I think loser is a really harsh way of looking at yourself. Like Pathedick, i consider myself reasonably intelligent, in a successful career, beautiful house and great friends and family. BUT i'm a shit fuck and always have been, but it is what it is. I'd love to get laid a lot more than i do and have survived on not nearly as much pussy as i would have like, but take out the bedroom situation out of the equation and i'm pretty happy with who i am and what i've achieved in life. I do feel a little robbed in life because of my cock size and all the sex i never got because of it, but there are people out there with much worse situations in life. My small cock may not have brought a lot of women a lot of joy over my life, but god its given me a LOT of pleasure, yes with my own hand but its squirted every day for nearly 40 years and sometimes 3-4 times a day when i was younger, and so i just accept it, find the positives of it and move on. I've spoken to a lot of cuckolds in my life and never once thought any of them were losers, just different and having to work with more challenging situations than most men.