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Whose first experience watching was mind blowing good?

Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by sexpunta, Jan 17, 2010.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Audrey has had other lovers, both men and women, continuously since our first date. She was up front early on about being nonmonogamous, and didn't expect that her relationship with me would culminate in marriage. Audrey is Worth It, and quite frankly, it had no effect on me that she needed sex with others. Two things - she was honest about it (and in control), and she never denied me sex. My thinking was that just about every wife has fucked other people before you, and will fuck people after you've gone, so what's the big deal if she's enjoying other dick and cunt now?


    Having said that, I did evolve greatly, and quickly, from being detached about her sexual activities to becoming involved and enjoying it immensely. When we became serious about a life together, we decided that I should at least meet her lovers socially. That went well, and eventually I joined in, sharing with Audrey her first MFM and DP experiences. (She previously had many FFMs, preferring married couples.) Now we're to the point where we do couples play as well.
     
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  2. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Finally answering the question, the first time I saw Audrey fucking another guy, it was good, it was exciting (I fucked her like crazy for the next week), but mostly it was interesting. Despite thinking that I knew Audrey's body and her sexual/orgasmic reactions, I saw parts of her I hadn't seen before (at least in that way), and found that she reacts totally differently with different sex partners. Audrey has said the same about me. In a way, I was prepared because I knew she was fucking other people, but watching is indeed different.


    As some swingers say, it's like watching the best porn ever. I agree, but with porn there's no emotional attachment, and you're not going to fuck the girl afterwards. Emotions have gone away now because of the MFMing, and also because most times if I'm there I'm distracted by fucking the other guy's wife.
     
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  3. justdouss

    justdouss New Member

    I really enjoy the sloppy seconds!
     
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  4. justdouss

    justdouss New Member

    WOW!! My wife like the BIG ONES too.
     
  5. gwil1414

    gwil1414 Member

    Your wife’s pic is awesome. Would be honored to let her sit on my face if ever in Tampa
     
  6. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    My first time is posted on this site, it CHANGED MY LIFE FOREVER
    I now have two full time lovers who are hung like a horse and man that's the ticket !!
    My one guy has been living with us for a month now during the virus, we're having a LOT of fun in this difficult time
     
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  7. SmallFry

    SmallFry Active Member

    I already had developed a major SPH fetish which has its fair share of thrills in many ways but the first time I watched a much better endowed guy fucking my wife while I played with my tiny penis produced a massively strong ejaculation.
     
  8. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    From the visual standpoint, Audrey is more interested in a guy's testicles and sack. She says she can make any cock work for her.
     
  9. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink Member

    One of the first times I saw my wife sucking another guy we were in a hot tub with another couple. She was over with the other husband while the other wife was jerking me off under the water while we were exploring each other’s mouths. Out of the corner of my eye I see the other guys now sitting on the side of the hot tub and my wife’s sucking his dick. I was mesmerized I actually turned the other wife around and told her to look what our partners are doing. We stopped what we were doing and moved over to watch my wife work his dick. The other wife started sucking on my wife’s tits, fingering her and helping suck her husbands dick. I just ended up playing with their pussies and asshole from behind until the other husband came.
     
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  10. AstaSilva

    AstaSilva New Member

    Can't wait for my first experience!
     
  11. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink Member

    How close are you to having your first experience
     
  12. AstaSilva

    AstaSilva New Member

    We're finding someone to watch us have sex first. Then we'll go from there.
     
  13. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink Member

    Hey whatever it takes. Everyone’s journey is different. Truthfully the journey is in some aspects better than when you have your first full on experience.
     
  14. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    If you can, I suggest finding a couple who will do likewise.
     
  15. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink Member

    If you think everything will work out exactly as you planned, in the order that you planned you will end up putting unnecessary stress on yourself. When I was working up to watching my wife the first time I had this one particular fantasy in my head and I just knew that’s how it would happen. Well when it finally did happen it was nothing like what I had planned out in my head. Wasn’t even close. So I ended up stressing about how I could make all of my ideas fall into place instead of just taking it as it happens no matter the situation.
     
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  16. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Agreed. Although there was nothing stressful about it, just different. Audrey and I were dating for around five months and were preparing to move in together when we decided that I should actually be there when she had sex with her lovers.

    With the first couple, I expected that Audrey would fuck him the same way she did me, and was really eager to see her with another woman. The surprise was how different she was, almost another woman. She dominated him, was sub to his wife, the sex with them was totally unlike that with me. Afterwards Audrey told me I was naïve for expecting everything to be the same when the reason for fucking other people is the variety.

    There were differences with the others as well. I came to understand that Audrey is a connoisseur of sex.
     
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  17. SmallFry

    SmallFry Active Member

    Absolutely concur. For me it was like watching someone I know in a porn movie. Her actions and reactions with the other guy were totally different. Of course I didn't exactly watch myself having sex with her before so this was like watching her have sex for the first time. She never orgasmed before when I fucked her (only by other means) but she certainly did with him or else she would have made a superb porn actress if she were faking it.
    I had no idea what to expect before it all happened. I didn't even know if I would actually enjoy the reality of another man fucking her. I did and to a degree that surpassed even my fantasy speculations.
     
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  18. Do you have pictures of your wife?
    What's your strategy for finding someone (I saw a post on this site)..
    What's the backstory/details of your wife?

    You have never been cuckolded before but you are sure you are ready for it?
     
  19. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Audrey says she always cums: with me, another man, or a woman. She's good at that.

    Audrey having sex with others was an abstraction to me that neither bothered nor excited me before I watched, then participated. Afterwards, I agree with your assessment.
     

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