Another Quora-thing where this question was posted: How do I turn my husband into a cuckold? I still find Quora a strangely anonymous place with very little interaction between the folks who asked and the folks who took the time to answer, however, I do take part in the cuckolding "debate" there - even though it can hardly be classified as an ongoing debate, really. Anyway, it's always refreshing when the drive comes from the wife which at least the question seems to indicate Here's my answer: First question: Have you ever discussed this with him? There are three possibilities: He hates the idea and has zero cuckold emotions within him He is ignorant of the idea but finds himself strangely attracted to it He is a wannabe cuckold and will be thrilled that you suggest it Before we know his take on this it is next to impossible to guide you. So first of all find out where he stands on the issue. But do it discretely, please. Second question: Have you considered cheating? Is your wish to truly make him into a cuckold (a wittol, actually), or is your prime motivation simply to have sex with other men? Nothing wrong with that, but you have to get your priorities figured out before embarking on the cuckold route. I would like to add one point that may seem a little bit controversial but really isn’t when you think slightly deeper about it. In spite of our ingrown morality that monogamy is good and any thing else a sign of a bad relationship, the fact remains that a substantial amount of wives (and hubbies for that matter) feel a sexual attraction to others than their spouse. This is completely natural - in fact, it’s probably a sign of a healthy sexuality. Some act on this urge but that is far from the same as them being dissatisfied with their current marriage. In this regard the notion of socalled “cheating” is misunderstood. As my x-wife formulated it when she cheated on her first hubby, it invigorated her and did not in any way pose a threat to her feelings for him. Again, I know it may sound odd to some, but it’s second nature among cuckold couples.