Is this normal?

Discussion in 'Real Life Experiences' started by stupidcupid, Jun 20, 2018.

  1. stupidcupid

    stupidcupid New Member

    This is my first time posting on here, but I've been lurking for a while, so thanks for all the tips and info. A little about me and my wife:

    We're from England and both in our mid 40s (been together since we were teens), we started with this about a year ago, S went to Spain on a girls/work holiday, I knew they were a pretty naughty crowd and the location is infamous, and I'm not at all the jealous type, so I told her if she wanted to have a holiday fling I was fine with that as long as she tells me what's going on.

    Sure enough, S met a guy (from UK) there and the next night they were having very passionate sex in her room, literally he fucked her 5 or 6 times that night. Same thing the next evening. Since coming back she's met him a couple of times and it's been similar, hours of fucking (I'm amazed she doesn't get blisters tbh). I'm ok with it, I'm probably not a true cuck as I'm not into humiliation but I know her sex drive is greater than mine, and in fact this has resulted in our sex life improving, and as I said, I'm not the jealous type, so as long as I don't feel our relationship is threatened I'h quite happy with it.

    The guy was married, which suited us as apparently he had no desire of leaving his wife, but I think that may have caused problems as they couldn't arrange to meet often.

    So, eventually S goes onto AFF and sure enough gets lots of attention. She's now hooked up with 2 other guys, both mid 40s with wives and kids, who apparently are not getting much of a sex life at home. Now with both of these guys the sex has apparently been amazing, literally fucking all night and coming in her maybe 6 times. In all these cases they don't know that I know, or that she has other lovers apart from them. So as far as they're concerned she's their mistress, and she's very keen to dress and act accordingly. They book great hotels and take her out for nice romantic meals before all the fun begins.

    So what I'm wondering is, is this typical for wives out there having extra marital sex like this, is it normal for the sex to go on all night? It's just that I'm the same age as them and I don't think I'd have the stamina. I guess it's just the novelty factor of a new and taboo relationship, plus of course S is a hottie.
  2. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    I think the bottom line is there is no normal in this lifestyle. Both my lovers are 15 years younger than me so their stamina is not that surprising.
    ENJOY !!
  3. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Don't discount the possibility of pharmaceuticals. I'm always skeptical when someone says "Oh, I know he's not using Viagra."

    While there's a wide range in abilities, there are limits after all.


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  4. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Same as us, but I still have sex with my wife a lot, and occasionally with her female lovers as well.

    Audrey's top preference is married couples because she likes both dick and pussy and they're both on the same wavelength as to what it is all about (sex and some emotional attachment). She also used to prefer married men over single because as you say, they have no desire to leave their wives, and the clinginess and expectations are limited. But the one compromise Audrey made for me when we decided to get married is no married people unless the spouse knows. We want no involvement in divorce proceedings, aorat worst a wife could have a gun.

    As above, we practice honesty as to other lovers, we don't want any drama. With any new sex partner, it starts insatiably, but eventually cools. But for us it was the other way around - Audrey had her sex partners before we met and I was the new one, so we fucked all the time at first and she pretty much ignored the other guys. When I started fucking her female lovers, I too was like a kid in a candy store. That's just the way it is with new sex partners.
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  5. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    Your probably correct about the novalty/taboo factor, but nothing is typical in this lifestyle. If the guy has fucked my wife before, then he tends to last longer and has more staying power. If it's a new guy that has never fucked her before. They last only a few minutes, but are ready to go again sooner. Our only exception is one guy that has been fucking her for more years than I have known her. Once she lost her virginity in high school, he was like the 2nd or 3rd guy to fuck her. That would have been about 1970. She and I met when she was 29, so he had been fucking her for like 15 years by then. His cock has been in her way more than mine has (and we've been married for 30 years). And he has shot more cum in her than I could if I lived to be 100. When they get together its usually an all nighter. I 've watched him pump between her legs as many as 4 times in one evening, and he's in his early 60's. His wife knows that he fucked her in high school, and a few times since they married. But she has no clue how many times his cock has been in my wife.

    He is the exception to the rule.
  6. stupidcupid

    stupidcupid New Member

    Good point, both of them are quite well off apparently and I’m sure they are capable of getting some viagra if they wanted. Apparently (with one of them) he would come, but then get hard again almost straight away.
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  7. stupidcupid

    stupidcupid New Member

    Good for you :)

    I know S is keen to try a younger guy if she gets the chance, and also a well endowed one. I’m about average and her lovers up until now apparently the same.
  8. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    Yes, I think it's normal. NRE is an amazing aphrodisiac. And i'm sure it helps if your wife is hot looking. I used to bang a hotwife every week or two. When I was married, I was pump'n dump every few weeks at most with my wife, but I used to fuck that hotwife like it was our honeymoon. She specifically had me fuck her on every surface in her house so that she could savor the memory later.
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  9. nevertoolate

    nevertoolate New Member

    Women in general have untapped capacities for lots of sex. Peak hotwife ages between 30- 50 is where this is most likely to flourish. Many factors at work here. Think of it as the "great awakening."
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  10. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    That's what I understood as well. In which case my wife is just getting started. Woah.
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  11. pigr75

    pigr75 Well-Known Member

    Don't discount over 50. My wife has had lots more cock in the 20 years after 50 than in the years before.
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  12. tractorman

    tractorman Well-Known Member

    I know what you mean my wife has a lover who can pound into her for hours, it amazes me how he can do it and how her body copes with this, its not love making its heavy sex, he doesn't drink anything other than water or juice certainly wont take drugs but can just keep on going for hours on and off. I will watch then go to sleep when they do then will be woken by them several times a night. My wife has no ill effects the day after except being tired I have often wondered how she can walk afterwards.

    The last few meetings he has broken her taboo by taking her ass, she says she doesn't like it then consents her eyes roll into her head as he pounds into her.
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  13. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    My lovers have amazing stamina, not sure where it comes from. Both can fuck like champs, cum and be ready again in 5 minutes. VERY impressive to say the least.
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  14. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Comes from you being hot.
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  15. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    Not sure about that but their stamina is impressive.
    Both can cum easily 3x in an evening.
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  16. legshowcuck

    legshowcuck Well-Known Member

    have You seen Yourself in the mirror :)
  17. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    How many times do you orgasm?
  18. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    I get into a "zone" when I"m going at it, not quite cumming until it's too much and BAM I have a huge orgasm. I want to get fucked hard after I cum and then it starts all over again.....
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  19. desimilf80

    desimilf80 Member

    It is the novelty factor as well, like when you first start dating and have sex 3 - 4 times a night, day in and out, over time it goes down to twice a week for me at least. She is 33, I am 38.
    My wife will report that she has sex on average 3 times when she is with her date/bull, he does take Cialis (like Viagra), she drinks a lot of wine on a date and that helps too, next morning when she is back she is sleeping till 4 pm. Also he does massage her with baby oil between fucking. Not to mention that he is 28.
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  20. Bartleby

    Bartleby Well-Known Member

    my wife is 40 and she tells me that she has a lot longer sex with her lovers than with me. That makes me feel jealous and being second rate a little bit. She explains the situation by the lover being a new person to have sex with which is more exciting so she has longer sex with them. When I was new, the sex sessions lasted longer, too.

    I accept that explanation and can imagine the same is true for your wife. I have learned to be happy about how much sex my wife is getting from other men.
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