We are currently into a 2 year relationship with one of my lovers, 4 months with the other. I had no idea this lifestyle was so common (if in fact it is). That being said it appears it is as there are so many members here. Wonder how many are wannabees and how many practice this. I must say it is VERY rewarding to have found this site to be able to share with other lifestylers this crazy path we're on. I thought we were alone floating down this river but obviously not. Thank you to all the members for being so kind and understanding. !!!!