Discussion in 'Polls and Humor' started by Worth It, Sep 10, 2017.
... about her boyfriends and/or girlfriends? Is she comfortable enough in your marriage to do so?
Upon returning Saturday from a week-long business trip during which she stayed with a boyfriend, Audrey complained to me about him. It made me feel closer to her that she would confide in me.
My wife has no reason to complain. She lusts for his body, cock, and adores the way he fucks her. That's all they do, no dinners, dates, etc. She has from time to time made sure i was okay with the way he dominates me, but they've always prepared me for the next level of submission well before i get there.
I don't know if complain is the word but she definitely tells me things about them, good or bad.
Yeah, that's how it is with us as well.
What made me start this thread, however, was that Audrey stayed with a boyfriend at his place for a week during a business trip. In the past, she has always had her own hotel room, even when she was fucking a boyfriend there or at his place. When she returned home she said, "Never again," and complained to me. (Not about the sex, just living with him. Hotel next time.) Somehow I felt both closer to her for sharing this with me and sorry that it didn't work out better.
I totally understand that, both her sharing her frustrations and your feelings closer for it. Sounds like the type of cuckold relationship most of us actually strive for in the first place! Congrats.
I have nothing to complain about except I can't see my lovers enough !!
A little bit, but she keeps most of the drama to herself.
She just complains when She can not have enough...
that is all...
Yes, my wife is very open about her relationships and communicates intimately with me regarding her outside boyfriends. It is one area that Ricky, our live in boy-friend, says he envies about our relationship is the open communications. She talks to him but not as openly as she does me.
Not necessarily. Her only complaint would be not seeing him for sex more than once a week. I think she provides a lot of stress relief for her (with his penis alone) when he shows up.
I just had to console my wife because she has troubles with her lover. I had to listen to all the drama and give advice as if I was a female friend of hers. Was kind of hot, but we had a good laugh about how bizarre the situation is, the husband consoling his wife because she has woes with her lover. I hope they will get back together again, that is quite possible. They both still want sex. but she wants more friendship beyond the bed. He also has other sex partners, not all of them female, I guess.
Same with us. One of the reasons Audrey says she loves me (and married me) is that I not just tolerate her nonmonogamy, but empathize with it. She hasn't had a lot of sex partners in her life, never slept with someone on the first (or 2nd, 3rd or 4th) date, never had a one night stand, but she continues with lovers she likes even after finding a new one.
She still likes the guy she complained about (who caused me to start this thread) and will still see him, but Audrey realized that she could never live with him for various reasons. And that we can discuss it.
Well that changed. Audrey saw Andreas several times since the incident above where she stayed with him instead of at a hotel, and they increasingly don't get along, even though Audrey stayed in a hotel. Audrey's sex partners are more than just fuck buddies, they are lovers with emotional attachment, but he was hoping it would become more and went kind of weird after she married me. He was the one reluctant to meet me, let me watch and do MFMs, so Audrey broke it off with him, and when she does that it is over. (They may have had a goodbye fuck, but I don't know and don't care; I let Audrey talk about things when she wants, otherwise I don't ask.)
What also moved this along as well is that Audrey found a couple in Frankfurt that is more her preferred situation - a married couple. She just likes the dynamics of it as well as being able to satisfy both her hetero and Lesbian sides; she misses pussy when away as much as dick. Anyway, she met this woman, Christiana, they hit it off, and eventually they were licking each other's cunts. Christiana had no problem with it since her husband likes her enjoying other women. Audrey told her that I was likewise, but also let her fuck other guys, and asked about the possibility of including her husband. Christiana said that they had never done that, but was intrigued and thought her husband would definitely be interested, in Audrey but wouldn't let another guy fuck his wife. Audrey said that would be OK by me, but Christana and her husband wanted to talk to me first. I have no problem with any of this and do like meeting her lovers, so week after next I'm taking some time off, leaving our daughter at the grandparents and going with Audrey on her trip to Frankfurt to see what these folks are like.
Not really complain. Usually just nit pick some stuff like she does with me.
My wife just isn't a complainer.
No she doesn't complain. The closest she has ever come was one of the times her sisters ex-husband was fucking her and he was complaining about his ex-wife (her sister) and what a lousy fuck she was. Apparently she took giving him some pussy as a duty, and sucking cock was out of the question. He felt he got cheated marrying her and couldn't believe how different they were. When he started fucking my wife after the divorce, he couldn't believe how willing she was to swallow his cum when her sister wouldn't let his cock anywhere near her mouth.
A quick follow-up:
We met Christiana and Jörg five times during the trip. The first two were relatively brief dinners. Then we got together with them for a lengthy Friday evening, and all day Saturday and Sunday. They are attractive and intelligent, a couple who are uninhibited about two things - nudity and sex between women, including married women, as if it's totally expected. Friday we went to their place, eventually all getting naked and the girls had sex in another room. Saturday, we got naked almost immediatley (they have a fairly private courtyard, and if the neighbors can see anything, apparently they don't mind) and the girls had sex in front of Jörg and I. At what seemed a good point in the conversation I told Jörg that I appreciated their hospitality to Audrey and suggested that if he and Audrey ever want to screw it is OK with us. Jörg said he doesn't share his wife with with another man. I told him that I wasn't expecting to. We went on to having sex with our own wives in the same bedroom, different beds. In a debrief with Audrey at our hotel afterwards, she said Christiana was fine if Jörg screwed her and that Jörg had said he wanted to.
Sunday we went out with them, but got back to their place in the late afternoon. Again the girls were going at it in a bedroom, and I told Jörg that Audrey and I were totally open to them having sex. Jörg repeated that doesn't want to share his wife. (It's not a language problem, they both work for international companies and know English perfectly.) I tried to be really clear that I didn't expect to by saying that next time Audrey visits (late July) I won't be there and that the three of them could enjoy themselves however they decide without my objection. We again had great sex with our own wives and Audrey made a point of going down on Christiana immediately after Jörg dumped his load in his wife.
It was all good, depite some inhibitions, especially all the sex Audrey and I had.
Long story short - Audrey went back to Frankfurt for 2Q reviews; left Friday night, got there Saturday morning too tired to do anything. Met up with Christiana and Jörg on Sunday afternoon. I got a call from Jörg asking if it was really OK to fuck Audrey even though he didn't want me to ever fuck Christiana. For the 1000th time, "Yes," and they did it as a threesome. Later Audrey thanked me, not for letting her do it (as she knew she could), but for putting Jörg's mind at ease so he would and they could FFM, which Audrey likes. Wish I could have been there as she was getting the first new cock since before we started dating, but there'll be other opportunities to watch them I'm sure.
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