Unsure if this will end well

Discussion in 'Emotional Support' started by Bartleby, Aug 29, 2017.

  1. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    My pleasure, Bartleby.

    Yes, I know the deadly effectiveness of that Intellectual Hippy Esoteric-Aesthete style too, in fact intimately through having practised it myself in my late teens with much success with married women. I even had the shoulder-length hair and sexy physique for it and got around shirtless and in the aforesaid hip-huggers and mercilessly exploited my advantage of Youth over husbands in their 30s and 40s, especially those with younger wives.

    Being bisexual I, probably inevitably, fell "victim" to like exploitation by a teenager when more than 4 years ago I paraded the mouth-watering physical charms of my best buddy (then 19) before my wife. Unlike me he is uncircumcised---a huge bonus in in her eyes (and mine) and is still equally sharing our marriage bed and--less equally--my irredeemably besotted wife.

    Obviously, things are set to get sexually even trippier for you than they are now, Bartleby. But only if you take it leisurely and lovingly with your wife and do not pressure her for thrust-by-thrust spurt-by-spurt details of her night with Lover-Boy. If you let the delicious details come out naturally and in her own time it will be all the hotter for you. I speak from rich Experience.
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  2. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    Thanks for the advice, I will follow that. I have figured it out myself that our relationship isn't of the type where she goes out to fuck so her husband gets to hear the details. She promised me details, but only because this is my fair part of the deal. Because this situation is also an emotional roller coaster for her, I should tone it down and let things develop smoothly. I think it is good to hear this from you as well to strengthen my resolve to not demand too much information, even though I feel I deserve it.
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  3. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    My thoughts exactly Bartleby. Except for you feeling that you deserve detailed information, or in fact any. You don't.

    When we relinquish our wife to a lover, especially when he is younger than us, we give her license, and it is her absolute right, to love and enjoy him without disclosing anything at all to us husbands about the way he makes love to her and how she responds to him. Even after 4 years of my buddy passionately co-husbanding my wife with me, mostly beside me in our marriage bed, I know---and my wife quietly confirms---there are many things about his body and the way he makes love to her that she ecstasises over way more than she ever did over mine when I had her wholly to myself.

    I believe that my albeit agonising ignorance of their private loves and ecstasies should be allowed to remain. It leaves my wife free to explore and enjoy my buddy's body and mind in his fucking of her in ways that I know have been developing and very privately thrilling her more and more, especially over the last 18 months as my observation of their lovemaking in our threesomes makes all too clear to me. It also allows her to recognise and "own" my buddy erotically in ways I never have and never will but passionately desire her to.

    I know from hints, and they are only hints, truly innocently made to me by my buddy, that their lovemaking in private is beautiful beyond my imagining. For me to hang out for or beg the delicious details of it from him or my wife would be to trespass on holy ground. My ignorance of the details does, however, give my extremely visuo-erotic and fertile mind total freedom to imagine what they might be and always to hotly embellish them, and I get off on that shamelessly, more wildly and convulsively than I would want my beautiful wife and buddy ever to know.
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  4. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    thanks for sharing. Interesting fodder for thought, good to read this from someone with experience. Whether I deserve information or not is an intriguing question that has two different answer depending on which angle you look at it. However, even if I deserve information, that does not make it wise to ask for it. I think I will restrain my curiosity and hunger for turn-ons. My mind games are horny enough, to be honest.
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  5. CuckPride

    CuckPride Well-Known Member

    You handled your first night alone very well. Everyone seems to be getting what they want from this arrangement.
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  6. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    My wife has done her best to be a good hotwife. She had put a pad on her pussy in an attempt to keep the sex fluids and smell in; I had not even asked for it. That worked pretty well I enjoyed licking the pussy that the lover had inserted his penis into not so long ago. My wife told me he had given her great orgasms. The lover told her that he adores her body. So do I, I get excited by looking at her just like I did when i met her 12 years ago.

