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Placed back into chastity.

Discussion in 'Chastity' started by surfrider, Jul 16, 2018.

  1. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    My wife just ordered me back into my chastity cage, by the way I hate being locked up.
    After about a half hour of whining and protesting on my part, she told me she was getting tired of giving me blow jobs and watching me jerk off. By the way she gives awesome blow jobs, I get to cum all over her face and tits, although she will make me lick it off her tits.
    I only get to have intercourse several times a year, then only on very special occasions.

    Even though I dislike chastity I can't disobey her, part of our agreement when we entered this lifestyle was that I would obey her completely and if I refuse we will just go back to a boring vanilla lifestyle. This I know for a fact because it's happened in the past.

    Fuck, I know this is going to be a long time, I can just tell by her attitude.
     
  2. hankhavelock

    hankhavelock Well-Known Member

    Even though I don't have experience with long-time chastity, I can easily imagine the sexual frustration building up inside as well as certain practical issues. My x-wife was actually interested in the concept, but for some reason we never got around to doing it.

    What kind of frustrations and practical issues do you usually experience and not least for how long are you normally locked-up at a time? I assume your wife is being sexually taken care of by bulls even though you're in chastity?
     
  3. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    She locked me up for six days this time. As far as frustrations go, that's all it is , it's always there and doesnt go away till she says so. Then she will play with my balls before bed just to up the frustration level.

    As far as a bull goes she has a long distance lover that she get with several times a year. I'm usually locked up when she goes to see him for long weekends.

    This time she just wanted to humiliate and tease me. The other night she had me go down on her then she used her favorite vibrator till she came several times, then gave me a peck on the cheek told me good night. That's frustrating!
     
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  4. vladdy

    vladdy Active Member

    At least she knows how to really get you frustrated. I bet you still wouldn't like it if she wasn't fucking with you a bit.
     
  5. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    If she wasn't fucking with me why be locked up? Some attention is better than no attention, even if you do go to bed frustrated.
     
  6. Kudalskies

    Kudalskies Well-Known Member Founding Member

    This is where I am at this point in my life. I pissed off my wife a few months ago when she fucked with someone I did not agree to, when I found out she came clean and told me all about him. But I still bitched that she did so she gave it all the quits and its killing me.
    Our sex life now just the way you put it "boring vanilla" every time I suggest to her to start again she feels I will be a bitch again and interfere with who to or not to play with and might become an asshole again.
    After reading some of the cuckold rules and what you just said sounds like to be a cuckold it has to be a 100% and give her a 100% liberty to be a true hotwife. Is this how it must go? and what did you do to get your wife back into the lifestyle? I know my wife is bored as me too but don't know what to do. please help. thanks.
     
  7. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    As cuckolds we all have our fantasies and expectations on how we would like them to play out, but reality never works out the way you want it to, so we we try to control it. Example, approving of her lovers, when she can see them, what's off limits and on and on...That doesn't work. I know because I did all this, it's called topping from the bottom.

    I made all the mistakes and as a result my wife got upset with me, she felt like she was doing me wrong and cheating on me and it made her feel terrible. So she was like "I don't want to do this any more". We went into a boring vanilla lifestyle, which I believe neither of us really wanted.

    I slowly asked her if we could explore a Female led relationship, she was reluctant to the idea, but open minded to it. I told her I would trust her judgement and do as I was told if she just give it a try, she agreed.

    If I want to live a cuckold lifestyle with a Hotwife I have to do as I'm told and trust her to lead the way, and believe me it's not easy for me to do. That's my problem not hers.

    Just the other night while we were playing, her disciplining me with her whip and strapon, she told she was really wanting to find a guy to fuck since it had been a while since she had a good fuck. I just said yes ma'am what ever you would like.
     
  8. Kudalskies

    Kudalskies Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Wow.. very nice. thank you.

    About a week ago I actually began to absorb and learn to accept letting her do whatever she sexually likes. She was reluctant but kind of willing to try again. first she told me she wants to back and see her sugar daddy ((the older guy who was a friend of mine who she played with (promised me only sucked his dick in his car) I no longer talk to)). I cut him off after telling him I suspected him of messing with my wife. She wants me to go back and talk to him and become friends again. I don't know how to go about that, but told her she can be his secret girl, only I to know about them.

    A couple of days later she went out with him shopping etc. nothing happened she told me, she text me told me he wants to take her to his place fool around a little I suggest not yet, too early.

    Before we started playing 3 nights ago I suggested if she likes go see him and play in his car for a half of an hour midst of our play, she thought (he's an older guy and she's a much younger girl, rather go to his place or hotel where he babies her), she says he respects me so much, I don't want to be slutty to him playing in backseat of his car. I agreed.

    But she told me about a local guy she played with a few times (he has a big one) I always knew about him and all they done. She said she can go see him and fool around his car real quick. So she went for an hour and came all smiley with a nice creampie.

    I think we are back on track now. hope I can stick to it, I'm planning on it.
     
  9. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    Well you are both actually rather lucky! I am placed directed to be in a CB daily and she wears the key around her neck at work, mostly she will lock this before she goes to work attempts to sleep in it have proved painful and impossible. I am permanently collared. My wife has a lover abroad but she only sees him twice maybe three times a year when we visit his country in Europe. We openly accept I am a cuck and always have been over the last 30 years. However whilst she has had numerous lovers over the years NONE have been sourced by her, she point black refuses to take any part in the selection process saying she isn't bothered. However if I find a suitable chap she is more than happy for us to meet him in a pub often playing with him that night if she likes him and then arranging to see him again with a hotel room.

    I find this so, so very strange and its a pain sourcing suitable chaps I find myself thinking why will she not show more interest in finding someone when she enjoys herself so much when I do.
     

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