Just briefly about us. We are couple in very loving, trusting and honest relationship. She is 20, I am 30. We have been together for about 2.5yr, and we did some roleplaying on cuckold theme, we even bought chastity and had some fun with it. It was never a major thing though, just "dirty talk" and some link sending from tumblr. We both had the stance like it's something hot we might try one day. But things went differently. She developed a depression and besides everything else bad she also lost all of her sex drive. We managed to get her help after it was clear we could not handle it ourselves. That was about 8 month ago. Her depression is better now. Sex drive still zero, she find anything sexual repulsive. We did not had sex for over a year. I told her that I am not going to bother her with it until she get better, and if it persist even after that she is off the antidepressants then we might seek professional advice. .... That being said, she recently become aroused when she was talking about new hot teacher. I jokingly said we might invite him for threesome and it triggered something. We talked about it more and apparently after all the time I am too famillar, caring and "nonerotic", that she find difficult to be aroused for me. We spoke some more and I told her that no other people will be involved until we fix our sex life and also her depression for good. Although my cuckold nature think it was still little bit hot. The idea of her having sex, while I am in the "not erotic" category was at least interesting. What are your thought? Our relationship is strong and we have no problems except we do not have any kind of sex now. And I think it's not a good time to provoke any cuckold-(ish) things, even though I would very wish to do so. Her sex drive is low, but I am starting to think it maybe because of me. How I treated her in non sexual ways, so she don't feel pushed. You know, we call each other cute names and such. I can see why I may be not so "hot" anymore. Still I am 80% sure it's not a good time to play with this, but I am not certain.