Cuckolds insight needed.

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  1. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    Hi all,

    I'm looking for some insight from cuckolds as to what they really derive pleasure from. Is it seeing your wife/Gf pleasured in a way you can't provide? Being dominated by her and her lover? And do you really enjoy eating another mans cum from her pussy?

    A bit of background. I have been involved with a married couple for a few months now. It started out as some fun for them, bringing another man in to spice up their sex life. I have known from the beginning that it was the wife that wanted to play while he watched. I assumed he was a voyeur and he was turned on watching her receive pleasure.

    But over the past couple of months the wife and I have played alone at my house while he stayed at home. He knows where she is and what she's doing. She goes home to him afterwards and describes exactly what we did while " making him lick my pussy until I cum again ". The thing here is, after full STD checks for both her and I, we have stopped using condoms and I have been cumming inside her pussy. She then goes home and gets him to clean her up.

    I've asked her does he know he is eating my cum and she said yes, he does. She said he gets hard being made to clean her pussy. She says they have discussed her becoming a cuckoldress and him a cuckold and they are both eager to explore it further with me as her lover.

    I am happy to explore this dynamic with them, but I want to understand what the husband is getting from this. Is he getting anything? How far will he go? She said he is not Bisexual but that she has teased him by telling him she wants to see him suck my cock.

    Any input here from people who have experienced similar would be greatly appreciated. Apologies for such a long post.

  2. open2it

    open2it Well-Known Member

    He gets the pleasure of seeing his wife enjoying sex. Cleaning your cum from her pussy is a very intimate act for a cuckold. It makes him part of her pleasure. You are being offered a very rare gift. Enjoy it.
  3. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Good question. But it is one that can also be answered without asking. First by Spending some time Reading the WIDE Variety of Posts on this Great site. BUT then After that, looking into YOUR Mind and it's Fantasies that were Already there but maybe Fleshed out by what you found out.
    Cuckold Fantasies like ALL Sexual Fantasies are VERY Individualistic
  4. slinky1

    slinky1 Well-Known Member

    I totally agree with Pathedick, cuckolding is so different for all of us here, but it still sort of comes under cuckolding. Some have quite small penises, some don't, some love humiliation, some don't. You might find sissies like a set thing, some cucks liked to be locked up, some love sucking cock/ eating cum, some want to watch, others don't. Its a very broad lifestyle and takes in a lot of elements. You may be better of starting with perhaps just one question and either move on to the next, or you may find other questions might get answered from the first one.

    Either way, welcome aboard!
  5. michael1987

    michael1987 Well-Known Member

    You say you "want to understand what the husband is getting from this", and "Is he getting anything? How far will he go?"

    You add that the wife has told you her husband is not bisexual.

    From my long experience as both a bisexual cuck and a more than occasional lover of other men's wives (usually to impregnate them with the husband participating), I would be very surprised if the husband you are presently cucking would not by now be angling, even gagging, to watch you in action with his wife. Especially bareback.

    The sight of one's wife being fucked by another man is devastatingly erotic, albeit pretty scary but at the same time sexually intoxicating for some husbands first time up. So I suggest you cultivate the wife's already-expressed desire to watch him suck your cock and let her know you would be open to giving him a throatfull or two of your cum straight from it in front of her.

    Going by your account of how things have developed, I believe that if you go with the flow the husband---bisexual or not---will quickly come round and want to indulge his voyeuristic and probable cock-loving nature to the hilt, and all three of you will get off on it hugely; if not quite equally.
  6. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    Thank you all for your replies. I will take your points on board. Reading through a lot of posts in forums I can see that everyone's experiences are varied and quite different depending on the individual. As I myself have never harboured similar desires I was finding it difficult to understand the husbands mindset. It has been valuable and eye opening reading.

    As we are just beginning this adventure together, I feel I have a responsibility to ensure it is a positive experience for all three of us. It is my intention that by enhancing our pleasure as much as possible it will allow us to explore fully where this journey can take us!

    I have arranged to visit the couple at their home this week, so I will post afterwards and let you know how the evening went.

    Again, Thanks all for your thoughts and input.

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  7. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    You hit the nail on the head !!
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  8. open2it

    open2it Well-Known Member

    Take some time to talk with both the wife and the cuck to learn their interests going forward. Communication is key to successful cuckolding and the more you learn from them the better you'll be able to tailor your style to their interests. I'd suggest having each of them send you links to stories they find sexually exciting. Finally, remember that their marriage comes first. Your role is to provide them with pleasure (cucks really do get off on their wives having hot sex with others) in return for the sexual satisfaction you receive..
  9. slinky1

    slinky1 Well-Known Member

    My advice would be, never dismiss the cuckolds role and happiness in this. Sometimes bulls get ahead of themselves and start to think they 'own' the wife pussy and the cuck will just have to deal with it. Most couples that have got to this point are usually pretty secure in their marriage and just looking for something more.

