I don't post on here as much as I used to. Some of you may recollect my stories, but basically my story is my g/f and my sex life has dwindled over the past couple years (been together over six) to virtually nothing now. We're affectionate and still very much care for each other. But sex is basically nil. On our most recent vacation together to Dominican Republic for a week, we had "sex" once. And that was not penetrative sex. She buzzed herself with a vibrator while I sucked on her tits, and then after she came, I beat off while she vibrated my nipples (which for some reason has become my thing in recent months). I even asked her if she wanted to hop on top of my erect cock, which was standing pretty tall at over 5-1/2", but she didn't even answer me and conveyed without response she had no interest in actually fucking me. Anyway, and keep in mind we are a bit on the older side at mid-50's but decent shape and physical health, just wondering how many guys, gals, our couples prefer the situation where the gal denies the guy sex but maybe there's still sexual interest; versus the lady that just doesn't have any interest in you any more. I would think the former would be better, but many of the posts I've read on here over time leads me to believe some guys actually like just not being of any sexual interest to their women. Would love to here your thoughts on this. Jeff S.