jeff loves my pleasure, men, toys, massage, presents, etc. He loves taking care of me. And he supports my pleasure. He has a decent cock, decent skill, is a good provider, etc....Me fucking another dick is different (for me) because I am married to a dick. I am pursuing more of what I already have....and telling him, as good as he is, he is not enough.

    And to be clear I can completely understand how for you it is the same. Sex is Sex. Boys everywhere dream about girl on girl stuff. Here we focus on women taking male lovers but the focus could be on any kink. And your desires fit the overall theme. We can't put us all in the same box.

    I sometimes wonder why the wife's don't fuck the cucks more...I want more dick not less....or wonder why so many of the men want to see their wife's/girlfriends degraded by the bulls...or heck there are plenty of things I like that are not mainstream cuck material. I think you are the same...a cuck...but prefer a different flavor than is most often generalized.
  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Thank you for you very thoughtful response. In our case it's probably the fact that there is no power dynamics going on, no one among the guys is alpha or beta, no humiliation, etc. The fact that I started fucking the wives of Audrey's boyfriends after a little while demonstrates that. But still, a women playing in your wife's pussy? What kind of man are you... :) ?
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  4. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    This reminds me of two beautiful overnight threesome sessions I had with a young lesbian couple wanting me to impregnate the very beautiful "femme" partner in it.

    The experience of finding myself between two young women, one of them obviously very horny for me, who were deeply in love and physically very beautifully into each other was fascinating and very erotic indeed. Having my body and cock and procreative potency used basically as catalysts to their very intense lovemaking was enthralling.

    I felt totally objectified and not at all valued by the butch member for my very effective fucking of her lover who I had been recruited to impregnate---which I later learned I had managed to do in only six inseminations of her.

    Amazingly, after I had generously delivered my genes for free the butch member of the couple felt completely cucked by her girlfriend, got very jealous for her and aggressive towards me and threw me out before breakfast after our second night together.

    The explosion of emotions I had triggered between the two women gave me a valuable insight into how a FFM threesome that could have included an exhilarating fun element could end up with an acute cuckold response almost completely spoiling it.

    My compensation was that the "femme" and obviously bisexual member of the lesbian partnership, secretly loved my body and the way I fucked her and came in her so often and copiously, and kissed me very sweetly and appreciatively on my way out the door.
    Last edited: May 1, 2017
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  5. JimandSue

    JimandSue New Member

    This great have been searching in this subject cut long story short been cuckold fir wife ten years ago the term cuckold was not on the table but she had bulls one black bull and few white ones mind you she had the fun and at home I was the Alfa man Lol any way all this stop almost ten years ago due to family and life in general now I would not dare open the subject but what I know that she is bi and love female encounter but honstley do not know how to introduce the idea to her
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  6. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Start by talking with her. Let her speak and never criticize anything she says or did. As her if she has ever been with another woman in the past and take it from there, slowly.
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  7. trvlandply

    trvlandply New Member

    I would have a much harder time being cucked by another Woman then a Man... Would oddly feel like competition
  8. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    None of what we do is competitive, but I am aware that my wife's female lovers give her something that we men cannot. As I've said previously in other posts, after marrying me, Audrey's desire for women is greater than for men.
  9. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I don't think it would be the same for me. If my wife would be with a woman, I'd just think that the woman is offering an experience to my wife that I can't simply because I am not a woman.

    My wife being with another man, however, gives me a sense of humiliation that I enjoy. (Even though everybody involved is being respectful to me and my wife certainly does not want to humiliate me.) I enjoy meeting her lovers and thinking about how they have kissed and fucked my wife and she sucked his penis. They'd look at me and know that I am aware of this. I don't know what they really think of me in this regard and it is actually not that important. They can feel sexually and morally superior to me. That is what I want and I guess other women would not bring me that feeling.

    I have had many hookups with males behind the back of my wife. I don't even see this as cheating, more like mutual masturbation without any emotions involved. I think I would see this in a similar way with female homosexuality, even if my wife had a girlfriend.
  10. fkmywfxn

    fkmywfxn Well-Known Member

    I agree.

    I think it's because most men don't feel threatened or insecure if their wife has sex with another woman as compared to another man.
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  11. kort6776

    kort6776 Member

    FWIW: we were out the other night in a bar with dancing and a woman came on real hard to my wife, she wanted no part of the woman/woman thing, oh well
  12. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Your wife wanted no part of that particular woman. Keep trying, there's a girl for her out there somewhere.

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