Women: Do you feel happier now that you are free from the shackles of monogamy?

Discussion in 'A Womans Perspective' started by Bartleby, Sep 27, 2017.

  1. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    My wife has asked my multiple times in our 12 year marriage to change our arrangement to an open relationship. I have finally agreed to it and my wife has a lover now.

    I asked her yesterday whether she is happier now that she is free from the shackles of monogamy. I expected a simple yes. What she said was that she was not so sure yet. Yes, she is having fun, but she still feels a bit worried about me also being happy and (what surprised me most) she is living in fear someone may find out. Our friends are very liberal people and certainly would not take offence. I cannot see how her family could possibly find out.

    How about you? Did becoming a hotwife make you happier? Are you worried your husband may ultimately suffer from the arrangement? Are you afraid other people may find out about your lifestyle and be judgemental?
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  2. legshowcuck

    legshowcuck Well-Known Member

    Wife says She has never been happier as She has the best of both worlds...

    and as She is happy, i am way more happier...!
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  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife never had, nor would ever accept, the shackles of monogamy, but she certainly doesn't believe that she would be happier with them.
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  4. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    I must admit, I DO like this lifestyle although I LOVE my hubby more now than ever !
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  5. sbcplseeking

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    We've never been into monogamy but our happiness isn't pegged to being socially accepted or labeled. We're actually polyamorous which makes finding somebody harder since she wants an actual relationship and not just sex. Having said that, all of our sexual exploration (and interactions throughout our relationship together) are what have made us happy. Being her cuckold is just one facet of our lives and has proven a huge key towards understanding, communication and growth. our love has grown from that in and of itself. :)
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  6. My wife has never been so happy! She loves how obsessed i am with her! She loves her bf spoiling her..she loves she has guys that fuck her better than me! She loves bossing me around and telling me how much better certain guys are... She hapoy with the freedom she has she loves being a slut... Our love has never been so strong. Im only allowed to fuck my wife if im going 2nd or 3rd...
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  7. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    How far does this polyamory go? I have agreed on my wife having fuckbuddies. However, emotional bonding is very important to her
    Therefore, she can hang out with them, have a friendship, cuddle and kiss, as long as she sees him 4 times a month maximum. I could not handle it if she would start a serious relationship spending half her time with her boyfriend.
  8. Sissycucky09

    Sissycucky09 Member

    My wife understands I'm a submissive sissy and I find conventional sex difficult. I have a strong sexual response to masculine dom-men. My wife has accepted that i am a sissy and actually enjoys feminising me, putting on my make-up, and buying lingerie and dresses for me. But she has sexual desire for real men, masculine naturally dominant men. Cuckolding was the obvious choice for us. It is very exciting for both of us to have a sexy bull man to play with.
  9. sbcplseeking

    sbcplseeking Guest

    Again, to each their own. Ours goes as far my wife and I have discussed which is a bit more than you've outlined above. I wouldn't mind my wife spending time with her boyfriend more than 4 days a month but polyamory, to us, could be him moving in if we all decide we're moving in the same direction as far as life is concerned (and not just sex).
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