Yes very true. I actually quite like the idea that at least some of it is actually her dream / plan. She seems like a total hotwife at the moment, and the time it is taking (which is still very small, just a few months), is mostly because she is making sure it is all ok with me it seems. Its hard to figure out whose idea is what, as ideas and conversations build and grow from one another. As you say, who cares! It is going great right now.