Cucks: what is your real most humiliating experience?

Discussion in 'Real Life Experiences' started by Kudalskies, Aug 1, 2019.

  1. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Maybe if you took the band off it and let the blood flow, it would grow over time.

    My wife Audrey would take the shorter one as a challenge; she says she never had a dick she couldn't cum with. She'd certainly do the longer one, but that's the kind she has in her ass - the guy can go how ever he wants without bottoming out as he might in her cunt.
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  2. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Not quite the same, but I've seen two of my wife's male lovers go back and forth between my wife's ass and his wife's (but more frequently, their cunts). Regardless, both women begged to be the one into whom he ejaculated.
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  3. indian_couples

    indian_couples Active Member

    Ha ha but seriously, you seem to have bigger balls. Or is just some illusion ?
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  4. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    My wife is turned on by and admires a nice pair of testicles, distinct on either side of the sack, hanging low. That's where his manhood resides.
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  5. Wife4others

    Wife4others Guest

    Our oldest daughter dating our bulls son. Also at the point both bull and son come over for sleepovers every weekend.
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  6. vladdy

    vladdy Active Member

    The first time I was cucked was with my girlfriend cheating on me. After she told me she slept with a guy because he had a bigger cock that was pretty humiliating. But.....

    Then I realized how humiliating it was later when we were discussing how good the sex was with the other guy. You know most guys wouldn't want to chat with your girl about the guy she just fucked who had the bigger dick and gave her the best sex of her life.
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  7. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Audrey liked talking early on in our relationship about the men and women she enjoyed/enjoys swapping orgasms with. She still does. I guess the humiliating thing is that I've never felt humiliated.
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  8. bodybag

    bodybag New Member

    I think it does matter how big it is on the soft. Mine is around a 1inch or 2 soft or turtle
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  9. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    I think a lot of my cuckolding experiences were humiliating. But, I should say that I am not engaged in the cuckolding lifestyle. My wife just had a couple of affairs and when I found out about them that awoke in me really powerful cuckolding fantasies. I was devastated to find out she had cheated on me but really turned on by it, too. Heaven and Hell, emotionally. Discovering diaries, love poems, pictures with her lovers, and realizing many things she had told me were lies were all humiliating. I confronted both lovers, one at his office. Having a room full of real estates sales people know I was a cuckold was humiliating, but I hope I caused some trouble for the lying weasel, too. I have lots of respect for honest Bulls and Cuckoldresses but not sneaky guys who lie. Another humiliation was one time when I told my wife that I really liked to wear shorts instead of long pants since we were living in Florida, and she replied "You like wearing skirts." I know it's not much, but that's about the best I have.
    I don't know if it really qualifies as cuckold humiliation, but I recently went on a business trip with a lady I fancy a bit. Nothing happened between us, unfortunately, but I am a beta male so it's not surprising at all. Anyway, she flirted practically non-stop with guys all over the place. I had no right, of course, to feel jealous, but I did anyway. I also felt a bit humiliated. I should add that I am separated from my wife, but that we might get back together. I can imagine she's been dating, but since we are separated I can't really complain.
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  10. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    It may not be the "lifestyle" but was definitely cuckolding. More so even than the hotwifing/ swinging that is described here.
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  11. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    It's been a real rush of painful emotions and sexual excitement. It makes me think that I must be a masochist at the core. I might be one of the rare cuckolds at sites like this that wishes he hadn't been cuckolded. Or, then again, maybe many cucks feel that way. I guess it would be nice to be an Alpha male instead of a beta male, too, but this is all just wishful thinking on my part since I am a whimpy cuck sissy down to my core.

    For perhaps a couple of years after I found out about my Wife's affairs I could only cum when I masturbated by fantasizing about her sucking or fucking other men. But now my JO fantasies can include me. :)

    I think the psychology behind getting pleasure from being humiliated is really fascinating and I wish I understood myself better. :)
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  12. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Please explain. Thanks.

