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Learning to enjoy being a cuckold

Discussion in 'Humiliation X' started by boobsman, Sep 6, 2016.

  1. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    Thank you. :)

    I have always felt inadequate as a man. I was thin and weak growing up and now overweight and weak. Seeing huge cocks in amateur porn sites has made me feel inadequate about having a 5" dick, too. In the animal world a beta male like me would definitely not be passing on his genes. That's true to a degree in the human world, too. :)
  2. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    She is living with her mom now. Our son went off to college near where her mom lives and she suddenly decided to follow him there. She said she felt a duty to take care of him for four more years (of college) and she could also get a good paying job in that town. But I think she was also not happy living with me. I was very busy and she couldn't find a good job. So we have been living separately for about 2 1/2 years, although I met her twice (two summers in a row). I invited her to come visit me during the winter but she said it costs too much. This summer I am not going to visit her. Actually, we have lived separately about four times now. It's just about pathetic that I am not even sure what the count it. I keep telling myself that I need to accept that she abandoned me, even if she means it to be for just four years. It's still abandonment. But, I don't look forward to the legal and financial mess of a divorce. That will suck. My prediction is that we will continue living separately for a few more years before one of us gets the ball rolling. When she refused to visit me I asked her for a divorce but she said she didn't want to. I haven't been perfect, but it's probably better we go our separate ways.
  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I've been through a divorce, and you're right, it's not pleasant. But it's better to roll up your sleeves and get through it than to be tied to what keeps you from moving forward. Best way to start: gather up the info (tax returns, pay subs, savings statements and estimates for her) and visit a no cost/low cost first meeting with an attorney to see what's ahead. Your later self will appreciate this earlier effort. Good luck.
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  4. canadianwittol

    canadianwittol Well-Known Member Founding Member

    I feel rather badly for anyone who has to "learn" to enjoy being a cuckold. I would hope if you are participating here you do enjoy it. There is much to enjoy; although like anything in life, there are indeed hills and valleys along the way and I have had low moments and cuck angst where its good to have a forum like this as a sounding board.

    Like a previous poster said, its sort of a mix of heaven and hell lol. That actually does describe it well, but if you enjoy it there is nothing like it. Even the moments of jealousy are erotic and keep you on the edge of your seat.

    Certainly the first time I was cucked (not by choice) I can't say I loved it right away, but it wasn't so much learning to enjoy it as it was discovering that I really did - it was merely a matter of adjusting the way you look at it. When you get right down to it, the only reason we feel its "wrong" is social conditioning. If it feels right for you and your wife, go for it. It's a win for both of you and for at least one lucky bull.
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  5. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    If I could have chosen and I were totally in control of my life, I would have chosen not to have my wife cheat on me and not to develop a cuckold fantasy. I realize that this is a statement that might not be well received on a cuckold web site. If my wife hadn't cuckolded me, though, I think I could have developed an interest in group sex that involved watching my wife get fucked.

    But I felt humiliated and emasculated when I discovered my wife's affairs and I was already low on confidence and felt like a beta male. It was like confirmation that my feelings of inferiority were correct.

    But all this awoke in me a huge cuckold fantasy that I didn't ask for and didn't want until I got it. I love to watch amateur videos of men watching their wives has sex with dominant men. If they eat creampie from their wives' pussies, even better. If I could just totally accept myself as a beta male it would probably be easier to accept being a cuckold. I will try. :)
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  6. canadianwittol

    canadianwittol Well-Known Member Founding Member

    I totally understand that; I asked my wife to cuckold me so that was all negotiated and agreed upon in advance.

    I do recall in my first cuck relationship in university (which was not by choice) I did at first feel emasculated and inadequate. So I suppose I do remember what it was like feeling the way you do. It took me a year to start really enjoying it. But I did. I hope you can get to that point too.
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  7. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I always feel like the exception here. I didn't "learn" to enjoy my wife having sex with other people. My wife was fucking other guys (and women) before we met. Is that unusual? Just about every woman a guy marries has fucked other guys before meeting her husband. Audrey and I started having sex; pretty normal stuff. We were sexually non-exclusive (well, Audrey was) in our relationship, and we were honest about it. Is that so unusual? The situation just continued as it was, no jealousy, no humiliation, no unrealistic expectations when we decided to get married. Most guys here have a sudden cuckolding experience that shatters the premise of marriage. Audrey on the other hand was always nonmonogamous with me in a beginning situation where monogamy wasn't expected, it evolved to us getting married, but there was nothing to "learn."
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  8. BoobyGirl

    BoobyGirl Well-Known Member

    My hubby tells me he doesn't like being cuckolded but I know he secretly loves it lol. He loves being very jealous of other men especially when they enjoy my boobs while he's denied! He pleads and begs me not to cuckold him but his excitement so shows he loves it!
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  9. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    I dont think you can really can learn to be a cuck, you are either that way out or your not, most couples divorce once a wife cheats, other men accept it reluctantly and learn to put up with this behavour. A man likely to be a cuck craves this type of behaviour, or when he finds out about this wifes affair enjoys the thought of it which to me are different things really.

    I became a cuck without knowing the term, when i met Mrs T she was an untouched 16 year old just, after she gave me her virgininty after a few months she phoned one night and told me she had made a "mistake" and had that night been out with a man older than her mother, she had, had a crush on him since she was 15 they met at her school, she said she always wanted to go out with him but as a virgin she didnt want him to take that from her. Topless in his car she had bottled doing what she intended. I forgave her as i made love to her wet welcoming body the following night.
    At 17 another mistake she went on holiday got drunk and laid, she cryed as she told me and i made love to her to make her happy but even then i liked the thought that another man had been inside my girlfriend and she was mine.
    I married her when she was 18 knowing she was a bit of a wild child as she stood in virginal white her family and friend assuming i was her first and only love obviously we knew different but neither of us knew this was to continue to play a big part of our friendship and relationship.
  10. tslave

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