Maybe this is a controversial headline but I cannot understand why there seems to so much focus on BBC and white women wanting black men and even here this is an interracial forum. Surely, the focus is on cuckolding with another man/bull not what their colour is. And if the cuckoldresses desire is on finding a man with a big cock then surely it doesnt matter if the man is black or white. The reason I raise this is that I am white and working in Africa and my wife is black. We are exploring cuckolding and hotwifing but my wife does not want to go with a black as black mens attitude to women is poor. It seems to be true that on average black men do have bigger cocks than white guys but my wife would never choose a big cock over the type of man that she would like to meet and have sex with. Now that I have lived in Africa for a few years I have become ambivalent to differences between black and white even though there are many. So what drives the desire for BBC or 'wanting black'.