    It surprised me when I first started visiting this site how much humiliation is involved in what goes on here, and how much guys want it. Audrey having sex with other men and women doesn't humiliate me at all, perhaps because our relationship started differently. I knew that she had lovers from the time that we first met and knew what I was getting into. Also, both Audrey and her lovers are very respectful towards me, even envious that she's my wife. My wife eagerly gives me sex anytime I want it, so what's humiliating about her getting the extra she wants?
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  13. UCUM666

    UCUM666 Well-Known Member

    No psychologist here, but I think part of the psyche behind those of us that like being humiliated is that, for many, our perception of having a small cock relative to the general male population is part of it; but it also is quite possible a realization that maybe in life we haven't lived up to our expectations of ourself, whether career, family, health/fitness, etc., that drives this desire to be mentally flogged. I'd be interested to know how many other guys out there agree with this. JS
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  14. obedientcuck

    obedientcuck Well-Known Member

    Humiliation stimulates an endorphin rush. The subjective experience of an endorphin rush depends on context. In a sexual context with a subject who tolerates humiliation, the endorphin rush can be quite pleasurable.
  15. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    Hi Worth It

    I apologize if I seemed rude with my post. I would never presume to explain how all other cuckolds or husbands of hotwives feel. Although there are probably a lot of cucks like me who get off on humiliation, there surely are a lot of guys who aren't into it and/or don't think that their wives having sex with other people is humiliating. I also realize that there could be many more types of motivations or pleasures related to cuckdolding/hotwivery.

    I don't think what you and your wife do or think is humiliating for you. I admire that and think it's great because I don't like to be humiliated in my daily life (outside of my sexual fantasies). I'm an insecure beta male who gets humiliated a lot.

    As for my JO fantasies... For a long time after I found out about my wife's affairs, I had really powerful cuckold fantasies and about the only way I could cum was to JO to thoughts of her having sex with other guys. I am bisexual so my JO fantasies up until then had involved fantasies of me having sex with men or women. Now I can JO and cum to fantasies of me having sex with other people. I am just playing amateur psychologist again, but back then maybe I was feeling a strong sense of worthlessness (who would want to fuck a loser like me).
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  16. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    What you are saying rings true with me. I grew up with a lot of feelings of inadequacy and shame. I was very thin and weak when I was young and I started crossdressing when I was a teenager. I also had bisexual feelings. I grew up in a time and place that was very transphobic and homophobic, the Midwest of the 1970s and 1980s, so that added to my sense of shame. Plus, all the shame my repressed and unhappy Catholic parents could dump on me. A girlfriend I liked a lot and my wife both cheated on me. And to top it off, according to articles I have read recently, my dick is on the small side. Maybe getting off on being humiliated in sexual situations (femdom, etc.) is a way to deal with feelings of humiliation. I'm not sure...
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  17. UCUM666

    UCUM666 Well-Known Member

    Interesting because I was just the opposite. I was a football player, powerlifter, and competitive bodybuilder. I was also a college graduate, and went on to get my Masters Degree. However, after all these things in my 20's and 30's, I ended up divorcing (I was cheated on too), and as I got into my late 40's and 50's, found myself losing my physical attractiveness and "superiority", basically had a hard time with the slide into older age. Although my dick is in the 5-6" range, so not tiny, I've always felt small and was ridiculed at one point in my late teens--you know, guys in the locker-room showers type of thing--that I've never gotten over completely.
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  18. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    No offense taken whatsoever. I am glad that we have this forum to exchange ideas and discuss our various thoughts.

    There are many thoughts, some like yours, going through my head when my wife and I are having sex. It works for me without jerking off. As time has goes on and as I've watched and participated, I'm much more turned on by my wife's sexual appetite for both men and women.
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  19. Toson

    Toson Active Member

    Learning about experiences like yours that are different than mine really makes me think that there must be so many different influences upon human sexuality and that those differences impact us in complicated ways. We all have complex backgrounds of experiences and, probably, biology, too. I have had to put up with a lot of humiliation in my life outside the home (bullied by bosses, co-workers, strangers, etc.) and I wonder if being humiliated in sexual situations is a way of dealing with, or an outlet for, having my pride damaged. I guess what I get off on the most is domination. I think having a man or a woman take control of me while caring for me is what I desire.
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  20. R156

    R156 Active Member

    The first time she met up with him without asking or telling me first... finding out about it after the fact was a bit humiliating but also hot.
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