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Discussion in 'Fantasies and Roleplaying' started by wycome38, Mar 2, 2016.

  1. gafantasyman

    gafantasyman New Member

    Sadly, my fantasy is any where my wife would actually fuck someone else in front of me. Ideally, I`d be tied to a chair and 3 or 4 guys would take her however they wanted. As long as she came a few times. To this day however, she wants no part of this. She enjoys listening to my fantasies as I get her off and/or fuck her, but she just won`t agree to make it happen. ::::Big sigh:::::
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  2. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    I've already had my greatest life fantasy fulfilled. It was to be naked in front of a large audience.

    My life fantasy was to be married to an amazing man who gives me great sex and to have a few hot guy friends on the side that I can have hot affairs with; and that's already been accomplished. I led my ideal life :)
  3. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    I have to say that I'm more interested in being naked in front of real people. I've seen actresses naked in front of millions of people and that doesn't interest me because their actual experience is being naked on a closed set, in front of very few people. I want the actual experience of being naked, vulnerable, exposed, and desired in front of so many. I want the actual experience, not a representation of an experience. I want the experience of so many eyes on my body and loving the beauty of it.
  4. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Have you tried a Nudist Resort. We have 2 near my home (about 55 minutes). I enjoy going there and being naked with the crowds. I'll use the outdoor shower and love the number of men that watch me soap myself. I have found that there are a lot more men that want to see pretty, naked women than there are women.
  5. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    I haven't. It always seemed like nudity was just natural and no big deal - I love it when people are lusting after my body. What you described sounds hot, hot, hot!!!
  6. NJMR01

    NJMR01 Member

    This was so close to this happening but it fizzled out. We where at nice restaurant and my wife had on a buttoned blouse, I asked her to unbutton the top few to show here spectacular cleavage. The waiter was very handsome and she was flirting with him. I asked her to unbutton a few more buttons and also go in bathroom and remove her bra which she did, The more wine she drank the more courage she had. Her shirt was unbuttoned so far down that her aerola's where exposed. I was getting so turned on watching the waiter crane his neck to look. Anyway it didn't go anywhere but when we got home we had great sex talking about the young waiter and how big his cock must have been. She actually squirted.
  7. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Well, then I guess it's not the same, right?


  8. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    Long time no see Christine! I hope all is well!

    Do you still have this fantasy? I am trying to figure out why this would be desirable, or is it that it isn't actually desirable, but a just fantasy that gets you off? I know all too well the difference. I fantasize about things I wouldn't want happening all the time, if I really think about it.
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  9. rgby7879

    rgby7879 Active Member

    My fantasy is very simple, I just want my wife to service and get fucked by an attractive well-hung man. Ideally she will have a great reaction, her reaction is what really would turn me on, watching her get some kind of pleasure she never felt before, or maybe having amazing orgasms or squirting like she never knew she could would be the best. I would lay with her and kiss her or hold her while the bull does his thing maybe I would get oral. Afterwards I would get my turn, if i didn't cum from oral already.
  10. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Thanks, it's good to be here. I was travelling quite a bit over the summer.

    I absolutely do still have the fantasy of having my girlfriend fall in love. I think it has gotten worse. However, I would just be happy if she started getting laid, since it has been quite some time since she dated.

    She prefers to be with a guy she can relate to, someone who's her intellectual equal. That's a tough order, since she's in Mensa. I told her recently that she doesn't have to have a relationship, she can just do it for the sex and have me for the relationship stuff. She seemed to like the idea, but she's still reluctant to start dating again.


  11. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    I feel her pain, and yours too! I wish I could help. I quite understand the connection thing. I feel the same way, although I don't ever want to make the mistake of thinking I am "owned" or "own" someone again. Ironically, having been divorced for almost two years now, I am enjoying the single life and realize I am much better cut out to be a "bull" for lack of a better word than a cuckold, despite where my fantasies lie. I like the connection too, and the meeting of the minds and spirit. I also like that I don't have to have sex with someone every night, but that it would be when we are both wanting it and willing to take the trouble to make it happen. It's the living together part of a relationship I'm not into or should I say the commitment part? I take it she has a hall pass but isn't feeling particularly sexy or inspired, or is it that she doesn't want the aggravation and PITA factor?
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  12. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    Aren't you afraid of losing her Christine? To me that's the conundrum of our fetish, and I've been there a few times now. It's never pleasant. The fantasy versus the reality. Of course it's great when you are fantasizing together, communicating well and fucking and cumming and all, but then once the lover has greater importance in her life than you do, her loyalty to him will eventually outweigh her loyalty to you. At that point she's his girlfriend, not yours and unless it's his kink too, the sharing will stop. I guess maybe this is obvious to you and you just like having your fantasy. I can't blame you at all.
  13. Lakeslad