    Again we had a chat about the situation that added a few pieces to the puzzle that I am yet to fully solve. I told her about the rollercoaster of emotions that I went through in the night and she admitted to always and still having feelings of guilt. She had seduced him, who at first was reluctant to accept her because he knew about me and didn't want to hurt me.

    My wife is not sure just how far his interest in her goes. It seems like she wants to truly be a bigamist, establish a lasting secondary relationship and have a husband and a boyfriend. I am amazed at how well she is handling this so far. I feel truly loved and desired by her while at the same time she must be in honeymoon mode with the other guy. She does not want to know about the other partners her lover has. I see this in a different way and she agreed that I would be able to talk to him in the near future.

    So far, everything is great. Maybe she will be able to sneak in another night with her lover on Saturday before her period sets in. I am pretty sure he is banging her hard and that is why she goes there. Maybe next time I can step it up a little bit and ask her to send me a short message when they are done fucking, etc. Small steps in my ultimate goal to watch them and suck his cock afterwards.
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  7. CuckPride

    CuckPride Well-Known Member

    You sound a lot more confident in the strength of your marriage than you have previously. I hope you and your wife continue to grow even closer.
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  8. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    yes, we are both very happy. We feel that our sex life and affection grew much stronger since she is not monogamous anymore. We got so used to each other, now we feel the entire relationship has been revitalised. I think it also helps to motivate me to make an effort to be a better husband in daily life. Eg. by paying more attention to avoid doing the things she dislikes. A strange path that is. Who would have thought that her infidelity would improve the marriage?
  9. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    I would have, Bartleby. And you obviously thought it would too.

    At the moment this looks like "ending" very well for the three of you. Long may it continue.

    By the way, was it the 20 year-old polyamory hippie she spent the night with?
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  10. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I still don't know. I told my wife she should tell me who her lover is once she is ready for it. If it is indeed the 20yo, I hope she does this rather sooner than later. I see him a lot lately and I would feel stupid (and it is probably awkward for him) to learn that I have been innocently chatting with that guy for a month or so without knowing anything. I'd also think that it would be silly if they have to act all normal when they are both around me in social settings. They should at least be able to greet each other physically. Ok, if they want to keep it secret from society that is their problem and does not bother me.

    Some comments made by my wife even suggest that I don't know this guy.
  11. open2it

    open2it Well-Known Member

    I don't think you have any reason to feel "stupid" around any lovers your wife may take any more then he should feel "stupid" around you. After all, you both share something that's precious between you. It's a very unique bond that should be celebrated if for no other reason then your wife's happiness and pleasure. Don't let cuckold stereotypes dampen the joy of being married to a sexy, confident cuckoldress.
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  12. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I use the word stupid for lack of a better term. Even though I admit that I am still sometimes plagued by such stereotypes. What I mean is this awkward feeling when I am looking at this guy and knowing that he knows but we both are not at liberty to talk. I think he does not like it either.

    Ok, I am pretty certain now that it is indeed the 20 year old. Fun, Fun, Fun. The three of us just spent the a large part of the weekend together. I felt a bit of awkwardness towards me coming from him. At times, I had bouts of jealousy which I believe just came from the circumstance that I am not meant to know but still know.

    My wife will probably want to spend the night with him soon. This may be an opportunity to ask her to release us from this situation I feel is stupid. Apart from this game of pretense, I see other advantages to officially be in the know: We could, for example hang out together and my wife will go home with him rather than with me afterwards. Which is not possible now, because that would obviously reveal the "secret".
  13. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    It must be agonisingly hot for you Bartleby to know that it is indeed--as I thought--that fun-loving spunky polyamorous lad that is into your wife, It would be for me.

    Your bouts of jealousy will no doubt soon become deliciously arousing for you. The hardest part for you could well be abstaining from eavesdropping on your wife and him fucking on your marriage bed when your wife goes home alone with him or spends the night with him.

