my wife kissing a friend of ours

Discussion in 'Methods, Techniques and Advice' started by Bartleby, Aug 13, 2018.

  1. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    my wife just told me that yesterday she has kissed a friend of ours she has hung out a lot lately by herself. She told me she feels physically attracted to him, but it is likely that not much will come of it because he will leave the country soon and is interested in getting a real girlfriend. She has told him she is poly, so I guess thats why he thinks its ok to make out with my wife. I told my wife to go ahead with this guy if she wants to. If this guy feels the urge to kiss my wife, he will maybe not mind an uncomplicated sexual experience before he heads off.

    Quite interesting choice of partner for my wife: This time the man is in his early 40s, beardy and deaf. We communicate with him by typing into his notebook.
  2. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    Well is she going to show him she is available as there appears nothing to loose, I certainly would want my wife to
  3. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I don't understand why he did not fuck her. It must have been obvious to him that he could have no-strings attached sex with my wife. If he is not attracted, why did he kiss? As far as I know, they have not seen each other since the day they kissed. My wife and this friend went out together a couple of times before they kissed. I was already suspecting something is going to happen.

    Would be nice if they had a good fuck session.
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  4. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    I can understand him not wanting to make a move on your wife, I would suspect he is waiting for some suggestion from you that you don't have a problem with this having said she is poly does he know what this is?

    I know a women who wants to bed me, at every opportunity she feels my bum, she is the only person I have told I am a cuck and she said ahh I see but then admitted later she didn't know what one was! I even said google it but she didn't. So it maybe he doesn't know what she means.
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  5. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    My wife had not met that man for about two weeks after that kiss. I had already assumed that it meant he had actually rejected her. (I am still very hesistant to bother my wife about details when it comes to her extramarital activities,)

    However, yesterday my wife had a surprise day off. She called him immediately and they met up on his suggestion.

    My wife told me that they had kissed again, but nothing more happened. She told me that she wants more. She admitted she thinks its a bit weird that she is attracted to someone with a beard.

    So it looks like this guy is actually interested. Maybe he just realised that he can get some no-strings-attached sex out of the situation. I have heard that he doesn't get to have much sex and he is looking for a partner.

    We made out heavily after my wife told me about this and she asked me whether I got aroused due to those news. I happily admitted that was the case and told her that I hope things will work out with that deaf friend of ours.

    An important detail here is that my wife had an operation on her cervix and was told by the doctors that she could not stick anything inside her vagina for four weeks. Maybe this is why not much more happened in this time. However, those four weeks are almost up. During last night, we both woke up and started making out again. She accused me of not having fucked her. I had thought that it was not possible yet. In the morning I masturbated her, careful not to stick my fingers inside her. She was super horny and wet.

    So yeah, I believe my wife will soon hit it off with another friend of ours. I does scare me a little bit that he is looking for a girlfriend and is the same age as my wife. I will let it go ahead without objection because my wife has demonstrated very good hotwife behaviour so far.

    On top of that, great development that she says that she is not in love with him, but only feels physical attraction. Maybe she will develop to become a true slut that just sleeps around. I would love that.

    I also like it that it is a friend of ours. I want to know her lovers and I want people to know that my wife is a hotwife. Men should feel free to just try their luck with my wife.
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  6. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Sometimes life is complicated and sex with a person doesn't fit in. There was a woman I worked with some time ago and we were mutually attracted to one another. We kissed several times, I felt her up and she rubbed my dick, but we never fucked. We were both married, could have had an affair, but didn't seem worth the trouble.
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  7. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    What you are writing makes a lot of sense in my case. For example, he does not have a house or apartment, he is living in his truck. Maybe he is too embarrassed to invite my wife to have sex in the back of his truck which is probably a bit cold and cramped. Them going to her place would mean making sure that I am not home at the same time. Me watching is certainly not on at this stage, and I prefer not to.

    Today she had the opportunity to meet up with him, but it seemed she did not even entertain the idea. We talked a bit about that guy and she has started to learn sign language to better communicate with him. So he is still on the charts.

