Why I left and why I want to come back

Discussion in 'Real Life Experiences' started by Clarepear, Nov 21, 2018.

  1. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    I left because there's creepy people in the cuckold community. I mean total creeps. Rapist-type creeps. I want away from them. Even cuckolds can be rapists, they demand satisfaction of their fetish, and when they don't get it they lose their shit. There are creeps on these boards, and maybe I'll leave again because of them.

    Michael was by far the worst. He still posts here. That bothers me. I don't want to be defeated by rapists like him though. He invents stories and demands I play along in his twisted narrative. As a Canadian I could have mapleleafs over my breasts, and he would start talking to me about a fictitious time when maple syrup was sucked off my breasts. It was weird.

    I want to come back because there's amazing people here, like Deanna Houston, Boobie Girl, Saturn, and the rest. I loved connecting with you all! And hopefully Michael and the rest of the creeps keep their distance and don't post on my posts.
  2. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I agree. Fortunately, this site has a "block" function and I use it. It has made the experience here much more pleasant.
  3. gwil1414

    gwil1414 Member

    Let’s be honest, this is a twisted and exquisite fantasy. It will draw many types. Do not let the outliers shape your view. No matter the subject matter they will always be there. Enjoy this for what it is and be cautious. Report those that blatantly offend and scroll past those that are just creepy. I wish you well and hope you are a positive to this community as if persons like you go away it takes from the community and is left in their hands.
  4. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I agree so much with your well-stated post, except for two words in the very beginning:

    It is neither "twisted" nor a "fantasy." Several years ago, while married to my ex-wife, I would have agreed with you. I would not have considered it possible, let alone desirable, to be happily married to a woman who has sex with others. My wife now, Audrey, who honestly told me of her sexual nature from the time we first dated and insisted on remaining nonmonogamous if I wanted to marry her, opened my eyes to the true nature of sexuality, and of love.
  5. Kudalskies

    Kudalskies Well-Known Member Founding Member

    I'd say the same about my wife almost exactly as you described, but she's my wife and I'm still with her. We stopped the lifestyle, I had to. Not sure if we ever go into it again.
  6. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    I get frustrated with private massages asking where I am from and asking for pictures. I"m NOT here to share where I live, WAAAAY too many wacko's out there. I came here to share with similar couples and their experiences. Not here to send pics to trolls either...
  7. waynerobertson

    waynerobertson Well-Known Member

    Welcome back. Many leave but eventually return. Some do leave and never return. I am glad to see you are back.
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  8. canadianwittol

    canadianwittol Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Hi Clare, my fellow Canadian, welcome back.

    I am sorry to hear that a member of this community has abused you. If it's who I suspect it is I must share my suspicion that he is not who he claims to be and not 1/10th as smart as he thinks he is. His posts are pedantic and tiresome, lacking in any credibility.

    You are quite right: don't let anyone keep you out of this community. Just pick carefully those you associate with, as in "real" life. There are good people here to. I have made many friends here, even offline, having even met a couple in person! Others I have spoken with on the phone. They know that I'm real...and I know likewise about them.

    What have you been up to, Clarepear? Tell us of your adventures!
  9. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    EXCELLENT post and Point, Clarepear. I was another one that Left. For pretty much the same reasons/posters (Deena Houston told me very similar reasons/posters that drove she and Jeff to disappear). Additionally one took this Unique Forum Dedicated to a SEXUAL Lifestyle into one of the 2 Areas/Topics that don't belong on Most Community Forums. Let alone one Dedicated to SEX. Of course I am talking about politics and religion. Those on this Forum All have Very different Feelings and Beliefs on those 2 Areas/Topics that they Both are SURE to Alienate at Least Some others on this site. There are MANY Forums, Dedicated to those Areas/Topics. Those 2 subjects can Alienate even Friends and Family, let alone fellow Forum members. Saturn's disappearance was a GREAT Lost to this site. He would Not let these things occur while still remaining Reasonable and Fair. We spoke privately Many times and I still Worry/Wonder about his disappearance.

    I've been gone pretty much as long as you were. Leaving shortly after you. Almost a year ago and this is my first post back. WELCOME back and we'll see how it goes.
    Last edited: Dec 6, 2018
  10. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    Deanna is gone?! Photos of that woman's nipples are the reason I stayed for so long!
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  11. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Yeah she and Jeff left just before I did I believe. We sent some private messages back and forth a few times. Where she explained that they got turned off by the way the forum was going with some of the members. Especially after Saturn's disappearance before that. Without him as a mediator this site which I and many others found to be by far the best out of all the others was becoming like the other sites. But I've been thinking for awhile now, like you that maybe that's why posters like you and hopefully I are needed around here. So I Hope you give it another shot too.

    Yes her nipples and body were Awesome. But her posts (and Jeff's perspective as well) were just as Awesome.
    Last edited: Dec 8, 2018

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