    Lakeslad Active Member

    Not sure if this is the right place for this comment, but I have a sort of fantasy. 'Sort of' because I think it would be very unwise.

    When my wife first took a lover we both agreed that discretion was important. I loved the idea (and now the reality) of knowing I had an unfaithful wife but I didn't want other people knowing. Now, I am not so sure. Not, I hasten to add, because I want to be humiliated - that is really not me - but because I want them to know what a naughty, sexy uninhibited girl my wife is. It would make it an even hotter experience, I think.

    But the consequences .......
  14. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    Maybe I'm being a little simplistic here, but what would those consequences be? I've had wives and girlfriends who were somewhat secretive but eventually I think were pretty well known sluts. To a point. I mean, some people know, some don't. The only people who really know are you, her, and her FBs. And of course possibly whoever catches her in the act. People talk. They talk bullshit all the time, some people believe the BS, somedon't, and most people really don't give a shit. I used to live in a small town in central NY state. My ex-wife was adamant she would never cuckold me. I accepted that. Two years after we divorced I found out that she has a history of running around with guy friends. I knew she'd had some male friends before we had married, and she told me she'd never done more than give them an occassional BJ. She was even pretty openly dating a guy for a year or two before we split. She still won election to the town board while this was all going on. I can't see that she suffered any problems at all due to her slutty behavior. The only problem I had was our divorce. I believe we even had friends who knew about the relationship but figured I was in on it.
  15. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Captain, I agree. I have stopped spending my energy worried about people finding out. Some know, some don't, if they don't like me get out of my life. My husband loves me and he is the only one I need to please.
  16. Lakeslad

    Lakeslad Active Member

    The responses have been interesting. I am not sure what I expected, but "don't worry about it" was not it. I need to think about this.

    Though I am, of course, aware that as my wife's activities expand - she is now actively looking for a second lover - the chance that at least some friends/neighbours realise what is going on will increase.
  17. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    Believe it or not, the world doesn't end if people find out. Some will have a chuckle at your expense, others will be intrigued. Chances are that nothing changes at all. Yeah, you could have female friends that would feel protective of their husbands, but the chances are they already are. IMHO, there is very little fallout., and even when word is out, many will never get the memo. I guess it's different if you have kids. Their peers can be merciless if they catch on to something like this.
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  18. Ottotess

    Ottotess Active Member

    Watching my milf wife gangbanged by couple of hung black guys,with all of them finishing in her mouth end pussy.And something more,they should fuck her ass too,since she never let me doing it!
  19. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Actually, the answer to your first question is "No, I'm not afraid of losing her." If that happens, it happens. And I'll console myself by imagining what it's like for her when she wakes up in bed next to him. I'm okay with that possibility, that she might eventually stop telling me about their sex life.

    Yes, at that point, she IS his girlfriend. I would very much welcome that.

    As time goes on, I more and more want her to accept that I'm just another one of her girlfriends. Preferably one that she's emotionally close enough to to share the intimate details of their life together.

    However, I'll own up to another fantasy too: That she lives her life as single for a while and stays just as close. I'd love to hear about her meeting new guys on line, dating them occasionally, and hopefully occasionally having great sex. However, the fantasy of her living a single life is probably destined to be just a fantasy. At least I travel sometimes for work, and so I get to indulge that fantasy from time to time.


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  20. Overandover

    Overandover Member

    I'm going to give my wife's #1 fantasy, it's much better than mine;

    Her fantasy is based on a dream she has occassionally where she wakes up to someone on top of her holding her down and fucking her. She can't see his face, it's night time and too dark. When I first heard this from her, I have to confess I was a little disturbed, but then really turned on by it. I think it was this dream that lead to her #1 fantasy of a gang bang sex with a small group of men who hold her down and take turns.
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