Learning to accept being a cuckold

Discussion in 'Real Life Experiences' started by Takemoment, Jan 1, 2020.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    General observation: billions of people are fucking all the time, but it's still amazing when it's your wife.

    Nice. Too many guys forget the tits once the fucking starts. The main reason I like doggy is so I can keep holding a woman's tits. I like to see it when my wife's fucking someone else too.
     
  2. Takemoment

    Takemoment Member

    Oh yes, I am a tit man, love everything about tits and nipples. Clearly my wife's ex is a tit man too. So we have that in common also
     
  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    For me, small tits are as good as big ones.
     
  4. Takemoment

    Takemoment Member

    My wife and her ex have continued to fuck, here at our place, except for one time he fucked her at his place. Most of the time I am watching them having sex and then I fuck my wife when they are done, with him laying naked next to us, as I fuck her and cum in her. It is intimidating to fuck my wife with him there and I fear I will lose my erection and not be able to perform, which would be so humiliating but the experience of watching them fuck makes me so horny that I just fuck her. And since he is so much thicker than I am and he pounds her for such a long time, my wife's cunt is so fucking open that I slip right in, hardly feeling any tightness of her cunt against my cock and it lets me know what he has done to her and that just makes me hard and able to perform. But the hardest part of this entire experience, the thing that makes me very emotional, is watching her take his cock in her mouth. You would think it would be his cock in her cunt that would be the worst or when he cums inside of her, but no, it is when she is sucking his cock. It turns me on but it really upsets me too. He is laying there naked, she is naked sucking him, her hands on his cock, her head bobbing up and down. I can hear the noise of her sucking him, I seem him enjoying it, sometimes his hands on her head, guiding her down on him. And to make it even harder for me, is when those times he cums in her mouth and she swallows his load.
     
  5. SmallFry

    SmallFry Member

    It was clear my tiny penis was never satisfying to my wife after she confessed to having a sex affair with another guy. We got past her infidelity and entered into an expansive sex life involving other guys and couples.
    I didn't always directly participate in the MMF engagements but just watched and masturbated as she was fucked. I have a rampant SPH fetish so am aroused by simply being out manned by another guy in front of a female but it is an extra kick watching them being pleasured. I however have never down the "clean up" thing. I guess I am more passive/submissive.
     
  6. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Well put.
     
  7. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink New Member

    Sorry I am late to this thread and if I repeat something forgive me. I read the thread but I still may have missed something.

    Is the ex the only guy she will fuck? Not that it really matters but I would love to hear your reaction watching her taking a strange dick. I would really try and not get caught up in the “it’s her ex and he’s bigger than me” train of thought. He’s her ex for a reason and trust me on this one, if she ever does fuck another man you sure as hell don’t him to be tiny. It doesn’t have to reach his knees but for me and most of us husbands who love our wives fucking other men, and women, you want to watch a nice thick hard cock working on your wife’s cunt or better yet with her mouth wrapped around it.

    Worth it has given some really good advice to you. Just always remember you can want her to fuck another man all you want but she’s gonna pick them and she’s going to fuck them how she wants to. Enjoy it. It’s a beautiful thing.
     
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  8. SmallFry

    SmallFry Member

    Picking up on the "sure as hell don't want him to be tiny" comment I have never felt threatened by my wife fucking other guys if it was for pure sexual reasons. I definitely want the other guy to have a bigger cock than me (not a problem really as my penis is very tiny) but if they were actually small like me but were preferred by her I might just suspect there was something else going on) Also my rampant SPH fetish needs the kick of being comparatively smaller than the other guy. If my wife was in a relationship with me for purely sexual reasons I doubt if our marriage would have lasted as long as it did. I suspect we would have split up well before marriage was even a consideration. The truth is I am fairly certain every girl I have had a relationship with that lasted more than days or weeks was not attracted to me for my sexual prowess.
     
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  9. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink New Member

    My wife doesn’t want a huge cock. Thick is her thing. She’s always said that it’s much more enjoyable and less of having to worry about hurting herself if she really wants it slammed into her which she loves. I learned early on it’s not the size of the guy either. I’m 6’ 255-260 with nothing more than 6.5” but her preferred thickness. She’s 5'11” and usually doesn’t like to be with any man shorter than herself. Early on we were with another couple who she was actually wanting to fuck the wife and we husbands were an after thought. Anyway, the other husband was probably 5’7” and a body builder and when he dropped his pants, damn his dick just kept unfolding. Lol

    How are your oral techniques? I know plenty of times that’s all I contributed to the fucking. But I’m told I’m damn good at it so I don’t mind. And don’t sell yourself short (pun intended) you might be tiny but fuck her like a champion. Might have something to do with her staying with you?
     
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  10. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    It's off-topic, but my ex-wife and I continued to have sex during our breakup, the divorce, and afterwards. We didn't hate one another, the sex was always good and plentiful. We had shared decades together and two children. So I can understand the situation with your wife and her ex.

    My ex and I didn't stop until after Audrey and I started fucking, which was about ten weeks after we first met. During that ten week period Audrey had gotten me so sexually aroused that my ex and I had some of our most frenzied sex ever. Audrey knew, would give me a kiss when we parted, knowing where I was going. And she usually went to see her "friends," a married couple who she had lived with for two years.

    After Audrey and I started fucking, I only got back with my ex three times for sex. Audrey gave me more sex than I could handle; more than any one guy and his wife could handle.
     
