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Discussion in 'Interracial' started by BlackBaller, Aug 2, 2018.

  1. BlackBaller

    BlackBaller Member

    I always fantasize about it but i dont think id like to make it a reality ? But its healthy to have a fantasy right? Im not into the whole cuckold thing but i do enjoy watching IR porn its all i watch . Its more the colour contrast for me .. thoughts? Anyone else the same ?
     
  2. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Life is short, you need to at least try your fantasies once to experience the reality. If you don't like it, then don't do it again, at least you'll know.

    What's your situation? Are you married or have a girl? Have you talked to her about it? Discussed her past sex partners? At least make a start.
     
  3. BlackBaller

    BlackBaller Member

    Shes not really into black guys ive tryed to get a black dildo but she wasent having non of it .. but i can carry on fantasizing lol
     
  4. BlackBaller

    BlackBaller Member

    We do have a 8 inch purple dildo she rides thick girth it looks good stretching her pussy il have to make do lol
     
  5. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Make it about what she wants, not you.
     
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  6. BlackBaller

    BlackBaller Member

    We have a great sex life im a good size and and she enjoys it .. like i said its just a fantasy its not something id take any further i would get jelous if she like another guy lol black or white
     
  7. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Already having a great sex life is a good place to start, but you don't know how much better it could be for both you unless you try. She doesn't have to "like" the guy, just find him (or even her) sexually attractive. (Does she like girls?)

    And you say "get jealous" as if that's a bad thing. Your desire to fuck your wife will be greater than ever after you've seen her enjoying another man.
     
  8. BlackBaller

    BlackBaller Member

    Another girl? Now your talking that would be the one !!! Shes not into sharing ither way lol
     
  9. gatorrdw

    gatorrdw Well-Known Member

    BlackBaller, at this point I agree with you, that you should keep this as a fantasy. If she is not into it and you have jealousy concerns then you aren't close to being ready to try this lifestyle. It first and foremost has to be about her enjoying being with other men and you enjoying her doing that. Just enjoy the fantasy. GTR
     
  10. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    You just need to talk to your wife about her fantasies. Hearing her describe how she would fuck another man or woman could be really hot. Even if it stays a fantasy.
     
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  11. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    I agree with you wholeheartedly Worth It. I've never been more horny to fuck my wife than since I first watched her enjoying my handsome young best buddy on our marriage bed nearly 5 years ago.

    It was glorious to behold, and even now I can be assailed by spontaneous, cruelly-detailed but extremely arousing visual and auditory flashbacks of that very first time he fucked her with all the wonderful strength and spontaneity of Youth.The sight of their beautiful rhythmically inter-thrusting genitals was especially riveting and utterly blew me away.

    And it just keeps getting hotter, to the point where I get a raging anticipatory erection most times I watch him tantalisingly slowly stripping off beside our bed for her. But then he does have an outrageously beautiful body---to complement hers, of course.
     
    Last edited: Aug 7, 2018
  12. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    Even in my mid-teens I was already having surreal fantasies about marrying a beautiful girl who would take on a young black lover who I would watch impregnate her, mainly because the physiques of slimmer and athletic young black men were an ideal of mine I knew I could never personally attain and they turned me on wildly.

    Also, I couldn't help noticing the hot looks that the high-school girl of my dreams would flash the tallest and most handsome of them when they were stripped for action in the swimming pool and on the athletics field. The more I envied them the more furiously I would masturbate to my fantasy, imagining them satisfying and cumming way more copiously in my wife than I believed I ever would.

    Notwithstanding that, when my dream was fulfilled 4 years ago I was totally unprepared for the reality of almost every shocking visual detail and, as I saw it, demeaning aspect of it. For starters, the mere sight of the beautiful body and erection of my best buddy as he prepared to mount my wife in the missionary position beside me threw me into a blind "what have I done?" panic. How I got through the next two hours of him barebacking her to Sex Heaven and cumming twice in her I will never know.

    It had taken three years of my buddy living with us before I was up to having my fantasy fulfilled in every breathlessly erotic detail by watching him impregnate her. Even then, well-prepared as I vainly thought I was, the impact of it shocked me to total numbness of mind and paralysis of body. The feeling of loneliness and dispossession I felt while he was ejaculating in her was almost unbearable. By morning it had somewhat abated, but only somewhat.

    Prior to that I had arrogantly assumed that I would easily and always be able command or, in the worst-case scenario, reclaim the undivided sexual attention of my wife. How wrong I was.

    Perhaps you can be thankful that as things worked out for you and your wife you did not have the option of her being impregnated by another man. When one is not the naked man-of-the-hour, first time up the drama of procreative fucking being enacted before one's eyes can be very traumatic. The fall-out in terms of the loneliness I experienced in my first round of it revisited me full-force and repeatedly when I watched my buddy fuck my wife multiple times recently to impregnate her again, but I have never once regretted letting it happen.

    Dreaming of one's wife being seeded by a more desirable, especially younger, black or any lover can be extremely hot, but for most husbands I would strongly recommend it remain a private fantasy. Acting on it totally transforms one's marriage, in our case thankfully for the better I think, for the present at least.
     

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