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Ladies Gossiping Over Coffee

Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by slutplay, Apr 27, 2018.

  1. slutplay

    slutplay Loving Slut

    I have posted this elsewhere on this site but feel it also deserves its own space.
    A g/f or wife hearing from a female friend all about how she has sex with a lover and with her husband's permission must surely be a likely opening to her interest in the lifestyle and perhaps her eventual experimenting with it and maybe acceptance and enjoyment of it.
    Women gossiping together and comparing notes is a natural activity and I would have thought this would bring the desired results. If the friend recommends it and encourages your partner to consider being naughty, especially given that you are encouraging of it and have urged her to behave like this, I'm sure the wonderful inevitability would happen.
    It is dependent of course upon her friend a) being into the lifestyle and b) be willing to admit it. Women of course are very wary of being judged and frowned upon by their peers.
    Ladies often I find need "permission" and approval from their female friends to act in a certain way, often imitating that which a friend enthuses about. I am convinced this would get her thinking and considering having a fling or taking a lover.
    Has anyone's partner discovered and acted upon the advice or gained interest from the chat of a friend to have fun in this way?
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  2. murph's

    murph's Member

    So true....my wife sent sexy pics to her GF by mistake...she encouraged her and when she went to visit even took her out to single clubs to get picked up....then told me about it. So hot
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  3. HotWife45

    HotWife45 New Member

    I have been a HotWife for almost 2 years, married for 21 and it was my husband's idea originally. I kept it hidden from all of my female friends until one of them confessed to me "things" were not going well with her husband. They had been rock solid for years and suddenly she was very unhappy and stressed. I was really concerned about her and though she indicated it was private and she didn't want to talk about it, I persisted. She finally started talking, haltingly about the "things" her husband wanted her to do and she was beside herself. It turns out her husband had been talking to my husband and guess what? - He asked her to do the same things I was doing! Long story short she agreed to give it a try and has been glowing about the positive changes it has made in her life and in her marriage. It has had the same affects upon mine but I would never have told anyone if it hadn't come up like that.
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  4. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife's preferred sexual arrangement is an FFM within a married couple; she has a strong Lesbian side. When we met, Audrey was the third for two married couples and had a single girlfriend.

    The husbands of these couples are her male lovers. Since Audrey and I have gotten together and married, her single girlfriend joins us for FFMs, and I occasionally join Audrey and the other couples for MF swaps.

    So yes, what you're saying is true, women exchange ideas.
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