  11. Takemoment

    Takemoment Member

    Thanks for the comment
     
  12. SmallFry

    SmallFry Member

    I have below average girth as well as a lack of length. I also have poor stamina when actually fucking but I am pretty good at didital and oral skills and spend extra time on foreplay. However, that said some women like a good fuck as well. I actually had one (very short term) girlfriend who actually had no interest in foreplay. She just wanted a hard fuck . My penis totally disappointed her. She was one of the few that quite candidly made it clear that I was way too small for her needs.
    I am 6'2" tall, barrel chested and wear size 14 shoes. It doesn't help that women generally tend to assume I also have a big cock and they can't help showing a bit of surprise when they see it is actually very tiny in flaccid state and a tad disappointed when it is very small fully erect. Of course my unreliable stamina when actually fucking does not impress.
    As for body size one of the guys I shared my wife with was all skin and bone and perhaps about 5'4" tall. His penis was very girthy and at a guess probably about 7" or more in length. Flaccid it was as big as I was fully erect except thicker.
    The difference in our comparative physiques made my cock appear even tinier.
    He gave her multiple orgasms as he fucked her long and hard. I watched and masturbated, came and got hard again and he was still giving it to her.
     
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  13. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink New Member

    Talking about watching and masturbating, here’s a funny valuable lesson I learned. If you are assured you are going to be part of the fun for the evening and you are offered a little blue pill, take it. If you are NOT going to be a part of the festivities I would highly recommend NOT taking said offered pill. You will end up wearing your arm and wrist out not to mention becoming dehydrated from a steady stream of jacking off while watching. And then after they are finished, there you sit wore out and yet haven’t really done a damn thing. Just about the time where you’ve got your dick (and mind) calmed down enough that it will stay flaccid, they decide to go for round two and since technically you are probably on round 5 or 6 you have nothing left.......but hey, your dick will still get hard!

    The stamina of some men just amaze me to this day. It’s like they are kin to that damn battery bunny that just keeps going and going. As long as my wife doesn’t end up sore to the point that she can’t do anything afterwards for several days I’m good with her in a marathon session.

    And I’m with you on being with a woman who doesn’t want foreplay. You cut out the foreplay and I’m not making any promises of any kind to anyone.
     
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  14. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I usually go a long time because I'm a slow cummer. If I'm in an exciting situation, like switching women after I cum, I can go a second or even third round, no pills. But my balls and prostrate will ache afterwards.
     
  15. SmallFry

    SmallFry Member

    My stamina is akin to the Duracell in the adverts when engaged in anything except actual fucking and when I do cum I can regenerate in a few minutes.
    As yet (touch wood) I have never had any problem getting an erection and don't want to get in a habit of using any artificial stimulants. As it goes I try to avoid using pharmaceuticals for anything unless absolutely necessary and natural remedies are not effective. Having said that I might experiment with trying the V tab out of pure curiosity if one was offered.
    I had a legendary sex session with one girl when I shot my load after about 3 or 4 strokes while fucking, recovered in about a couple of minutes, fucked again lasting a a few seconds longer, recovered again but in about 10 minutes. Unfortunately I was on my own sorting that one out. She had been quite happy to have a second go because she was left totally unsatisfied from the first but after I left her totally wanting yet again she decided that she would prefer sleep.
     
  16. Criticalkink

    Criticalkink New Member

    ‘The little blue pills were a thing with one particular couple. The other wife, who owned her own hair salon, did the hair of a pharmaceutical rep and she would get free samples from her. She was a fan of all night marathon fucking so she would give the guys the pill so she would always have a steady supply of hard cock. The main reason was because her husband who could last quite awhile before cumming would have a hard time getting it up again. If you ask me he had already won the gold metal for endurance to start with but she wanted more. Me, for whatever reason when I got her doggy I didn’t last a minute. Just weird. Never happened with anyone else but her. Solution, no doggy with her. Lol

    Worth It, a slow cummer? Golf clap. I wish I could say that myself but I’m not real fast or real slow, it just varies. Now if you want to talk about what happens when you cum then you can say I’m a power cummer. I can shoot it across the room. Hit head boards, dash boards and windshields, walls, other people, their forehead....... I even put my hand up as a deflector shield if I pull out first.
     
  17. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    This made me think. My wife likes lots of sex, but 1) half of it involves pussy, and 2) 30 to 45 minute sessions multiple times a day. More than one cock during a session is for weekends.

    Under normal circumstances, I'm one-and-done myself, but present me with another pussy than the one I just fucked, a little oral, and I'm ready again.

    Interesting. Wish there was a woman like that who I could go into every so often. Audrey, however, knows how to move me along: she'll play with my nipples just right.

    It's not a feature, it's also a bug; good sometimes, I guess, but it was also a real problem sometimes. Before my first marriage, two long term girlfriends I could make cum hard, but then they would say, "What's taking you so long?" Both would let me finish (eventually) but one, who would always plead, "Give me my baby," wanted me to cum with her. It almost never happened. She would lie there motionless afterwards until I finished, going, "Tsk." It scarred me for life.

    Now I'm envious. On a good day I'm a gusher, usually I'm just a dribbler. I only cum outside a woman's body when I'm traveling and have to masturbate, but that's what happens. I never shoot.

    But Audrey says that's why she decided long ago that she couldn't be monogamous - she needs sexual variety. Not just pussy, but different men as well. No one man is good enough.
     
  18. murph's

    murph's Member

    Learning to accept: we were out with another couple and my wife drank a little bit and told them I am her cuckold. They asked what that means and she told them. They asked me why and I told them my wife likes dominant men and losing control. The wife ended up making my wife suck her husbands cock that night. Since then they took us to a casino and swapped. Took us to NYC and controlled us. Now they are having my wife go alone to there place tomorrow. All day.

    when you are a cuck you learn to accept.
     
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  19. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Sounds good and sounds like us, except 1) no one makes my wife suck and fuck her husband, she does that on her own, and 2) Audrey dominates other men (not me) but is sub to their wives. We both play alone sometimes Audrey more, with couples and them singley. It's all good.
     

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