Not all women can be open about it

Discussion in 'The Affair Zone - Cheating!' started by Worth It, Sep 13, 2018.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

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  2. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    thanks for the link. I think my wife may fall into this category. If we wouldn't have agreed on me giving consent on her fornicating with other men, I can imagine that she would be cheating on me or have left me. We never had a sexless marriage, but I guess what I can offer to her is not good enough. She would never admit this to me, though. She claims to be content with me sexually, but i don't believe her. I have a problem getting and maintaining erection without viagra. With viagra, she has to wait until it kicks in. Either way, I hardly ever ejaculate due to intercourse. We don't even bother with condoms for that reason.

    I am happy that my wife is open about it. She has asked me for an open relationship maybe 3 years into our marriage and it is certainly better that we made that arrangement.

    Thus, I agree with the sentiment of the article. If the woman is not free to fornicate, a long term relationship is much more likely to break apart because both partners are not able to fulfil the unrealistic expectations of monogamous life.
     
  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife has left several men and turned down two marriage proposals because the guys expected monogamy. No single person, guy or woman, is sexually sufficient for her. It doesn't bother me, she has as much sex with me as I want, and she is Worth It. And Audrey has never cheated, she is totally honest with her lovers.

    Monogamy hurts a relationship more than it helps.
     
  4. elitetx91

    elitetx91 Member

    Alot of women out there aren't satisfied. Almost every woman i fuck has a husband/bf that isn't fucking them right. It works out for everyone, I fuck their brains out and they go home in a good mood to their SO.
     
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  5. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Agreed. Do you have a wife or girlfriend? Does she play around, as far as you know? In my wife's case, she has a husband and several lovers who are "fucking her right," but no one alone is totally satisfying. No one person can give variety.
     
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  6. elitetx91

    elitetx91 Member

    I'm single. Being single makes it easier to make time for them ;)
     
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  7. hankhavelock

    hankhavelock Well-Known Member

    It’s always awesome to hear things from the bull’s perspective. As a beta cuckold I’ve always had a natural awe and respect for the alpha bulls giving my wife so intense pleasure both physical and emotional.

    And this is exactly how my former wife viewed her extra curricular activities with other men. Her first hubby wasn't into being cuckolded, still her point was exactly that she would have her fun and come home fulfilled and happy. A true win-win.
     
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  8. murph's

    murph's Member

    My wife has permission to cuckold me but she likes to cheat more....she never tells me who she is flirting with or giving it up to and has stopped telling me about the sex even whence is with her formal BF. It hurts when she cheats but the excitement out weighs the hurt.
     
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  9. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife and I like to share everything, including details of sex with others.
     
  10. murph's

    murph's Member

    Oh I like that too...but she doesn't. She prefers to keep it all to herself. Thats the thing, she will share about 10% of what happens and thinks that is enough, and thats usually after I obviously caught her talking or texting someone.
     
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  11. Sticky_Cuck77

    Sticky_Cuck77 Active Member

    I have wanted my wife to cuckold me for years with no luck. Although today I had a quick look at her text messages and there is a string with another man she used to work with, going back over a few years, where they arrange to meet for coffee, catch up etc. However, he is regularly asking my wife what she is going to be wearing, saying he likes her in a skirt, stockings and high heels. It may be relatively halmless flirting but as a wannabe cuckold this obviously made me very excited that she may have been cheating. I'd accept her cheating on me and keeping it secret, but obviously I'd like to know some details in order to get the vicarious pleasure from it. The trouble with text messages is you don't know if she's deleted the explicit ones. Here's hoping anyway.
     
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  12. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    The most important thing is to make your wife comfortable having sex with others. Regardless of how excited you are, don't badger her with questions or requests for details. Most women, most people, would like to have a safe, secure and loving household, and be able to fuck around. If you think she's going in the right direction, don't press her for details, compliment her, take her to dinner, or on vacation; reward her for cucking you, the details will come later.

    See if your wife would be willing to go to dinner with you and her friend. It will show them how cool you are with it, and give you the opportunity to see the man who is fucking your wife looking at her with desire. And oh, let her know when you first propose the three way date that you will buy her something nice to wear.
     
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