My wife has asked my multiple times in our 12 year marriage to change our arrangement to an open relationship. I have finally agreed to it and my wife has a lover now. I asked her yesterday whether she is happier now that she is free from the shackles of monogamy. I expected a simple yes. What she said was that she was not so sure yet. Yes, she is having fun, but she still feels a bit worried about me also being happy and (what surprised me most) she is living in fear someone may find out. Our friends are very liberal people and certainly would not take offence. I cannot see how her family could possibly find out. How about you? Did becoming a hotwife make you happier? Are you worried your husband may ultimately suffer from the arrangement? Are you afraid other people may find out about your lifestyle and be judgemental?