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Discussion in 'Chastity' started by surfrider, Jul 6, 2017.

  1. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    Let me start by saying I hate being locked up. When we first started this lifestyle we played with it on and off, the wife always thought it was kinda cute and funny to watch me begg for release.
    Recently our lifestyle has changed to a more FLR lifestyle. That being said the wife told me to find a cage I liked because she wanted me locked in chastity, I ordered one and kinda forgot about it. Well I get home from work and the first thing she tells me is that my new cage has arrived and I need to put it on now. I started to protest, she just held her hand up and pointed to the bedroom and said NOW it's in the bathroom. I just lowered my head and said yes ma'am .
    After I put the cage on I asked her if we could talk about this, she said sure but what's to talk about. I made the mistake of asking her why now and how long I'm expected to be locked up and that I really didn't like being locked up.
    She replied, You don't have to wear it if you don't want to but, you asked for this lifestyle and agreed to do as your told so if you want to continue in the lifestyle the chastity cage is going to be a part of it.
    Head held low yes ma'am. How long?
    She replied we'll see how your attitude is when I get back from Europe.
    Oh did I forget to mention that she's going to Europe for 12 days. FML!
  2. obedientcuck

    obedientcuck Well-Known Member

    Does she think she's giving you want you want, or does she like dominating (or both)?
  3. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    I would say that partly she thinks she's giving me what I want, but make no mistake she likes dominating me. She knows when she has me in my cage she completely controls my behavior. She likes to be treated like a Queen, and I'm sure she will be giving me a long list of chores to do in the coming days.
  4. obedientcuck

    obedientcuck Well-Known Member

    In that case i would have an "out of character" conversation where you express your limits. It's perfectly understandable that she likes to dominate you, but if she pushes you past the limits you enjoy it won't work out for anyone.

    For subs, it tends to work best when you tell the Dom what she can't do, and anything not on the forbidden list is fair game. You might want to start with something like "no chastity cage wearing longer than 1 week at a time". That will let her feel in control while not exceeding a limit that will cause frustration and lead you to call off the whole arrangement.
  5. surfrider

    surfrider Guest

    We had a conversation just last evening about limits and such.
    Some of our rules concerning FLR and chastity. Our "kink" cuckold/Hotwife chastity, FLR is strictly between us, no humiliating me in front of family or friends, chastity is just between us, one exception is she has a close friend in another state that she confides in , she knows everything. That's a whole nother story.
    One rule is that I'm to have my cage on at all times while at home, I'm allowed out while away from the house. This is due to the nature of my work and that I'm a very active person, sports and such.
  6. philkaren

    philkaren New Member

    Phil is locked whenever I’m playing away, usually for a couple of days either side. He gets to cum twice a month... middle Sunday which I ruin and then last Sunday I let him masturbate

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