I have posted this elsewhere on this site but feel it also deserves its own space. A g/f or wife hearing from a female friend all about how she has sex with a lover and with her husband's permission must surely be a likely opening to her interest in the lifestyle and perhaps her eventual experimenting with it and maybe acceptance and enjoyment of it. Women gossiping together and comparing notes is a natural activity and I would have thought this would bring the desired results. If the friend recommends it and encourages your partner to consider being naughty, especially given that you are encouraging of it and have urged her to behave like this, I'm sure the wonderful inevitability would happen. It is dependent of course upon her friend a) being into the lifestyle and b) be willing to admit it. Women of course are very wary of being judged and frowned upon by their peers. Ladies often I find need "permission" and approval from their female friends to act in a certain way, often imitating that which a friend enthuses about. I am convinced this would get her thinking and considering having a fling or taking a lover. Has anyone's partner discovered and acted upon the advice or gained interest from the chat of a friend to have fun in this way?