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Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by Slonew, Nov 17, 2016.

  1. Slonew

    Slonew New Member

    Hi there. Ever since the wife told me of her MFM fantasy early on in our relationship of 12 years now and made a statement some 5-6 years later, that she could see us swinging in the future. That was after we were confused for another couple, and overheard some of their conversation of being swingers.

    Fast forward to now. Just recently she asked if I would be ok with her getting an erotic massage from this "handsome masseur" while I watch. Of course is my response, and shortly after that she also asked if I would be ok with her having sex with other men. And my non verbal response was of course yes.

    So, the big question is is she ready to have our/her first adventure with another man?

    For a bit of a preface to the above, I always encourage her to flirt and be flirty when she is with me or solo. I had given her coupons for adult fun when she off on business or otherwise. Plus stories have been written with her as my lead character where she receives pleasure in many ways form other men and women.

    Thanks for the input.
  2. MikeyTee

    MikeyTee New Member

    Slonew, if you are honest with yourself you already know that your wife has been ready to have her first adventure with another man for many years. I suspect that not a single month, probably week, has gone by since you met her that she has not fantasised of being fucked whilst fellating you or another man, or indeed being double penetrated. I accept that reality can be somewhat different, but her earlier acceptance of you two swinging, and her recent highly specific fishing for your response to her receiving an erotic massage leaves very little to the imagination.
    Make no mistake, Slonew, your wife wants to have sex with another man. I also strongly suspect you find that prospect deliciously erotic. So as long as you can handle it, I would get a date in the diary with this handsome masseur pronto and take it from there. Enjoy and good luck.
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  3. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    I am going to throw my shot in the dark and say she has already had her first adventure, but that is awesome, you are in a position to be included if you respond loving and supporting.
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  4. JeffHouston

    JeffHouston Well-Known Member

    Yes. She is ready. Are you ready? Give verbal responses. Be honest. Be direct.
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  5. Slonew

    Slonew New Member

    Thanks for the comments. @DeannaHouston- I know she has not had her first adventure. But if she did I would not be upset. I am ready for her to take the step. Had the masseur appt set up at a nice hotel. He cancelled to "injury":(. She was visibly disappointed. So it will end to be rescheduled.
    I cannot wait for this to take place and she will have all control over everything.

    Thanks again, I appreciate the nice comments. Now to set things in motion.
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  6. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Well dang he cancelled. Hopefully you can find a different guy. I was lucky enough to get an erotic massage in San Francisco and Madrid. I haven't found anyone in Houston yet but this might motivate me to look.
  7. Slonew

    Slonew New Member

    A friend of hers gave her the guys number/name etc. She found him quite handsome. So I will bring it up again and see if she wants me or if she wants to find another. As you know, it will be up to her.
  8. rob788

    rob788 Guest

    I suspect she already has. Get her to think up a story about her and another guy while you're having sex. If she's convinced you liked it, she will feel comfortable telling you she's already being fucked. (from my experience.)
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  9. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    Dammit and sympathies Slownew. Why do those masseurs that our wives hanker after always have to be handsome? Isn't it enought that they are strong and well-built and usually work naked with only a low-slung towel temptingly girding their waists at eye-level?

    If you were present while one was massaging your wife, would you have the balls to reach around and loosen the towel so that it fell from his hips?

    I would. But I confess I have had that done to me several times by husbands of wives I have been called to massage and it's rather flattering and arousing I can tell you.
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