What is the line between hotwifing and cuckolding? My wife has never tried to humiliate me while she is having sex with another man. She has had playmates that are much larger than I am and have given her sensations and touched her in places that she'll never experience with me. She still loves me as her husband but she craves the feelings she experiences with some of the more well endowed playmates. Most of them have been respectful but there is always the asshole. They can obviously see that they are bigger than I am. My wife loves getting fucked. She loves getting fucked by different men of all shapes and sizes. She loves bringing them to an orgasm. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. Knowing that they are cumming in her gives her great satisfaction. I don't understand it and I don't care. Knowing they are cumming in her gives me great satisfaction also. She went from being shy and nervous from the time I talked her into trying it to a cock hungry slut. She loves me watching her getting fucked. She knows I like seeing it and she wants to make me happy. My wife can't help herself but to really enjoy getting fucked by a big cock. She doesn't want me to feel bad. I understand. I'm happy that she is enjoying it. The asshole seeing that she is enjoying it so much and knowing that I am smaller will be a little rough with her. She loves getting fucked aggressively by a man with a big cock and a big cock attitude. I love seeing that. What bothers me is his attempt to humiliate me. I'll play along. She'll play along. I'm always ready to stop things if he gets too crazy and she knows it. I'm thinking is he being serious or is it just a game? Is he trying to give us both what he thinks we are expecting? I understand that what we expect might be different than what he thinks he needs to do to please us. To please her. He is making a serious effort to please her. I guess this why some "swingers", "hotwifers" discuss "rules" with a potential playmate. I/we were never into rules. We like to let things flow. We have never been in an out of control situation. There have been moments when I or she has gotten the urge to stop things but everything worked out in the end. I don't consider myself to be a cuckold but there have been attempts to treat me like one. Not by her but by him. So if I let someone treat me like a cuckold and I make him think I'm a cuckold does that make me a cuckold? I don't think so. That's my opinion.