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Discussion in 'Hotwifing, Swinging and Swapping' started by spmartini, Jan 16, 2015.

  1. spmartini

    spmartini New Member

    I am submitting this to see if any other people have had the same or similar experiences. My wife and I have known each other since 1988. I met her during her senior year of high school when we began dating. I was well aware that she had been sexually active prior to meeting me and that she had a boyfriend who she was fond of and remained friends with even after we started dating. We moved in together in the spring of 1989 at which time I was working and she was working and attending college. He would stop by our apartment all the time and we would hang out and we developed a good friendship with him. I had asked her if she still had an interest in him and she had told me that he was always nice to her but that he had developed an interest in another girl who he wound up dumping her for and she did not particulary care for this girl at the time. One evening in the summer of 89 he was over and we were sitting around drinking and smoking and he seemed to be flirting with her and at one point she got up and went into the bedroom and I followed. She was buzzed and not feeling sny psin so I asked her out right if she would be interested in fucking him again. She looked at me with the most puzzled look and asked if i was serious? When I replied yes, that I was she seemed startled but at the same time excited. I knew she was totally into this guy Brian and I could tell by the way she rubbed the front of my jeans that she had been horned up. Long story short that was the first time I ever watched another man fuck my girls pussy and they fucked for a long time with him eventually putting a load inside her. It was her way of revenge on the other girl for taking him from her. We contiuned that relationship for several months until he moved to a different state. On the eve of his move he came over and she gave him head and swallowed every drop and that was the last time they had any type of sexual activity.

    Fast forward to present time. Right after Thanksgiving of last year she received a Facebook friend request from this guy Brian. We had talked to him several years ago by phone and he is now married and lives in Illinois. This past Tuesday he came to the North East on business and we went and met him for dinner and drinks. As with everyone he has aged with some grey in his hair but is still in pretty good shape. We talked about what is going on in his and our lives and such. He spoke of his wife and children and how she is a good home maker and the kids are on the homor role and shit. We wound up getting a six pack and joining him back at his hotel for a night cap and within an hour after arriving in his room I was watching his cock slide in my wifes pussy. Again, they fucked for a long time with her having several orgasms and him finally pulling out and shooting his load on her stomach and in her pubic hair. We hung out for a little while longer sitting around naked and talking about old times and friends and then she got dressed and we left. I asked her if it felt the same as it did years ago and she told me it was better then she remembered. She told me that him being married made it more erotic as it was taboo to be fucking a married guy. He has texted her several times thanking her and told her he will be back again in April.

    I'm just curious if this type of occurence has happened to anyone else and if so has it been a productive relationship or did it end bad?
  2. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member


    I can't speak to the question you asked, since I haven't been in your situation. However, I'm very glad you shared your situation with us.

    When I read your first paragraph, about her enjoying as revenge, that was interesting. And then when I read the second paragraph, about being more erotic, I think that perhaps the first situation has some elements of that in it for her as well.

    I'm hopeful that the situation will go well for all of you. I suspect it may, since the guy seems inclined to keep things quiet, judging from the first situation.


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  3. spmartini

    spmartini New Member


    First let me thank you for replying to my post and for your input as you are very well versed and trusted on this site. Let me just clarify that I have no problems with her and married men as anyone who is in this lifestyle knows we are all in it for the same thing which is sexual satisfaction. I just found it interesting that after not seeing someone for many years she was able to get back into it with no problems.
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  4. happycuck23

    happycuck23 New Member

    My wife's boyfriend is actually an ex-boyfriend of hers. They were together before we met about thirteen years ago, and only broke up because he had to move to Europe for business. She always told me he was the best sex she ever had. He tried to keep in touch with her over the years, but it never really happened.

    About three years ago, he moved back to North America. We actually decided to go out for dinner with him, and that night after ten years apart, he fucked her lights out. So the two of them were also able to just get back into it. They went out a few times after that, just the two of them. And each time they ended up at our place fucking.

    They have been dating now for three years, and me and my wife couldnt be happier.
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  5. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    Wives dating Ex's is always better, they know each other intimately , and know what turns each other on, my wife is always happier with ex's.
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  6. NewOrleansCuck

    NewOrleansCuck New Member

    My wife is currently involved with a friend from a while back. The situation wasn't right back then so no sexual involvement but both wanted it, which I think makes it so much hotter for them both now. But because they were friends everything is so relaxed and comfortable for all of us, plus things moved very quickly too. I am glad he came back into her life!
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  7. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Since my wife and I have been together, she has had sex only with exes, except for one of the guys wives. It is more comfortable for the both of us this way. But since we've been married, no married guys unless the wife knows about it. Sometimes now, I fuck the other guys' wives too, with her consent (and encouragement) of course.
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  8. desi_cuckold

    desi_cuckold New Member

    Reading this thread, I know I'm missing so much

    My wife didn't have any boyfriends before we married, and I am the only guy she has been with.

