Recovering from Porn addiction

Discussion in 'Controversial Issues' started by Bartleby, Oct 28, 2018.

  1. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I haven't been on the forums lately because I have decided to be abstinent from porn for the rest of the year. I have realised I am too addicted and it seemed to hurt my sexual performance.

    I got dazzled by the theories of that Gary Wilson guy for a while, but now I am over his bullshit.

    So what happened is that I haven't watched porn in the last 3 weeks and haven't jerked off in the last week. Result was great sex without the use of viagra over the weekend. So I treat myself by looking at this forum, but will not take it further, no Xhamster for me.

    I don't believe in that "90 days reboot that only works if you don't touch yourself and better don't ejaculate at all" bullshit any more that Wilson is spreading, but I think I should certainly masturbate less and thus also watch less porn.

    Has anyone else ever tried this? Curing ED problems by cutting out porn?

    I really need to do this now, my wife has just lost her lover so she needs the full attention of my cock.
     
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  2. waynerobertson

    waynerobertson Well-Known Member

    First, GOOD for you. Almost all the cucks I have met watched too much porn and had ED problems. Some have tried to stop but couldn't. WHO knows YOU could be the new MAN in her life. Seriously, good luck.
     
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  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Just about any real woman, and real pussy, is better than porn and jerking off. I do jerk off, but only when neither my wife nor one of her female lovers is available, which is when I'm on a business trip.
     
  4. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I am doing surprisingly well, 23 days without porn without much withdrawal symptoms.

    I came to the conclusion that, at least for me, the problem is that too much jerking off brings my libido too low so I am just not interested enough. Maybe it is a question of age. I should only jack off a maximum of 4 times a week, and never on Fridays. We usually have sex on the weekend only. But still, no porn for me till 2019.
     
  5. waynerobertson

    waynerobertson Well-Known Member

    Keep up the good work! Seriously, you'll be tempted and want to look even if its for a just a minute. DON'T be tempted.

    Think of the REAL pussy that is waiting for you in your own bedroom.
     
  6. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Since real pussy for me is at most only hours away, even if Audrey is out of town, I get excited but can wait.
     
  7. waynerobertson

    waynerobertson Well-Known Member

    SLAP it DOWN, and when she gets home get it HARD and fuck Audrey the way she needs to be fucked.
     
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  8. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    So my wife is just out the door to meet her lover, will be hard not to masturbate, but I will make it. I hope I will get my reward for it.
     
  9. waynerobertson

    waynerobertson Well-Known Member

    When she gets home fuck her and remind her that there is ALWAYS a cock waiting at home.
     
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  10. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I even managed not to watch porn while she was gone with her lover. Ok I made it a bit easier by visiting a friend for a few hours. We had great sex afterwards.
     
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  11. Sticky_Cuck77

    Sticky_Cuck77 Active Member

    Does this work for PE too? I only masturbate to completion about once a week but when it comes to sex, I don't last long at all. I probably do watch too much porn but mostly fantasise about my wife with other men or me sucking a bulls cock.
     
  12. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    it is going quite well for me. I have my setbacks, sometimes cravings, but I thought it would be much harder to stop the porn habit.

    I don't know whether it works for PE. I personally think that fantasies are no problem if you can live those fantasies. some men struggle with being obsessed about fantasies they can't live so much that they can't get a hard on any more when they are with their partners.
     
  13. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I don't understand. So why can't a guy be fantasizing when he's with one of his partners?

    When it's just the two of us fucking, my wife Audrey will verbalize her fantasy (often fulfilled), of being in a married couple FFM, either way. She likes it where a woman is an intermediary to a married couple, the outside woman licking the wife's pussy while the husband fucks the other woman. If we're fucking, Audrey will close her eyes, imagine that I'm the other husband and fantasize about licking the wife's pussy. When I'm eating her, she imagines that the wife is licking her while I'm fucking the wife from behind.

    When I'm banging a girl (including my wife) she IS my fantasy during that time. Playing with her tits, feeling my dick in her mouth or pussy. Maybe I'm shallow or unimaginative.
     
  14. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    what I mean is e.g. the following scenario: A man fantasizes about a kink such as BDSM, femdom, or cuckolding. the thoughts about this get very strong up to the point that he is constantly masturbating to this fetish and watching the relevant porn. His wife however, does not want to try out these fetishes with him. So when the man is trying to have vanilla sex with his wife, he does not get a hard on anymore, because he wants to live his kink. The inner cinema that you are referring to is not strong enough while he is with his wife.

    A lot of people seem to have such problems. You and I apparently don't.
     
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  15. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Thanks for the explanation. Every so often I realize that despite being here on the CuckoldsForum because I married a woman who has sex with other people, I'm pretty normal. Or boring, take your pick; I have no kinks.
     
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