Hi there. Ever since the wife told me of her MFM fantasy early on in our relationship of 12 years now and made a statement some 5-6 years later, that she could see us swinging in the future. That was after we were confused for another couple, and overheard some of their conversation of being swingers. Fast forward to now. Just recently she asked if I would be ok with her getting an erotic massage from this "handsome masseur" while I watch. Of course is my response, and shortly after that she also asked if I would be ok with her having sex with other men. And my non verbal response was of course yes. So, the big question is is she ready to have our/her first adventure with another man? For a bit of a preface to the above, I always encourage her to flirt and be flirty when she is with me or solo. I had given her coupons for adult fun when she off on business or otherwise. Plus stories have been written with her as my lead character where she receives pleasure in many ways form other men and women. Thanks for the input.