    The weeks without sex have ended now and we had great sex this morning. My wife has just lost a lot of fat and she is very firm now. She got her pussy shaved and is remarkably hot. I am more after her now than I have been in years. I hope our deaf guy appreciates this and will enjoy her, too. Having other men being after my wife makes her so much more attractive to me!
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  8. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    We had cosy non-penetrative sex in the morning. (I failed to get it up, not taking a pill.) She is so hot now with her firm arse, the non-flabby belly and the shaved pussy! We did 69, I was allowed to kiss her poo-hole and I believe she is more sexually open than ever before.

    Our original plans for the day got cancelled, so she told me over breakfast that she will meet with her love-interest. She just left, but not without pointing out that there is only half a viagra pill left.

    We kissed goodbye and I told her she can stay with him as long as she wants to and wished her good luck. Now I wonder what I should do with the rest of the day. Maybe I should thoroughly clean the apartment as a demonstration of devotion?
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  9. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    my wife has indeed cucked me yesterday and it feels sweet...

    She came home a few hours later and told me all about it. They went out for a coffee and shopping, then went back to his truck were she undressed and he fucked her. They were using a condom from the pack that I got for her to use on her last lover. This is how my wife saw that there was only one blue pill left. The condoms are next to the pills. She usually does not look there because we don't even use condoms as i hardly ever ejaculate when having sex with my wife. After sex, my wife went straight home afterwards.

    I wanted to reclaim her, but my dick failed again. Maybe that had to do with the fact that I had masturbated twice while she is gone. I had my suspicions.

    I have told her how happy I was about getting cucked and we were lovey-dovey all evening.

    What is also interesting about this development is that my wife declared that this is purely a sexual interest, a casual encounter. She is friends with him and wants it to stay that way. He respects our relationship and is ultimately looking for a monogamous partner he can have kids with. So he only seized the opportunity to stick his dick into my wife for pleasure.

    I think my wife is turning into a true hotwife that takes men for pleasure. It is great to think that two of our friends have already stuck their penises inside her.
    Last edited: Sep 10, 2018
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  10. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member


    Congratulations on being cucked, sounds like a long awaited encounter and it went well lets hope she repeats this again and soon if not with him with someone else
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  11. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    I am pretty sure they will hit it off again. My wife explained to me that she had been interested in him for years. I am getting off on the detail how she clandestinely took the condoms from my drawer confident that she'd have sex with him last Sunday.

    I have some evening entertainment on tonight so I suggested to her that she could see her new lover meanwhile. She declined saying that this is meant to be casual sex and it wouldn't be a casual relationship if they'd meet again just two days later.

    All this tells me that my dear wife wants to be a hotwife indeed. (Even though she has probably never heard of the term.) She is not so much after true relationships anymore, she just wants to have good fucks with men she can also consider her friends.

    Meanwhile, her ex-lover is stalking her on social media. I guess he wants to get back into her pants, but she is not interested anymore because of his unreliable and erratic behaviour.
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  12. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    This would be too much drama for me.

    That's what my wife likes and I like. Fortunately, before any guy got inside her in any way she had many dates over a couple of months, so she eliminated the weirdos and has kept the best lovers.
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  13. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    My wife likes to fuck then have a distant friendship with the man until she wants it, she couldn't cope with being stalked
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  14. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Audrey has from a close friendship to deep romantic involvement with her lovers. If she were stalked, Audrey would likely knife the guy.
  15. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    That stalker will in all likelihood stay away from my wife, no worries. It s not that bad, just a minor nuisance.
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  16. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    So news here. After their first fuck, my wife M had not met up with Josh again and rarely mentioned him to me. I was just at the point to believe that they would not meet up again when M just told me before leaving the house for work that she wants to meet up with him Saturday afternoon. As you can imagine, I am very happy about this. They seem to have a good friendship going and they will probably have sex.

    I have also noticed that my attitude towards being a cuckold has changed. With the first lover, I insisted that I fuck M first and more often, I was very competitive and jealous. I wanted to get as much as he gets. Now I think that Josh should take preference. He has not fucked my wife in weeks!

    I am still struggling with my erection problem. My wife has presented me her freshly waxed pussy on Tuesday and I could only lick her. I just could not get it hard enough to fuck her. The mood was not intense enough to take a pill and wait for 20 minutes. My wife and I have a problem finding the right time when we are both horny enough to have sex. Or maybe it is that my wife is only horny for short period of time and then my penis is not ready for her. So I often avoid trying to get her to have sex with me. It is quite problematic and therefore we don't fuck a lot. We cuddle and do oral sex a lot, though. And she seems to be horny for Josh.

