Women: Are you really turned on?

Discussion in 'A Womans Perspective' started by cuckold2020, Aug 3, 2009.

  1. cuckold2020

    cuckold2020 New Member

    Hello Women,

    I am new to this site, and have never had any real experiences in this lifestyle or with a woman at all for that matter. I'm only twenty.

    I would like to know if this lifestyle really turns you on. I asked a similar question at the blog she-leads-the-way.com and was ex-cummunicated and told that I was "not at a fantasy site." Is this a fantasy site? or are you as Women truly aroused? by your man's acknowledging that Your in charge in the bedroom (and therefore most everywhere else in a man's life.)

    If Female Empowerment gives you the satisfation you need more than any other lifestyle, how would I convey this to a Woman new to the idea? Do You as Woman feel you are unique in your needs or do you think most women are not truly satified with only one man, and are unaware of how much cuckolding as to offer a Woman. Do you share your discovery with other women, for their benefit? Do you tell your daughters?

    Please advise.
     
  2. emily

    emily Well-Known Member

    One answer

    A lot of what's here is fantasy and a lot is real. I think the fantasy stuff is supposed to be in the place labelled for fantasy stuff. I guess you never really know but I've been here a while now and I'm pretty sure a lot of it is real. I only put real things here but I don't put everything.
    You shouldn't think that all women who have sex outside their marriages or other relationships are about "Female Empowerment" as you put it. Everyone is different. I'm not even sure what "empowerment" is. I have a history of being unfaithful and I'm here to learn about myself and about men who like that (my exes didn't, believe me). It's been very helpful and most people here are supportive. I don't think anything I ever did had anything to do with power. I'm sure other women are different and it does seem that some of the women here care about that and some of their men are into that. But that's not everyone and this forum is about that and other things too. We're not all the same. There are a lot of reasons why someone cheats so you shouldn't think every woman who does is the same.
    And your other question: I have a girlfriend who knows a lot about what I've done and do. My daughter-in-law knows nearly everything -- we're close and very good friends and two-of-a-kind in a lot of ways. One of my daughters knows a lot, but not anything really specific. She's an adult, and her father divorced me because I was unfaithful, so she knows things but it's not like I share details.
    I hope that answered some of your questions and was helpful.
    Emily
     
  3. EmmaK

    EmmaK <b><font color="#ff0000">VERIFIED REAL MEMBER</fon

    I think it, as emily said, that we are all coming at this from different perspectives and there isn't any one-size-fits-all answer. I personally think that most of what you read/hear on the net is complete BS written by men who aren't anywhere near a real cuckold relationship with a real woman.

    I have been with my husband for 18 years and we were very kinky with BDSM right from the start. Cuckolding didn't start from my desire to have more men but came more from my husband's fantasies. We have always been really open and try to explore our fantasies as much as possible so we ventured into cuckolding.

    I really enjoy sex in all its various forms. I get really turned on by all the different things my husband and I jump into, which includes cuckolding.

    When you talk about empowerment, however, I am not sure that cuckolding is really a manifestation of empowerment. I think femdom can be but not in its hot-chick-in-leather-fantasy-enactment embodiment.

    When we really explored femdom, it got intense and very empowering. I control all the money in our house (my husband gets an allowance). My husband changed his family name to mine. My husband does most of the housework. Those things aren't necessarily "turn-ons" but they make me REALLY happy.

    Mature couples who try cuckolding are often looking for some hot fun and it doesn't have much to do with empowering the woman. It has to do with adventure and new energy. I am not sure I am really answering your question exactly but that's my two cents.
     
