Is he a cuckold?

Discussion in 'Cuckolding and Hotwifing in the Media' started by Worth It, Jan 19, 2016.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    While on a business trip, I caught a religious program, Focus on the Family, on the car radio.

    The host interviewed a young woman and her husband. She was a self-described boy crazy, wild child that became sexual active at 14. He is the straight arrow pastor's son. She was regulaly brought to his church by her mother, he noticed her and was told by his family to stay away, she's bad news.

    She became pregnant at 16 by her boyfriend at the time, who dumped her for another girl. She had the baby at 17, and he visited her as part of the Church's ministry to bring a few things for her and the baby. They had their first date two weeks later (where the waitress said to him, "He's such a cute baby, you must be proud."), and they married within a year.

    It was an inspiring, Church happy ending story, but it made me think - how much was her promiscuous behavior and this "pre-cucking" an attraction for him? It's unlikely that they're living the cuckold (or any non-monogamous) lifestyle, but in their throes of passion I'm certain each is thinking of the other guys she's fucked.

    We're all not so different.
     
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  2. obedientcuck

    obedientcuck Well-Known Member

    It's also unlikely the leader of the National Association of Evangelicals frequently paid a male prostitute for methed-up sex... Oh, wait...

    Anyway I'm not so sure how unlikely it is. Being religious doesn't make a person immune to kinks, just more likely to hide them.
     
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  3. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    :) How right you are! But even assuming everything is as they are portraying it, several thoughts:
    • Like us cucks here, the rule is appreciate her and treat her right,
    • We love our wives because they are naughty, he loves her despite her naughtiness,
    • Some cucks here like being denied; it was clear he is being denied the kinks she gave her exes now that she's a good girl,
    • One of the ultimates here he's living, she was bred by the alpha bad boy,
    • Unlike most of us here that can't / won't be out about our lives, this guy has the well-known town slut as his wife before the congregation,
    • Finally, they probably have future interview episodes ahead of them, like "Forgiving My Wife for Adultery - How It Made Our Marriage Stronger."
     
  4. Clarepear

    Clarepear Well-Known Member

    He is a cuckold, raising another man's child is the definition of a cuckold. Being involved with a lot of religious group, I can tell you that you'd be surprised how common this is. Outside the church boys joke about running away from children, and in the church men rush to raise them. For all the talk of homophobia and intolerance within churches, I can say there's a unique ethic that I often find inspiring.

    For the most part, affairs are looked down upon in the church (which I argue against all the time). So is watching pornography. I can tell you, in Christian marriages men secretly watch pornography and we women secretly have affairs (usually not like me, it's usually just a one or two time fling).
     
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  5. Silverback

    Silverback Active Member

    For all we know he is a reader of this board. I'm going to be careful about getting into discussions on the definition of the word Cuckold, not that I disagree, because you are correct Claire, except that this isn't really the definition we are going with here in this forum. I think at this point most of us have in mind an updated version of the word, more in tune with popular usage. He does sound like a decent person, but to be honest, I wonder about any man anxious to raise another's child. Especially a religious nut.
     
  6. Ekad91

    Ekad91 Active Member

    He must be. I come from a religious background (which I later rejected) and I knew my wife had many men under her belt and I overlooked it and loved her despite her sexually active past. A few years after I discovered it was a hidden fetish. Maybe one day he will see the light! :D
     
