Gang bang or Train

Discussion in 'Methods, Techniques and Advice' started by DeannaHouston, Nov 15, 2016.

  1. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Have any of you ever done a gang bang or train with your female? What worked or didn't work? Any advice what you would do again or wouldn't do?

    I am not saying that I want to....but sometimes I think about it. I just have so many reservations....I don't like being used or hurt. I want to be a strong powerful sexual woman. I want consent and safety.

    But I also masturbate to the idea of just getting fucked, and all of the pleasure that could come with plentiful dick.

    Has anyone done this with a female that wasn't degraded? Or is anyone aware of porn that shows a a female getting fucked by multiples in a beautiful way? I hate all the slapping, choking, pain that is so prominent in gang bang porn.
     
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  2. slowpoking

    slowpoking Active Member

    Deanna, I assume you've been watching commercial porn, because what you described sounds like over-the-top videos that you find made by professionals. I'd encourage you instead to look at some amateur videos like this one: https://xhamster.com/movies/1386508/orange_county_wife_s_birthday_bang.html The picture quality isn't good, and it takes a long time to get to the sex, but the men treat the woman very well and respectfully (it starts with her opening presents from them!) and you can see that she's in complete control. It's easy to find other videos that are similar in this way.

    I've never been in anything bigger than a foursome, and I wouldn't presume to say if you should go for a gang bang, but I wouldn't decide not to do it because you're worried about being mistreated. I'm sure you'd find no shortage of guys eager to participate and that you could lay down any rules you want.
     
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  3. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    That was a great video.
     
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  4. MidAtlanticFun

    MidAtlanticFun Active Member

    Deanna –

    Some might be surprised, but the truth is that in over four years of being a hotwifing, Mimi has never done a gangbang or a train. She, too, has some concerns about a group of guys going into ‘mob mentality’ and things getting out of control. This is part of the reason that, despite her having sex with several guys at a party on several different occasions, it’s always one at a time.

    If you have several sex partners, and they are comfortable with each other, perhaps you could arrange a similar situation as Mimi has experienced. Invite the men to a gathering, but establish a ‘waiting room’ of sorts, along with a ‘sex room’. Do one guy at a time, and when he finishes, he can go back to the waiting room and send in the next guy to you. This might be a good way to establish a happy medium between seeing only one guy on a given evening, but not have to worry about several of them overpowering you. I guess you could also try starting out with a ‘you and three guys’ dynamic. It would seem a small enough number to (hopefully) not get too wild. And then slowly increase the number of men in subsequent events.

    Mimi has fantasies about being gangbanged, and gang raped, by several guys. But safety concerns, the logistics of arranging it all, and the bruising and marks that might be left behind (which must be avoided, as they might pique the suspicions of an unknowing husband) have all precluded her trying to engage in such an event.

    I, too, believe that a gangbang needn’t always be a ‘let’s all abuse the woman’ situation. I think there’s nothing wrong with giving a woman a good time and a succession of mind-blowing orgasms that will leave a huge smile on her face for days afterward. It’s all about personal preference.

    Eric
     
  5. bricbat

    bricbat Well-Known Member

    This was one of my wife's fantasies when we first met. She told me she wanted to be tied up and "used for sex by a group of guys." It turned me on but I was also surprised that a real life woman would have a fantasy like that, so I didn't know what to say.
     
  6. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    If my wife even discussed that with me theoretically, it would keep me going for months! And then I'd be working my way to make her fantasy come true to the best of my ability. With that, my suggestion is to task Jeff with making happen what you want to happen. He would need to be in control of any situation yall go into. Secret words/phrases/actions should be set up so that he can surreptitiously know to take action if you feel uncomfortable or don't want something to proceed.
     
  7. fkmywfxn

    fkmywfxn Well-Known Member

    Yes. We, she, has had very erotic, sensual, sexual experiences with more than one man, me and another, in the same time. The most she has ever had in the same time was three. Me and two other men. It was more like a "train" but there were times when the two of them wanted attention from her at the same time. It wasn't that they were trying to be disrespectful. It was that they were so horny and couldn't wait their turn.

    She says she prefers to focus on one man at a time.

    "Pro" porn is so far removed from what "normal" people experience that I'm surprised that they make money from it. "Pro" porn is like watching a fantasy movie like Star Wars and believing you can influence people with "the force".
     
