Discussion in 'Fantasies and Roleplaying' started by Jen9, Oct 31, 2016.
You should ask him!
Jen, How are you doing? I love your postings. Hopefully you, husband, and boyfriend are well. Deanna
Its been going good. I get the husband on the weekends. And M during the weekdays. It was a long weekend, i miss M. Had lunch with him today, hes stopping by after work. Im excited for some one on one time with him.
Nice! Love the text message
Hi Jen, love this thread and your fantasy and hope you get the chance to act on it in the future. If you do I hope it everything you want it to be!
Of course I also want M to win!
I have been lucky enough to have had a boxing match with one of my wife's bulls and I really wanted to win! Being defeated and watching him claim his rightful prize was one of the hottest and most humiliating things that had ever happened to me! So many emotions it was unbelievable.
Good luck if you get to do this!
Jen, I wish you the best of luck with this. They don't actually have to fight, you know. This is really what all male competition is about. It can be a game of pool, or darts, or tennis. Even chess. Any competition between them will do just fine. I'd recommend you arrange some game between them, not actually planning to fuck M if he wins, but make it part of sex play with your husband soon after. If your husband wins, let him see how turned on you are, and let him know why. If M wins, tell your husband how hot it made you, and let him reap the reward. Then you can start to introduce the idea that you'll fuck M, if he should win. You should be able to get lots of hot sex with your husband with this game. If he is anything like me, every orgasm he has playing the game with you, about you fucking M, will make the idea that much hotter.
Good luck, and please keep us posted.
See, that's where I see a problem. Violence is hard to control, and if it got out of hand, someone might end up in the hospital, or worse. Any blow to the head, has the potential for serious injury, that could cause brain damage or death. Yes, that's the extreme, but it is a possibility that seems a bit extreme for bedroom play.
Personally, when one of my wife's lovers is available, she would want him to win, although she abhors violence. She can have me anytime, so these special guys are treats that get her complete and exclusive attention when they come for a visit. She does have her own little contest she plays, and I'm always at a complete disadvantage when she does.
I'm not claiming to be some badass, and I'm definately not one of those internet Navy Seals that seem oddly common in chat rooms and posting boards, but I have had extensive martial arts training, and I can handle myself in a fight. I avoid violence, and have never started a fight in my life, but I've ended several, and only lost a fight once (and the other guy didn't get out unscathed either). The fight was broken up, and while he got more shots in, and I ended up with a broken nose, he ended up with a black eye and a busted lip, so nobody really could claim a clear victory. These days, I'm not playing fair at this point in my life, because frankly I'm too old for this macho school yard crap!
If such a scenario happened, it would either end one of two ways. One, with someone in the hospital, and the likely hood that the victor would be in any condition to "claim his prize" would be very unlikely. The other choice, would be for me to throw the fight, so that her preferred bedroom champion would win without anyone getting seriously hurt, and that goes against every fight or flight instinct a man has, which goes back to my earlier comment that violence is hard to control.
While it might be appealing to you in fantasy, in reality I don't think it would be much fun for anyone. How about a round of arm wrestling? Or just play a game that my wife has used on occasion, "okay you two, whichever of you has the biggest cock gets to fuck me all night, and the other one has to sit and watch". Of the three she has played that game with, one of the guys (a good buddy of mine) is only an inch longer at best, and not as thick. I wouldn't even bother disputing her other two lovers, because they are noticibly bigger than me, but in this case, we were pretty evenly matched in size. When I jokingly pointed out that we were pretty even, me edging in thickness, and him in length, her response was classic, "but he IS longer than you, and he can reach parts of me you have never touched, so he wins!"
Pigr75 is absolutely right about other forms of competition that can work just as well.
Hawke82 is also right about violence being hard to control.
When I did something similar her Bull arranged a boxing ring at his gym so there was lots of build up and anticipation. He would tease me about what he would do when he won!
We had the gloves and head guards and a ref for safety as well as some of his friends to watch and cheer him on.
I'll post details of the fight itself a little later if anyone is interested.
My like is a "yes, I'm interested in hearing more" like!
M and I have been fucking for the last 3 weeks. He thinks my husband doesnt know about it. I dont hide nothing from my husband (besides a few pictures and videos i may have taken). I think it will be VERY awkward when these two are face to face. But im kind of excited to see how these two guys interact with each other. I love my husband. Hes jealous but he understands me. One of the few guys that i click well with.
Do you want to bring M over to meet with him? How did you finally convince your husband?
It seems all of you will have lots of fun
Pillow talk. Best way to sway a guy over. M and i are good friends. We have the same circle of friends. M and my husband are bound to have plenty of encounters. Honestly i dont know how you guys deal with these moments where you come face to face with the guy thats making love with wife.
Yay! I'm glad to hear you guys are finally having sex. Meeting the guy who is having sex with your wife is quite nerve racking. But after a few times it became a lot more relaxed and got to the point that we joke about and talk about it all.
Clucky, it's great that you became relaxed and are now able to joke and talk with your wife's bull about the sex he is having with your wife. In my experience, that's the best scenario for everyone involved. Jen, a non-violent competitive (preferably athletic) game between M and your husband is an excellent idea. I once challenged a husband to a contest of one-on-one basketball that included lots of smack talk. His lovely wife watched on with great interest. I beat her husband fairly easily. The husband became much more relaxed and comfortable with me afterwards. The fact that I dominated her husband in an athletic contest really turned the wife on. After our game we returned to their house and jumped in the shower to clean up. After I finished and dried myself off, I was greeted by his naked wife who whispered in my ear, "It was so hot watching you win... now you can do anything you want to me."
Trust me, im going to get these guys to go up against each other in some sort of competition one of these days. And yes i will reward the winner. This weekend my husband and i are going to a friends birthday party. M will be there too. First time these guys will be face to face since M and i hooked up. Should be interesting. Maybe i will set these guys up on a game of pool or something. I will keep yalls updated.
I also love competition. I love when Jeff wins and I love when the dick wins. So it is a win-win for me. I dont want to take from Jen's post so I'll share a story in another post about last Saturday.
I enjoy meeting and being around the guys that have great sex with Deanna. It's exciting and we already have something in common.
I agree. L has been seeing a coworker for some time now. He stays over often, so we've developed this unlikely friendship. He's about the only lover L has had that will hang around the next day and talk. He's interested in how and why I can share L, and genuinely has a sense of humor about all of it. He's not the typical aggressive "Bull" - but isn't afraid to playfully fondle L in front of me the morning after at breakfast, and he does get L and our bed for the night when he stays. We like the same kinds of music and movies, and even hang out as a threesome at local art galleries and museums. I never imagined I would have a friend that I can talk openly with about how hot L is in bed and have him share why he thinks so too. It's not common, but very comfortable.
Dont bother me if you post it up here. Be easier for me to find and read.
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