I was about 31 when I suggested to my wife she should sleep with other men. It took her a while to get used to the idea but eventually started a relationship with three men she knew through work. She said she couldn't just have sex with men and there had to be an emotional connection so they became full on affairs - going out on dates and text messaging etc. This became a bit stressful for me as I wasn't expecting her to have an affair as such. But I accept that is part of being a cuckold. It was a strange feeling knowing she was in another relationship with another man and they were behaving like real lovers, calling each other and being romantic. I suppose it made me realise what being an obliging cuckold really meant and I needed to deal with the anxiety and jealousy I felt. Anyway, the relationships didn't last too long as a result of my feelings. But now I am older I feel I would be able to cope better.