    It must be very erotic to meet one of her ex boyfriends, and then have him describe her intimate parts, and feel the thrill when he talks about the birthmark on her butt, or the beauty spot under her breast.

    My wife was from a very conservative family, my cock was the first she experienced. I want her to experience several more
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  9. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    Desi, you live in London, there are thousands of clubs where you can take her, quite a few of them Asian, there she can meet a boyfriend or two, just try and you will both get what you want
  10. desi_cuckold

    desi_cuckold New Member

    She doesn't want an asian man to start with, for her, the exotic is the white man.... and for reasons of discretion, we both would prefer someone who's not from the asian community, although it could happen later.

    But before that, she needs to break down some of those barriers that culture and religion have built up..... I'm hoping it will happen, it just needs time and a delicate touch
  11. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

  12. desi_cuckold

    desi_cuckold New Member

    Oh, that other post was how I'd like my wife in that particular situation, the way that guy was describing how he'd take his wife shopping for underwear for another man.

    My wife dresses fairly western, just not showing cleavage or bare legs, although she will wear jeggings with a long skirt. I'm trying to get her out of the headscarf, so she wears her hair out....once that happens, I think she's be more open to exposing her neck and then cleavage.

    I'm not the jealous kind, more protective because I don't want her hurt or anything like that. But I would love her to come to me and say, "I have found a man I want to be intimate with, I want you to drive me to his place and wait for me outside"
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  13. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Although our backgrounds are different, and my wife was already sexually liberated when we met, you've summed up perfectly how I feel. I just want my wife to be happy, sexually spoiled.
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  14. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    For reasons I can't explain, we both find sex with an ex to be the hottest. We have been married 27 years and during that time, several old boyfriends have fucked her. The guy that popped her cherry did her wherever and whenever he wanted up till about 6 years ago. The one she thinks knocked her up at 20 also does her now and then. Many of our friends knew and dated her before we met and married all fucked her on the first date back then. Most of them have been between her legs off and on over the years. I am her first and only marriage, but would gladly share her with an ex-husband if she had one, or two, or three.
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  15. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    There is something special about ex's fucking your wife, especially the one who took her cherry, you knowing how extremely easy she is must make a great relationship. Are you still bringing up the child, from when she was 20 ??
  16. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    The "child" is now 37
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  17. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    That is great, is the biological father as well as you involved in its life??? grand kids etc
  18. crazyinvt

    crazyinvt Active Member

    No he's not and no grand kids
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  20. rob788

    rob788 Guest

    It worked out well for us with two friends from my 29-year-old wife's past. One is an ongoing relationship, but she also has three others in her life, including her boss. She is (really) very attractive and attracts stares from men almost everywhere we go. We have no children and perhaps for that reason, it's much easier for us to handle than I suspect it is for most cuckolding relationships.

    In October, my wife was shopping at a mall gift shop when a former co-worker walked up alongside her. When working together, they had become good friends and often had lunch together at a downstairs restaurant in the office building. He said they should keep in touch and swapped phone numbers. She asked me that night what I thought about that. I asked if she wanted to fuck him. She grinned and said, "I wouldn't mind. I really like him." I told her I thought that would be really hot. She phoned almost immediately and invited him to have dinner with us that weekend.

    I told her that I would stay that night in a hotel. She phoned him back the night before and said I was unexpectedly called out of town that night but said it would be okay for him to come over anyway. He wasn't at our home more than a half hour before they were naked and entering our bedroom. She had phoned me just a minute or so before and left her cell phone on alongside our bed.

    I listened as they fucked for about a half hour before the phone went dead. She hadn't recharged it, but I thoroughly enjoyed listening as long as it was working. She phoned me just after he left around 2 a.m. and told me I could come home. We had wild sex.

    She has been with him four times since and anticipates seeing him again within the month. He has no idea that I know about this. He wants to see her more often, but her excuse is that it can only be when I'm "out of town." Both are highly charged over completing this phase of their friendship. He has told her he had been wanting to fuck her since they had first become good friends. She responded that she probably would have been fucking when they worked together if he had then told her that.

    She loves getting dicked by her good friend. Each night they plan to get together, she is so excited she can barely contain herself. I love hearing the details of each encounter the next evening while we're having sex.

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