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Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by Lakeslad, Dec 1, 2016.

  1. Lakeslad

    Lakeslad Active Member

    I have a query about this. Not out and out chastity as such, but when there are limitations on a husband's sexual access to his wife. Maybe for a short period of time; maybe some limitations in the type of access - certain acts prohibited, for instance.

    What are people's experience of this? Who initiated it? What did the husband, the wife, the lover get out of it? Maybe it was just a price worth paying for ....

    This is intellectual curiosity. My wife (currently) has two regular lovers and our sex life is at least as frequent and as varied as it was when she was faithful. All that has changed is the (lack of) exclusivity.

    I also hope I have Oates this in the correct forum; I was unsure.
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  2. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Hi Lakeslad, Jeff and I are more similar to you and your wife. He has full access to me, and I love to fuck him. He has mad skill in bed and I try to tap him at least once a day. I think of him as my walking, talking, fucktoy. I would not fit well with a cuck that couldn't fuck. It would be to hard on me to not have the regular access.

    That said, I do not prioritize his orgasm, his cock is "mine" and I use him. He is for my pleasure. I love telling him to be a good boy, get naked, and go lay down. One if the reasons I married him is that he is a pleaser and loves sluts.

    I have never been monogamous with him, and never promised to be. I fuck him and others. There have been times when I get sore and need a break but it is not a superficially imposed thing. Or there are times when I "use" him, and then go straight to bed, instead of him getting to cum (but we both like that on occasion.)

    We try to balance his need to be used, my need for cock, and my need for more than him. As good as he is, I will always fuck bigger, harder, and better lovers. And when I am fucking them he has to wait, but when I am done with them I'll happily fuck Jeff. Deanna
  3. Clucky hubby

    Clucky hubby Well-Known Member

    I've been caged for almost a year now. I always thought it was originally my wife's idea to cage me but she told me her and her bf spoke about it first. It's hard at first and still is sometimes. But it suits my personality and our marriage.
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  4. fkmywfxn

    fkmywfxn Well-Known Member

    It happened at first by accident. He ended up being the last man to fuck her and the next man to fuck her.

    It was kind of sexy.

    Then I started teasing her if I knew we were going to be partying or if she was planning on getting together with a playmate. I wanted her to be super horny.

    I didn't mind not having sex with her in between. I love watching her getting fucked when she is super horny.
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  5. hwhub

    hwhub Member

    I was denied sex with my wife with the exception of giving her oral after intercourse with one of her bulls for about two years but we've returned to my being allowed to fuck her to prep her for one of her bulls. She really seems to enjoy having my cum lube her for his very large cock.
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  6. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Oh I like that idea.
  7. Hawke82

    Hawke82 Well-Known Member

    From the sound of it, our sexual dynamic is similar to Deanna and Jeff. My wife typically never denys me, and we have regular sex that is very satisfying for both of us. I'm not one of the clich├ęd under endowed cucks. I'm actually a respectable seven inches, and as thick as two of her better hung lovers. I'm also very good at oral, and I probably know her sexual buttons better than any of her lovers.

    Early in our relationship, I had occasional issues with PE, but just look at her, she is hot, and back then she had Phobe Cates bikini body in Fast Times at Ridgemont High. Who wouldn't have some trouble holding off when you get to play with a body like that? Decades and two children later, she still has a great figure, featuring the same great dancers legs with stand up thighs, an amazing ass that still turns heads, just a bit fuller in the hips, and she's gone from a perky full 34b, to a even fuller 34D/35C (depending on the bra).

    Over the years, despite her still being amazingly hot, I've managed to learn to control myself better, and I can last long enough to satisfy her everytime.

    That said, there are occasions when I will be denied sex from her, but that is when a favored lover is coming to town. He comes out once or twice a year, and when he does, she chooses to be sexually exclusive to him for the length of his stay (usually an extended weekend). In fact, she usually will cut me off a couple of days before his arrival, so that she is fresh and ready for him. Going without for a few days prior to his arrival, also boosts the anticipation for both of us. When he leaves, and we get back home from his hotel, we are usually both ready to reclaim eachother, but on occasion, we have had to wait a few more days, because the constant sex she had with her well hung lover, leaves her too tender and sensitive for any more sexual activity. Those are the toughest times for me, especially if I have been there to witness them together, because I'm am so turned on and ready to jump her sexy bones!
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