Audrey has had other lovers, both men and women, continuously since our first date. She was up front early on about being nonmonogamous, and didn't expect that her relationship with me would culminate in marriage. Audrey is Worth It, and quite frankly, it had no effect on me that she needed sex with others. Two things - she was honest about it (and in control), and she never denied me sex. My thinking was that just about every wife has fucked other people before you, and will fuck people after you've gone, so what's the big deal if she's enjoying other dick and cunt now? Having said that, I did evolve greatly, and quickly, from being detached about her sexual activities to becoming involved and enjoying it immensely. When we became serious about a life together, we decided that I should at least meet her lovers socially. That went well, and eventually I joined in, sharing with Audrey her first MFM and DP experiences. (She previously had many FFMs, preferring married couples.) Now we're to the point where we do couples play as well.