So a guy got my girlfriends number the other day and contacted today by text asking her out. Her plan is to go out with him and discuss our lifestyle to him over drinks. He has no clue she has a boyfriend. I guess my question is, would you tell him first then go out on a date or just go out and talk to him face to face. Most likely he will be all about it or be put off and think we're weird. I don't know if he thinks he's going to work towards a real relationship or what. So how would you go about something like this not meeting him on a fetish or cuckolding site first. For all we know he could be pretty vanilla.