Many women seem to be attracted to two very different kinds of men. Call them betas and alphas, dads and cads, nice guys and bad boys. I've known women who go in for serial monogamy, choosing one kind of guy but later regretting it and ending the relationship before choosing the other kind. And when that goes wrong, they swap back again the next time round. Others try to find a guy who combines elements of both - with more or less success. But as cuckold relationships become better known, I think many women will discover that they can have both kinds of men at the same time. I read some research which found that women often prefer more gentle 'nice guys' when they are not fertile, but their preference changes around the time of ovulation. As my wife told me once, 'Some men are for making babies, others are for raising them'. I was obviously the latter kind. But, for me, the most difficult issue was accepting that our friends and colleagues (and some family) knew that I was happily raising another man's child. My wife's aunt, who she was very close to, was not at all surprised, though. My wife had already told her that I was being 'broken in' by regular cuckolding, and I would make a wonderful nanny when the time came.