  8. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Did she eventually do it?

    xoxoxo

    Christine
     
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  9. wildphoenix

    wildphoenix Member

    I have done a couple GBs. To tell you the truth, they are really hard to set up. A lot of guys flake out unfortunately, and several times it has turned into a threesome or foursome because the guys got cold feet at the last second. :(

    When it does happen though, I have found that guys tend to be MORE respectful than if it was one on one. Maybe because there are other people in the room, they are less likely to do anything to get themselves kicked out.
    As a real hotwife that also does porn, I can tell you that porn is nothing like real scenarios. To my dismay, many companies are going to the rough, abusive, sexual breaking fad that consumers are eating up. I refuse to do any scene like it, but I know many who have and in reality these guys are very nice, and between takes are total gentleman, so its hard to imagine that when the camera goes back on they start spitting and slapping the girls like its hot to do :( Thats why myself and others are trying to bring real, actual lifestyle content to the masses instead of this fake abusive stuff.
     
  10. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    WildPhoenix, OMGosh that you do porn, so awesome, exciting, you rock! I can imagine how fun it would have been to do a couple of GB's, it is my secret fantasy but I am afraid to actually do it.

    It makes sense that guys tend to be more respectful in a group, I also think having one of them lead that direction would help. Or have someone manage everyone as another poster suggested.

    Thank you for trying to bring real actual lifestyle content to the masses, I really detest the abusive stuff and that i very far from what I desire for me.

    I can also see how it would be easier to set up if I used known guys, less cancelling ect...and it would be so much hotter to have unknown guys. And in this I am a chicken baby so for now I am going to just fantasy play. Deanna
     
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  11. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    You and your enthusiasm for the topic are adorable.
     
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  12. vladdy

    vladdy Active Member

    Really you want known guys for this. Or best case situation would be to have a few known guys bring a friend or two who they know. So you could have a mixture.

    I also think the husband is an integral part of a gang bang. He has to take the 'producer role' to keep things kinda going in the back ground.

    Perhaps, if he films it you could tell everyone he's the director do what he says. Could be a 70's porno style video LOL. If you make it a party vibe I think it could help keep it from getting a little too creepy.
     
  13. bricbat

    bricbat Well-Known Member

    Not after we started dating--or if she had I'll never know. She refuses to even acknowledge that she had had sex before we married. She went from bragging to me about her exploits and experiences to now, when she just replies, "That was someone else" if it ever comes up in conversation.
     
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  14. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    Now THAT is just downright goofy.

    xoxoxo

    Christine
     
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  15. bricbat

    bricbat Well-Known Member

    Well, both she and I know she's not serious when she says it. :rolleyes: But her point is clear--what happened then is in the past and not something she cares to admit to. ;)
     
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  16. kort6776

    kort6776 Member

    my wife is the same way, no matter how hard I try to get her to talk about her lovers she just clams up, all she ever says is that was a long time ago and it doesn't matter. it's frustrating for me because hearing about and seeing her get done is my greatest wish.
     
  17. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Bricbat, I am so glad you are accepting of her as she is...that makes you a really good partner.
    Do you or Kort6776 understand why your wives don't want to talk about it? I was pretty reserved with Jeff regarding my exploits in the beginning but as time has past I tell him everything. Even the stuff I am ashamed of. I feel so safe with him that I want to share. I am starting to feel confident that he does not get so excited by my sexuality because I am bad but get excited because he loves sluts and thinks they are good. Deanna
     
  18. bricbat

    bricbat Well-Known Member

    That's a great question, Deanna. What she has said, on the couple of times I ventured to bring up her past, is 'you wouldn't be able to handle it.' Although frustrating, I do appreciate her wisdom--because I would probably be unbearably frustrated if I knew the truth of everything.
     
  19. DeannaHouston

    DeannaHouston Well-Known Member

    Bricbat, Okay that makes sense, she would know you best. Jeff can handle and actually likes to know about my past. We have a theory that if I am a slut there has to be men that are "slut fuckers". Just like since there are cheaters there has to be cuckolds, we would not evolve to have one without evolving to give her a partner. Jeff has always been a "slut fucker" he prefers women that are very sexually active. I am thankful for that.
     
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  20. bricbat

    bricbat Well-Known Member

    I like very sexually active women, too. The problem is that the jealousy and sexual feelings I get can overwhelm me. I rage with jealousy and sexual power at the same time.

    The only women I've had relationships with were very sexually active. I went for very sexually active women and tried to have exclusive relationships with them. I can't help it. And they all cheated on me except for my wife--at least, no one has ever confirmed it to me. In the past, I'd hear it from their girl friends.

    The very sexually active women I was with didn't understand. If there was another guy showing interest in them, I'd go "beta"--like a switch would go off in my brain. The very sexually active women didn't respect me after that happened, so they'd ditch me. My wife hasn't ditched me. But she also won't let me in.

    Maybe I'm a rarity? I'm naturally wired for it. It's been this way my entire life. I didn't choose it, believe me. Like a gay man will say he always knew he was gay, that he didn't choose to be gay. I didn't choose to be wired for my cuckold psyche.
     
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