once a cheater........ my first wife cheated before and during our marriage. she got the thrill out of cheating. we still had a great sex life but that thrill was like a high for her. she told me about some of her flings before we were married and knew i got off hearing about it. she only told me about two times during our marriage, she talked in her sleep and would carry on a full conversation and have sex with me calling me some other guys name. that was some of the hottest fucking i've ever been involved in. guess i was an unintentional cuck. she also got off when i'd go down on her after she had been fucked. her pussy was perfect and i would have done just about anything just to be able to lick it. go with the flow (no pun intended), if you both get off on it, no problem.