My Husband Wants to Watch Me have Sex With Other Men

Discussion in 'Real Life Experiences' started by asht123, Jul 4, 2015.

  1. asht123

    asht123 New Member

    Well... My husband just told me that he has fantasies of me having sex with other men. Needless to say that I'm a little shocked and confused. I'm in my 20s and he is 17 years older than me.. I guess you could call me his trophy wife.. lol. Our sex life has never been that great but I'm okay with that. He is an excellent provider and I love him.

    Anyways, before we started dating and got married I partied a lot and I guess you can say that I had a lot of sex. He tells me he gets very aroused and masturbates thinking about my past. He thinks his penis is too small (4.5 inches) and that he can't satisfy me like I deserve to be. He thinks if I have sex with other men, that it would improve our sex life. He wants to watch me as well. He says I could be with whoever I want but he says he gets really turned on about thinking about me and his boss and also his friends.

    So I guess I'm looking for advice, thoughts, and opinions. Guys, is this really a turn on? Do you think if your wife differently when she does this? Do you look at her negatively?

    Ladies? Does this type of relationship work? Is there any possible negatives or repercussions?

    I don't know whether to be offended or intrigued. . Yes our sex life is poor but overall I really am in a happy marriage. I love my husband and I do want to make him happy.
  2. Toadameat

    Toadameat New Member

    Yes. There are guys that get turned on by it. We are called cucks ;-). I haven't been allowed to have sex with my wife, or been able to cum, in a couple weeks, but she has had sex in that time, and in all honestly I swear I love her more everyday.
  3. xxshyguyxx

    xxshyguyxx Member

    No offense....

    But this story just seems to classic cuck story to me. Older dude younger trophy wife small dick you had a wild past etc... your unsure asking both sexes questions. Usually its the guy thst comes here not the 20 yr hot trophy wife who has never heard of cuckolding....

    But if this is real..... and you want real advice from cucks then this is a good place to be.

    Firstoff ask yourself if you think he really wants this and how long has he been in the life. If he is older I'm sure this isn't some new found fetish he may of had a history with it.

    Secondly ask yourself if you would enjoy variety being in a happy marriage. If this interests you talk to him about it. Sit down with him make sure. Create rules and see what he wants. Details. If he does and you're curious to try then sample it by hooking up with one of his friends. After feel out the situation and see where it goes.

    Its a wonderful lifestyle. Very rewarding and thrilling for both involved. Im a new cuck myself and so far its a wild ride. My fiance and i have a great sex life. She had no interest in it... but she did it for me and had alot of fun. She is having the time of her life and brings it home to me. We are very happy... so it works... just make sure you get the details of what is wanted bc this fetish has many variations :)

    Hope that helps.
  4. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    Asht123, this reminds me of time I was having dinner with a female coworker. She noticed a friend of hers at the restaurant we were at and started to tell me about her. She told me how her friend was engaged to an older guy 50, she was 32 and he told she was free to have sex with other men if she so wanted. They had never heard of such a thing. For the next hour I explained that it is a common fantasy these days just not spoken about much. I even confessed that I have this fantasy also. It's the only time I have ever told anyone besides my wife of my tendcies. They were intrigued to say the least. Last I heard she became quite the Hotwife.

    I would suggest and open and honest communication with your husband. If your really interested it really can enhance your relationship.

    Good luck, keep us informed.
  5. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    Yes this is really a turn-on. At least for me it is. My wife and I have a great sex life, but there's something hot about watching another man laying between my wife's legs. If I'm not there to watch, it's still a turn on to hear about it.

    I love my wife more than anything and the fact the she has sex with other men makes me love her even more.

    Just be aware, there are some men that claim to want this and then when it happens, can't handle it.
  6. Dantheman

    Dantheman Active Member

    Yes, for many men this is a turn-on. An attractive wife being wanted by other men, even having sex with them. Some men go further and encourage their wife to cuckold them, others use it to spur their sex lives.

    Most cuckolds who have encouraged it see their wives in a more attractive light

    For some marriages it can strength them, for others it can damage their marriage! Cuckolding to save or strengthen a marriage / relationship usually does the opposite.

    If you are unhappy about it -don't do it!!
  7. asht123

    asht123 New Member

    Thanks for all the advice, I really do appreciate it. And yes, I am real and truly am looking for insight. If there are any women out there in this type of relationship, I'd love to hear from you....
    I'm so confused... The more I think my about it the more I think I don't want to do it. I'm actually starting to get a bit angry thinking that he'd want to share me like that. But then I think that I love him so much that I'd do anything to make him happy.... I just don't want it to ruin our marriage. I don't want him to think of me different afterwards or look down on me.
  8. xxshyguyxx

    xxshyguyxx Member

    Well don't put to much into it. If he is a real cuck then you are a very lucky woman indeed. Cucks just really enjoy watching there girls enjoying a little variety. It is quite the opposite of disrespect towards you. Its him caring about you so much he wishes to give you the only thing he can't and that's something else.

    My fiance was unsure as well. Worried about what I'd think of her afterwards etc... she took the dive and did it for me and i grew even closer. Once she saw how turned on i was and more into her and us she starting wantinf to fuck the other guy. Now she does it once a week and brings it me. She loves it. I mean what girl wouldn't love it? Lol

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