  4. minnieme

    minnieme New Member

    turned on by cuckoldry

    hello everyone, i am new here so i want to say hello to everyone. Hello!!! i am new to this cuckold lifestyle, and actually i am not into it. by that i mean, it was my husbands fantasy, we were married 16 years, before i finally gave in to his desire to sleep with a Black Man. we have had threesome's with women and a couple of single men. i have always been very submissive to my ex husband, but for whatever reason i would never give into him about having sex with a Black Man. when i finally give into him, it was a very great sexuall experence, one i have repeated over and over again.

    now my ex husband has never taken the backseat in any of our sexual escapades, but he did that night. Derek, my now Black Master, was very dominant, and he had James, my ex, sit in a chair and watch. that turned me on, watching James sit in a chair, stroking his white penis, while another man, a Black Man, fuck me. so from friday night, till sunday afternoon, Derek was the only man that fucked me. all James was allowed to do was watch. he also had to sleep on the couch. so yes my new found empowerment, was very much a turn on for me.
     
  5. karin

    karin New Member

    I agree with emma

    "I think it, as emily said, that we are all coming at this from different perspectives and there isn't any one-size-fits-all answer. I personally think that most of what you read/hear on the net is complete BS written by men who aren't anywhere near a real cuckold relationship with a real woman.

    Cuckolding didn't start from my desire to have more men but came more from my husband's fantasies. We have always been really open and try to explore our fantasies as much as possible so we ventured into cuckolding.

    I really enjoy sex in all its various forms. I get really turned on by all the different things my husband and I jump into, which includes cuckolding. "

    End of quote EmmaK

    My husband and me only knew eachother for 2 years when we first had an experience you can describe as cuckolding but apart from that I have to agree with EmmaK
     
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  6. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    Does it turn us on??? are you kidding ?
    OF COURSE !
     
  7. Am I really turned on?

    My dripping wet pussy never lies... Knowing my sub can presently only imagine (and suffer over) what his Mistress is doing with not only Paul the stud Bull, but also with other sub boys keeps me constantly lubricated for them.
    Naturally, I would prefer to have him tied blindfolded to the chair in my boudoir, just listening to me being pleasured by another or kneeling patiently at the foot of my bed waiting for instructions - but that is not to be at this point in time. Hence he is missing out on the immense pleasure associated with having a VERY turned-on Mistress and is truly 100% cuckold because of his own choices...
     
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  8. All4HerPleasure

    All4HerPleasure Well-Known Member

    I could not have said this any better. For us at least it is all about the sensual aspect and as a couple we have decided that we are most comfortable with hooking up with other men for MFM play. We do still occasionally hook up with other couples for full swap play but as the female I find myself having thoughts like "does he like her better than me" "does he think she is hotter than me" and so forth. Although I have fun I am not 100% comfortable seeing him with another woman normally.

    I love the experience of meeting a guy I find hot, of the flirting (I have to have more than just raw sex, the guys looks are secondary to his ability to stimulate me mentally) kissing and of slowly giving myself to him. For my husband he says he loves seeing me in this state, of climaxing. He could most likely give you a much better and clearer response but since you asked for the woman's perspective I thought I would try to answer.

    To answer a few of your other questions:

    "Do You as Woman feel you are unique in your needs or do you think most women are not truly satified with only one man, and are unaware of how much cuckolding as to offer a Woman. "

    I am satisfied with only one man? Yes, I don't need anything more as my husband has always fully satisfied me but like desert, do you need the piece of pie after dinner, no, but it definitely adds to the meal experience so why not have it.

    "Do you share your discovery with other women, for their benefit? Do you tell your daughters?"

    I have shared my experience with other women we meet in the Lifestyle but outside of that no, this is something that is best left unshared among vanilla friends or family.
     
  9. dominatrixNY

    dominatrixNY Member

    YES!
    I love it. It is a big turn on. The best to go bull hunting with my sub and find a bull in a nice bar or lounge in Manhattan. London is also very good for cuckolding! I love it...
     
  10. legshowcuck

    legshowcuck Well-Known Member

    if a dripping pussy is a sign, yes She is definitely turned on...;)
     
  11. Kathleen

    Kathleen New Member

    Hi I'm Kath 59 and to be honest not attractive, ginger hair, 38d chest. But I'll tell you I can get laid any night and yes I do get so turned on by my lifestyle and being a tart. Men are so easy and I love it. I go out 3 or 4 times a week and get laid. Sorry ladies but you should try it.
     

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