How do i turn gf in mistress when you have a big cock

Discussion in 'Methods, Techniques and Advice' started by krapu krup, Mar 19, 2018.

  1. krapu krup

    krapu krup New Member

    All right dear cucks.. ive been with this girl for a while and i love her so much and i want her to be part of my future but we have a little problem.
    I'm tall handsome have a nice carachter i'm good in bed and have a nice cock plus my gf is very loving and loyal and would not give me up for anyone else.
    slowly over the months we've been together i started making small steps.
    Now shes my mistress/gf and I'm her slave.
    she never calls me slave she calls my name but i always have to call her mistress or goddess. at the beginning she hated it and refused to do it but since i made her confident about it she started to like it. she treats me like a slave she makes me put her shoes on all the time.. worship her perfect feet and ass while I'm locked in a chastity cage. She accepts to take all the money and earn and use it for herself.
    But still she is extremely loving and kind and i love and appreciate her for that. but I wanna make another step I want her to have 100% control and treat me like a real slave.
    I really wish i could convince her to go have fun and sleep with a hot guy or go on dates and spend my money.. but she doesn't want anyone else besides me.
    I really want her to do it without me asking
    I don't want it to be for me a favor i want her to cheat on me without me knowing at first then i want to find out and get down on my knees and beg her to forgive me that i didn't satisfy her enogh myself and tell her that i love her anyway.
    is it my fault ? i'm pretty submissive but i also perform good in bed for long periods of time maybe that's why she doesn't even think of sleeping with other men.
    What should i do?
     
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  2. Jessie N woody

    Jessie N woody New Member

    Hi,
    I've had much the same experience as you, I'm quite big andy wife was always satisfied with our sex life and reluctant to go elsewhere.
    We haven't done anything yet but she has now agreed to start dating/sleeping around while I stay faithful.
    The main hurdle was her feeling that it would hurt me/damage the marriage, so a lot of talking and reassurance was needed to reach this point.
    I think her seeing just how big a turn on it is for me helped a lot so maybe you could try some roleplay, we often pretend she has just returned from a meet up and it really spices things up.
    Hope this helps!!
     
  3. krapu krup

    krapu krup New Member

    I tried to talk to her many times about it she said that she will never do it and told me to stop talking about it.

    She thinks I'm crazy..
    but she likes to make me jelous.. idk i think i will give up on this fantasy we already have a mistress-slave relationship and we both like it so i will be happy with what i have i can't risk losing her
     
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  4. @herfeet

    @herfeet Guest

    I have very similar situation, while i am not a record holder BWC or anything, i did get pretty lucky in the cock lottery, but for me, i never new untill much latter in life, i had surgery when young and my flacid cock pretty much stopper growing, but when hard it is quite a different story, but when you walk around high school with an cock the size of a small childs when soft, it affects how you interact with the ladies for sure, i played all kinds of sports, so i new i was small from the shower, and the teasing after the showers, a few whoppings after i got dressed solved the teasing but in my mind i was tiny, i am very tall, strongly built, and to the outside world very type a, but inside there is still the small dicked kid who couldn't get up the never to go past second base for years for fear of a girl finding my tiny secret, when i first started sleeping with women i though they were just being nice to me about size, took a long time to realize i had enough packing for the ladies in my life, but all that i think created the desire to be submisive to my wife behind close doors, the Femdom stuff you have going should be alot of fun if you give into it, and as she grows in it you my find your new fantasy getting closer and closer to reality, good luck
     
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  5. rocketman

    rocketman Guest

    Have you thought about not having sex with your wife, or not performing so well? You don't have to tell her explicitly that the reason you're not in the mood is because you want her to sleep with other men. Does she have a regular girls' night out with her friends. Hold back on sex and suggest she go out for drinks and dancing with her friends when she's ovulating. The temptation and desire will only increase.
     
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  6. krapu krup

    krapu krup New Member

    my story is very similar big when hard small when small.. i never had problems with the ladys but i would always wait till i get hard before i put my pants down you know what i mean. my is just thiner when soft not necessarily small.
    i still wonder what made me submissive
     
  7. krapu krup

    krapu krup New Member

    we don't live in america where people go to bars and get fucked.. we are in a small city where everyone knowss you and people gossip alot.. she has the good girl reputation to keep
     
  8. krapu krup

    krapu krup New Member

    i don't know if i want to risk it i love her. and i like having sex with her and getting bjs but i have this feeling inside that i want to be dominated and shes not the best at it.
     
  9. Jessie N woody

    Jessie N woody New Member

    I read a thread on here where people recommend deliberately performing badly in bed and acting overly submissive to encourage your wife to look elsewhere, but that seems manipulative and dishonest to me, I could never do it.
    It took me years to get her to the point where she is willing to try this but at least I've been honest with her and she knows what she is getting herself into. I'm sorry I can't help you more but just keep chipping away at her, if she sees you are serious she may reconsider. Perhaps a weekend away would be a good chance to bring it up again.
     

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