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What is the line between hotwifing and cuckolding

Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by fkmywfxn, Jun 3, 2018.

  1. fkmywfxn

    fkmywfxn Well-Known Member

    What is the line between hotwifing and cuckolding?

    My wife has never tried to humiliate me while she is having sex with another man. She has had playmates that are much larger than I am and have given her sensations and touched her in places that she'll never experience with me. She still loves me as her husband but she craves the feelings she experiences with some of the more well endowed playmates.

    Most of them have been respectful but there is always the asshole. They can obviously see that they are bigger than I am.

    My wife loves getting fucked. She loves getting fucked by different men of all shapes and sizes. She loves bringing them to an orgasm. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. Knowing that they are cumming in her gives her great satisfaction. I don't understand it and I don't care. Knowing they are cumming in her gives me great satisfaction also.

    She went from being shy and nervous from the time I talked her into trying it to a cock hungry slut. She loves me watching her getting fucked. She knows I like seeing it and she wants to make me happy.

    My wife can't help herself but to really enjoy getting fucked by a big cock. She doesn't want me to feel bad. I understand. I'm happy that she is enjoying it.

    The asshole seeing that she is enjoying it so much and knowing that I am smaller will be a little rough with her. She loves getting fucked aggressively by a man with a big cock and a big cock attitude. I love seeing that.

    What bothers me is his attempt to humiliate me. I'll play along. She'll play along. I'm always ready to stop things if he gets too crazy and she knows it. I'm thinking is he being serious or is it just a game? Is he trying to give us both what he thinks we are expecting? I understand that what we expect might be different than what he thinks he needs to do to please us. To please her. He is making a serious effort to please her.

    I guess this why some "swingers", "hotwifers" discuss "rules" with a potential playmate.

    I/we were never into rules. We like to let things flow. We have never been in an out of control situation. There have been moments when I or she has gotten the urge to stop things but everything worked out in the end.

    I don't consider myself to be a cuckold but there have been attempts to treat me like one. Not by her but by him.

    So if I let someone treat me like a cuckold and I make him think I'm a cuckold does that make me a cuckold? I don't think so. That's my opinion.
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  2. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    First, it doesn't matter what you call it, you either like it or you don't. Some people think MFM is gay. I MFM with my wife and other guys' wives and don't care about labels.

    Audrey and I (and our play partners) have no rules as to sexual activities like no alone play or no anal or no kissing (that one is really stupid), but neither of us would tolerate assholes. It's one of the big reasons that Audrey never had sex with a lover, even a woman, until after around ten dates.

    I don't know if you would even consider me a cuckold now since I fuck other women who are also Audrey's lovers. But again, who cares about labels? More like swingers, although Audrey has much more outside sex than I do. Dick size doesn't seem to factor in, we're all about the same and the women are always getting it off good regardless.
    Last edited: Jun 7, 2018
  3. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    We don't do the whole humiliation thing, that being said my lovers will usually in the course of a lovemaking session look over at my hubby and say, "look how she loves my big cock"
    Then after they cum in me say, " ok now you can have your reward" or something to that effect.
  4. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    It's probable not true, but I have always believed that being a cuckold is more inline with humiliation. My wife and I never had an interest in the humiliation aspect of wife sharing. She loved to fuck and I loved to watch her fuck. To be honest, the humilation part is a big turn-off for us.
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  5. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Well put, same here. Initially, Audrey loves to fuck and it didn't matter to me, I just wanted her to be happy. After I started watching then participating in MFMs, and occasional MFMFs and FFMs (Audrey likes pussy), the whole thing is a turn on even when I'm not there.

    I have also developed the belief that Audrey fucking other people is the opposite of humiliation. It is an affirmation of her attractiveness and desirability. She chose her partners carefully after many dates and they are long-term. Each of them, men and women, are very respectful towards me. The married ones now have me occasionally fucking their wives, and the single guys are envious that I have Audrey as my wife.
    Last edited: Jun 11, 2018
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