Let me start by saying I hate being locked up. When we first started this lifestyle we played with it on and off, the wife always thought it was kinda cute and funny to watch me begg for release. Recently our lifestyle has changed to a more FLR lifestyle. That being said the wife told me to find a cage I liked because she wanted me locked in chastity, I ordered one and kinda forgot about it. Well I get home from work and the first thing she tells me is that my new cage has arrived and I need to put it on now. I started to protest, she just held her hand up and pointed to the bedroom and said NOW it's in the bathroom. I just lowered my head and said yes ma'am . After I put the cage on I asked her if we could talk about this, she said sure but what's to talk about. I made the mistake of asking her why now and how long I'm expected to be locked up and that I really didn't like being locked up. She replied, You don't have to wear it if you don't want to but, you asked for this lifestyle and agreed to do as your told so if you want to continue in the lifestyle the chastity cage is going to be a part of it. Head held low yes ma'am. How long? She replied we'll see how your attitude is when I get back from Europe. Oh did I forget to mention that she's going to Europe for 12 days. FML!