    A believe a reason for my lack of erection power is my addiction to porn and masturbation. I really wonder what I should do about it. I am forcing myself not to do it at all at least on the days when it is possible that i could have sex with M. That had not worked out on Tuesday, I had masturbated once quickly. That should not affect me all day, or am I really already that old with my 45 years?

    I wonder whether I should consider the chastity belt. But I shy away from it. I know it would be painfully uncomfortable and extremely embarrassing to suggest to M. She will probably not accept the idea. Do you guys think that this is even a good idea? It is so hard to keep my hands off myself knowing that my wife is having sex with someone else!
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  17. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    what a hard night and lovely morning....

    So my wife came home after work and we immediately started to make out. After dinner I popped a blue pill and thought we would do it. My wife presented my her waxed pussy (I am sure she actually got it waxed for Josh) and masturbated in front of me while giving me a footjob. I rubbed my dick against her pussy but the pill had not kicked in yet! I was enjoying myself and did not mind.

    It was still early, but my wife rolled over and that she had enough and needs to sleep now. I was ok with that. But then SHE SLEPT THE ENTIRE NIGHT!

    I was in agony with all my horniness and not having fulfilled my desire to penetrate my wife. I felt like a eunuch, like a man who is unable to satisfy and breed. At one point she woke up and I wanted to continue making out. She told me that she had had enough, she does not care to continue so I would get satisfied as well.

    I tried relaxing about it as I lied next to my sleeping beauty. I figured that this is an opportunity to peep into the life and feeling of a cuckold who is denied sex with his wife. Maybe I should just do household chores during the day while my wife is away with her lover as a demonstration of how devoted I am.

    The pills did kick in and I was tormented by sexual fantasies but not willing to jerk off so there was still this tiny hope of being able and allowed to penetrate my wife in the morning.

    Fortunately, after a long night with M sleeping in until 9:30, she let me do it and I even ejaculated. I felt so happy.

    Now she just left to be with her lover. I told her she could stay for as long as she wants to. Her answer was a bombshell to me: M told me that she has an arrangement with Josh that they would never meet up for long so that no attachment would build up. So she just wants to meet to fuck. She had me in the morning, now is going to have Josh for lunch. Total hotwife in my book.

    She just left. I checked what kind of undies she is wearing. The bra was a bit sexy (she told me she has 19D) but the undies where nothing special. I definitely have to talk to her about getting new lingerie. She should be well presented for Josh. I want him to enjoy my wife as best as possible.

    Oh, and there was no counting condoms today. She took the whole packet.
    Last edited: Oct 6, 2018
  18. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    Oh I just realised that I did not finish this. When she came back, we were both highly aroused and undressed. I licked her used pussy and tried to enter it. Even though I had forced myself not to ejaculate while she was away, my jerking off to the extreme fantasies in my head that my dick had seen enough action for the day. The viagra had worn off. We enjoyed interesting sensations while playing with each other's genitals and rubbing them against each other, though.

    We had good sex this weekend. Unfortunately, M's lover was away in Sydney trying to sell his truck. Now I fear that he might be successful and move to Britain rather sooner than later. M filled me in about her friends-with-benefit arrangement with Josh. It relies on them not getting too close to each other and not acting like a couple in public. E.g. they do not hold hands. But they do kiss, which I find incredibly hot.

    This arrangement also includes the notion that it will come to an end. While I like the mechanisms my wife has put in place to prevent Josh from getting the idea he could wrest M away from me, it fills me with sweet cuckold angst to think of the time after Josh. Will M go lover hunting once he is gone or will she resort to monogamy for what will appear to be an eternity?
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  19. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife never denies me. That was my only condition to our arrangement. Even when she is tired once she gets going again she enjoys it and goes over the top. Then we both fall asleep.
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  20. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    Josh just messaged M from Sydney that he had sold his truck and will leave for Britain soon. M expects not to see him again. She is a little bit sad, I think. Of course, I am disappointed.

    Of course, M gives me this speech just like last time that she will probably not have a lover again. I hope she won't stick to that. No clue where the next one could be from, but I will leave her alone for now.
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