Well... My husband just told me that he has fantasies of me having sex with other men. Needless to say that I'm a little shocked and confused. I'm in my 20s and he is 17 years older than me.. I guess you could call me his trophy wife.. lol. Our sex life has never been that great but I'm okay with that. He is an excellent provider and I love him. Anyways, before we started dating and got married I partied a lot and I guess you can say that I had a lot of sex. He tells me he gets very aroused and masturbates thinking about my past. He thinks his penis is too small (4.5 inches) and that he can't satisfy me like I deserve to be. He thinks if I have sex with other men, that it would improve our sex life. He wants to watch me as well. He says I could be with whoever I want but he says he gets really turned on about thinking about me and his boss and also his friends. So I guess I'm looking for advice, thoughts, and opinions. Guys, is this really a turn on? Do you think if your wife differently when she does this? Do you look at her negatively? Ladies? Does this type of relationship work? Is there any possible negatives or repercussions? I don't know whether to be offended or intrigued. . Yes our sex life is poor but overall I really am in a happy marriage. I love my husband and I do want to make him happy.