  7. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    Religious "nut"? Perhaps the more commonly used term "nutter" would capture the more coital spirit pervading some of the more evocative postings on this forum. Regarding the meaning and usage of the term "cuckold", I have always understood that, as originally conceived, it applied to husbands whose wives merely fucked another man behind their back. That's to say, without the husband's knowledge or permission. The classical usage of the term nowhere suggests that a bastard child needs to result from their secret fuckings for the term to apply to the deceived husband. With birds it is different; the female cuckoo merely depositing an egg or eggs in the already-prepared nest of another species of bird and allowing the female and/or male bider-owners of the nest to incubate it and hatch it and rear the resulting cuckoo chicks. As far as I am aware, in the natural setting and scheme of things there is no requirement for the male cuckoo to fuck the female joint-owner of the nest--not even behind her mate's back--and impregnate her. For present-day purposes, including on this forum, I suggest that the key ingredient of cuckolding should be held to be the initial secrecy of the wife's infidelity, whether or not the husband becomes aware of the latter and tolerates it or encourages it. For the record, I am not aware of my having been cuckolded in the restricted sense of the term as I am suggesting we ought to employ on this forum. It was me that brought my young buddy---now living with us as my wife's lover--into my marriage for the purpose of ensuring her sexual excitement and fulfilment and happiness in addition to what I was providing her with. I was beside her in our bed when for over some 10 days including her entire fertile period her lover fucked her nightly and in the mornings, strictly exclusively of me with my consent, and vigorously and very satisfyingly impregnated her. With my having not contributed even a single spurt to the resulting seminal pools in my wife's vagina but only masturbated beside the lovers, the child she is carrying is undoubtedly his. I was never and am still not "anxious" to raise my priorly childless buddy's first or any later child of his making with my wife. But I was thrilled and honoured to witness its very beautiful conception. The three of us will raise our child-of-blessing together, nuturing it with our enduring and very strongly mutual love. Even as we can feel it moving and kicking through the wall of her lovely pregnant belly and against our cocks thrusting in her vagina. To finish, I assure our readership here and now that the only permanent horn I have grown since my wife took her handsome young lover has not been on either side of my head, but in a strong upward curve from my groin.
     
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  8. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    Religious "nut"? Perhaps the more commonly used term "nutter" would capture the more coital spirit pervading some of the more evocative postings on this forum. Regarding the meaning and usage of the term "cuckold", I have always understood that, as originally conceived, it applied to husbands whose wives merely fucked another man behind their back. That's to say, without the husband's knowledge or permission. The classical usage of the term nowhere suggests that a bastard child needs to result from their secret fuckings for the term to apply to the deceived husband. With birds it is different; the female cuckoo merely depositing an egg or eggs in the already-prepared nest of another species of bird and allowing the female and/or male bider-owners of the nest to incubate it and hatch it and rear the resulting cuckoo chicks. As far as I am aware, in the natural setting and scheme of things there is no requirement for the male cuckoo to fuck the female joint-owner of the nest--not even behind her mate's back--and impregnate her. For present-day purposes, including on this forum, I suggest that the key ingredient of cuckolding should be held to be the initial secrecy of the wife's infidelity, whether or not the husband becomes aware of the latter and tolerates it or encourages it. For the record, I am not aware of my having been cuckolded in the restricted sense of the term as I am suggesting we ought to employ on this forum. It was me that brought my young buddy---now living with us as my wife's lover--into my marriage for the purpose of ensuring her sexual excitement and fulfilment and happiness in addition to what I was providing her with. I was beside her in our bed when for over some 10 days including her entire fertile period her lover fucked her nightly and in the mornings, strictly exclusively of me with my consent, and vigorously and very satisfyingly impregnated her. With my having not contributed even a single spurt to the resulting seminal pools in my wife's vagina but only masturbated beside the lovers, the child she is carrying is undoubtedly his. I was never and am still not "anxious" to raise my priorly childless buddy's first or any later child of his making with my wife. But I was thrilled and honoured to witness its very beautiful conception. The three of us will raise our child-of-blessing together, nuturing it with our enduring and very strongly mutual love. Even as we now feel it moving and kicking through the wall of her lovely pregnant belly and against our proud cocks thrusting in her vagina.
     
  9. justr101

    justr101 New Member


    Research the old English term: Wittol. I'd never heard it until I was described as one by a man I'd brought together with my wife. A "Wittol", literally is a husband who knows his wife has other lovers; allows and accepts it. And, in many cases, as in mine; encourages her and enjoys watching her infidelity. Whether pregnancy and the raising of another man's offspring is involved is incidental. Most men referred to as cuckolds these days, are, by defination, wittols.
     
