My pleasure, Bartleby. Yes, I know the deadly effectiveness of that Intellectual Hippy Esoteric-Aesthete style too, in fact intimately through having practised it myself in my late teens with much success with married women. I even had the shoulder-length hair and sexy physique for it and got around shirtless and in the aforesaid hip-huggers and mercilessly exploited my advantage of Youth over husbands in their 30s and 40s, especially those with younger wives. Being bisexual I, probably inevitably, fell "victim" to like exploitation by a teenager when more than 4 years ago I paraded the mouth-watering physical charms of my best buddy (then 19) before my wife. Unlike me he is uncircumcised---a huge bonus in in her eyes (and mine) and is still equally sharing our marriage bed and--less equally--my irredeemably besotted wife. Obviously, things are set to get sexually even trippier for you than they are now, Bartleby. But only if you take it leisurely and lovingly with your wife and do not pressure her for thrust-by-thrust spurt-by-spurt details of her night with Lover-Boy. If you let the delicious details come out naturally and in her own time it will be all the hotter for you. I speak from rich Experience.