We're relatively new here and have been in this lifestyle only just over a year. We have since learned that many couples are most interested in other races, most often African-American men, to service their wives. We talked about it but haven't yet decided (mutually) on that. Can someone so inclined tell us what attracted the wife to that pursuit, what is different with a Black man in general and how they found their partner? At this point, we're only curious, but that could change. We also curious as to the results any might have from responding to Craigslist's "casual acquaintances" pages at the M4MF section. We're non-judgmental and open-minded. My wife's principal experiences have either been posted in "real life" and on this page if you wish to check us out before reading.