I just started to be a cuckold involuntarily. I am unsure how this will possibly end and would love it if someone could give me advice, encouragement and a bit of support. Here is the story: I am 44, my wife is 38. We have been happily married for 12 years, no kids. We cuddle a lot, but there is definitely a lack of sexual activity. We do it once a month or even less. We used to fuck all the time when we were a new couple. So last Saturday my wife tells me that she had been with another man a week ago. She says she would like to polyamory and have me and him at the same time. The reason she told me about the cheating is that she did not want to lie to me. I am a bit shocked at this, of course. Then I tell her that I can't blame her and that I would have probably done the same in her situation. But I also say that I am afraid that she might like him more than me and eventually leave me. I hint that I would prefer "Don't ask don't tell". We had sex on saturday before she told me, then we had sex on sunday and yesterday and this morning as well. Ever since she told me I am totally hot for her. She has been incredibly loving and reassuring since she told me. Now I have thought a lot about this before I came to my current decision. I figured that not allowing her to have someone else is lazy , selfish and cowardly. What right do I have for this? Do I just fear the competition and don't want to allow it in? I also realised that obviously the sex has become a lot better in the few days since Saturday. I think about her juicy grotto all the time now. She is much hotter in bed than before. Therefore, I have told her that I am fine with her having a boyfriend. Don't ask don't tell would not work in our lives. If she wants to see him, she should just tell me and go. I told her I am very aroused by her having someone else and a bit of competition would do good. Emotionally, maybe I will realise that there is no competition at all. my wife was happy and told me how much she loves me. Now I am hoping that she will want to see her lover very soon. I hope that this will lead to great sex with my wife. Just like it is now. On the other side, I fear that this may not work out this way and that she will simply prefer him over me.