    By now you wife will almost ceratinly know how well-hung he is and possibly, first hand, how copiously he cums.

    If I were you I would already be dying to watch Lover-Boy fucking your wife.
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  14. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    my wife just made up a silly excuse to obviously spend an hour or so with him. Trying to hide who her lover is is getting to the point of being ridiculous. I think for the sake of good communication and honesty, she should tell me now. Maybe she will once she is back.

    I would have loved to have a chat with the other polyamorous friend we have. I had thought for a while that it may be him. Just had the opportunity to do so, but I didn't to fulfil the wishes of my dear wife. It is hard sometimes not have a friend to talk to.
  15. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    So she came home an hour later than would be normal, telling me that she had a beer with that young guy. I was a bid pissed off because I felt she should have told me about him earlier or at least sent me a message that she is staying later.
    For some reason, I didn't raise an argument. Just didn't feel like it, still rolling along with her silly game,

    Right now she has left for work after telling me that she is not coming home tonight. At this opportunity, I asked her to stop with the pretence game and she told me that it is indeed the young guy!
    She just wanted to avoid the awkwardness during the weekend, and has caused more awkwardness by her inaction.

    We hugged a kissed deeply when saying goodbye.

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  16. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    So it is indeed the young guy, your wife is spending tonight with him, and you have made no protest against that?? Your complicity is admirable and probably additionally arousing for your wife and Lover-Boy.

    I find that you deep-kissed her on her way out to work very hot indeed. I and probably your wife and her young lover too can only assume your anticipation and imagining him fucking her through tonight and tomorrow morning is exciting you like crazy.

    Your wife is playing no "silly game", Bartleby. She has simply but plainly very seriously chosen to take a very spunky and bold young lover for her deeper and longer-lasting sexual pleasure. The lad is sure to be multi-orgasmic, as your wife almost certainly will be with him too.

    Welcome to Sex Heaven.

    If I were you I would be hoping that Lover-Boy goes the whole way and fucks your wife bareback and doesn't withdraw when he cums.
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  17. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    As arousing as your post is, I certainly don't want my wife to get pregnant from some hippy twink who can only afford rubber boots as footwear! My wife is against chemical contraception.

    I will certainly be aroused all night long. good that I don't have anything else to do apart from doing the dishes.
  18. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    "Hippy twink"? LOL !! Don't those hotwives just LOVE hippy twinks?---not only for their beautifully sexy smiles and super-smooth well-toned bodies, but for their cute arses and sexual stamina too. Tell me about it!

    Deep kissing one's wife as she leaves to spend a night with an exquisitely attractive, super-hung, super-potent and reckless twink is simply inviting her to let him bareback her or, if they use a condom first time up, to want him to fuck her so hard and deep that he ruptures it and heavily inseminates her.

    For your sake, I hope your wife had an IUD fitted in anticipation of Lover-Boy fucking her to Sex Heaven and inseminating her many times over as it is very clear he fully intends to do and, it appears, you may, deep-down, want him to.
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  19. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I just had a chat with my wife's young lover yesterday. We were alone, and he seemed to be nervous. I told him that I don't want awkwardness between us and want us to be friends. That seems to have eased him a bit. I hope it worked. I hugged him on the way out.

    My wife told me he has anxiety problems. She was happy to hear about our chat.

    There is no way I can describe this guy as a "bull"! he is just a very young, good looking twink. The type my wife is into. He is certainly not what is described as "alpha male". I think that may broaden the horizon of some forum members a bit.
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  20. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    Just as I thought, Bartleby---"he is just a very young, good looking twink", "with anxiety problems" and who seemed to be nervous with you. Hot!! Those shy types are often very beautiful in bed, their cocks often springing instantly to life under an eager wife's caresses.

    Are you physically attracted to him such that you would want some gay play with him?

    It's good you had a chat with him and "eased him a bit", and hugged him on the way out---closely enough to press your crotch to his I trust.

    Thanks for broadening my horizon----and my cock :p
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