I've played the bull several times throughout my teenage years and my early 20s but recently for the first time I became a married womanâ€™s regular â€œboyfriendâ€. It's been great and exciting and a fresh change from the one night stands (which can get repetitive). But I've run into serious issue. Last month the wife opened up to me and admitted that she has been seriously considering leaving her husband. She resents him for keeping his cuckold desires a secret from her all this time and she really feels betrayed. As much as she is game to play around now when they're young and child free she doesn't want spend her life and raise kids in a cuckold relationship. She likes to play and get kinky in the bedroom from time to time but the husband is desperately forcing a 24/7 all or nothing cuckold lifestyle. I've tried to talk to the husband and warn him of where things are going but because he's always in â€œcuckold modeâ€ I cant get a genuine, sober answer from him. But the last few days things have gotten a little fucked up. Now when she humiliates her husband there's genuine hate in her voice. There's a spite in her eyes that wasn't there when we first started fooling around. It's not the â€œdon't worry, I actually love him, were just fooling around, it's all consensualâ€ type of humiliation I'm used to. I confronted her about this and she admitted that she wants to leave her husband but rather than simply divorcing him she wants to take things to the extreme and push him past his limits to the point where â€œhe breaks down and divorces herâ€. I don't have a problem with extremes but I do have a problem with whether or not something is consensual. And this feels like non-consensual revenge to me. The husband seems to enjoy it but I can't be sure because pretending to be shocked and hurt and beg his wife to stop was always part of the play. If I pull him aside when his wife isn't around I cant get a straight answer from him because he's always playing the cuckold. He cant just stop for a moment and talk about what he wants from all of this. I've thought about just leaving but I can't help be feel responsible in some ways. I mistakenly assumed that she wanted a 24/7 cuckold relationship like her husband and encouraged and facilitated a lot of it. I enjoy the extreme and the crazy but I don't want to move forward with it unless I know everyone actually wants it. I don't know if anyone's been in this situation before, I couldn't find much about it on the internet. If anyone has advice (especially from cuckolds whose wives left them) that would be helpful.