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  10. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

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    So by your definition of the term, technically I am a "wittol". To your way of thinking, does the term apply to me even though I deliberately set up my buddy to become my wife's lover and latterly for him to impregnate her, and that I incidentally get off on both achievements and, intensely voyeuristically, on him still fucking her?
     
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  11. Rob Y

    Rob Y Guest


    I think you're right, having heard my relatives and friends in the church mention this, and I agree it's inspiring. I mean no offense to anyone's religious sensibilites, but isn't the Christian religion itself dependent upon a form of cuckoldry for its very foundation? A highly unusual form, to be sure, but couldn't one think of Joseph as the ultimate cosmic cuckold? I mean, if you're going to be cuckolded...

    A story from the Old Testament comes to mind also, that of Hosea and Gomer. If I recall correctly, God commanded Hosea to marry Gomer, who, depending on the translation, is either called a "promiscuous woman", or "a whore," etc. After they're married, she leaves him for another man. He goes and finds her, and pays money to get her back. She finally stops her shenanigans and presumably they live faithfully ever after if I'm not mistaken. This story is usually taken as a metaphor for the troubled relationship between God and Israel, but it does seem like, in these religions, that any man who is in a relationship with such a woman is considered noble, longsuffering, and spiritual, rather than a wimp or a fool.
     
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  12. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    I think you did just fine navigating that topic. :)
     
  13. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    Why is he a nut? I wonder about people that label others. I've known many sons or daughters of preachers, preist, and reverends. Not a single one was a nut.
     
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  14. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    You are 100% correct. I am a wittol, but that is a higher level of a cuckold. Or lower level depending on your prespective.
     
  15. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    I have known you are a wittol from the first post of yours I read.
     
  16. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Well then, perhaps you're wondering about me. Audrey wanted to have a child, but I had a vasectomy years ago after having two children with my first wife. We wanted to have a child that was ours biologically, but reversing the vasectomy wasn't possible and other procedures, sperm aspiration and microinjection IVF/ICSI didn't work. So we considered the alternatives - adoption and artificial insemination. Adoption wasn't necessary because Audrey was fertile, and artificial insemination was stupid because of our attitude toward sex. So Audrey became pregnant by the guy who is one of the couples we play with, and who she lived before we were married (they have two children of their own). His wife and I were totally supportive. During that time her other male lovers could only enter her mouth or ass. We now have a daughter that is ours. This wasn't part of any sexual kick or kink, just the desire to have a child.
     
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  17. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    Thank you for sharing a truley beautiful story. I would think that people here would be more understanding, tolerant, non-judgmental, and check their hate at the door.
     
  18. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    That you know of. Of course these are people that believe in invisible people, and are willing to tell you how you should live your life, while in many cases simultaneously failing miserably to practice what they preach, and pick and choose what portion of the bible they'll use. This kid married a woman, (a good thing) that the bible directs him expressly to execute. That means kill. There is no question about that. Yes, the bible, not the Quran, or the Satanic Bible, but the Christian bible. That's why they are religious nuts.

    These are people who will tell you to pray. What good has prayer done? And who is listening?
     
  19. Donald_Cuck

    Donald_Cuck Active Member

    Not going to argue with anyone about this.

    But no one, I repeat no one should judge anyone else. You can not know what this individual believes or thinks, no more than anyone can say because you are a white male, that you believe a certain way. Or you may be a cat lover, therefore you believe a certain way.

    That is my point, we each are a product of our experiences.

    This is not to say he (the boy) believes as you say, but to stereotype as I'm sure you know is something we (this world) can use a little less with.
     
  20. capn.steve

    capn.steve Active Member

    I'm not one to fall for snake oil salesmen. I'm sure there are some who believe in their snake oil. Some of it may even work.
     

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