    By all means take charge and play the rooster in the pen, but don't forget what role the cuck plays and what he hopes to get from it. We've had plenty of guys try to hook up with my wife without me knowing or wanting to go bareback with her without her telling me. It has always ended in us just tipping them out and begin our search for a new gent. We do this because we both enjoy it, my wife loves the freedom and sex, but loves even more that it scratches an itch for me and makes me very happy, and never because not because the bull wants it.
  10. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    Thanks for your replies and suggestions guys. I agree that communication will be key as we move forward. While the wife has been clear and open about how they have gotten to this point and where they would like to progress to, I have yet to have a detailed discussion with the husband. I hope to do so when we next meet. I'm sure I will glean some idea by observing the interaction between the two of them but I would like to hear it from the horses mouth, so to speak.

    I have no issue with being the Dominant figure in this , as they have both told me that my experience in this area is one of the reasons they have chose to meet with me in the first place. I have spent some years in a D/s relationship and likely will use my knowledge and experience to heighten our pleasure but, this is not a D/s relationship and I am not her Dom.. This is some fun for all involved and I am acutely aware that I am the guest in this adventure. I have the utmost respect for this man, after all, he is placing his wifes needs above his own and while he will be receiving his pleasure too, it is a pretty selfless act all the same!

    Is seeing his wife pleasured and participating afterwards enough, or does he see me taking a more active role in his getting his needs met. By all means, I'm prepared to Dominate them both if they so wish, but I would never disrespect either of them. Which I guess is why I posted this thread, to get some feedback from real life cucks and not buy into the porn world/media driven perception.

    I reckon asking him directly is the way forward.

  11. slinky1

    slinky1 Well-Known Member

    I can only speak for myself, but sucking the bulls cock/ eating his cum, for me is a way of showing my respect, and him enjoying it doesn't show me disrespect, it just sets a dom/sub dynamic, so don't overthink him consuming your cum is disrespectful to him, if he enjoys it like i do, just enjoy it for what it is, and enjoy the power exchange and i'm sure it won't do your ego any harm either. I mean that in a good way :)
  12. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    That will be a new experience for me. I don't consider myself Bi or to be more accurate, I have never really given it much thought as I have never been sexually attracted to blokes. That said, I have had physical contact with some when playing in the swing scene. It is unavoidable that you will cross swords during DP, that another guys cum will land on you. Can't say it bothered me in any way. I'm pretty secure in my own sexuality and if it feels good you just go with it. I have to admit that watching him eat my cum from her pussy is definitely something I want to see as I know turns them both on. . As for him sucking my cock clean and milking out the last few drops, the thought is highly erotic. Even more so if I see that he and his wife are really getting off on it. Does that make sense?
  13. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Well I would guess that the percentage of cucks who would be open to actually taking the bulls cum Directly from the source is pretty small ( though I am one of that small percentage). So it's unlikely that the situation will develop.
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  14. slinky1

    slinky1 Well-Known Member

    Absolutely. BTW way, if a sub or cuck drops to his knees and sucks your cock or milks out the last few drops, that doesn't make you bi, i'd argue if its just in the heat of the moment, it doesn't even make hime bi. When i've been in that situation and the alpha or bull questions if it makes him bisexual, I tell them it doesn't, it only makes them trysexual.

    As you said if it feels good in the moment just run with it. Even the 'straight' guys i've sucked off and eaten their cum... they have ALL loved watching the every last drop get licked up, most guys a proud of their cum, for an alpha to see a beta lick it all up, just reconfirms where they both sit in the evolutionary/ sexual food chain.
  15. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    I'm inclined to agree. I know it's a fantasy of hers and that she has told him she would love to see him do it. But a lot of fantasies tend to remain just that.
  16. slinky1

    slinky1 Well-Known Member

    Yeah, eating your cum from her pussy may be enough for him and any more may be crossing the line for him. It could be quite intense for a guy who identifies as straight to have a dominant male cumming in his mouth, he may be repulsed by it (and most men are) so perhaps let him see how far he wants to go with it. Her fantasy doesn't mean its his. What you're doing with these guys at the moment may be as far as it goes as far as being adventurous, so let them lead the way. Trust me, when he is ready to suck your cock, you won't question whether it was what he wanted or not.
  17. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    I suppose it's all down to the individual. I would not be too bothered about attaching labels either. Anyway, it's between consenting adults and nobody is there to judge anothers preferences. As you say, if it's in the heat of the moment and everybody's happy, what's the harm?
  18. Pathedick

    Pathedick Well-Known Member Founding Member

    Well if it is a Fantasy of Hers and she has told him that, it Definitely raises the chances that fantasy will eventually happen, at Least once.
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  19. Icecross

    Icecross New Member

    It piqued my curiosity as to why she would make me aware of that particular fantasy. She could easily tease and tantalise him with the thought without my ever knowing. I got the impression she was seeing what my reaction to the idea would be. Who knows? I'll let them lead the way, it's about them their fantasies and fun, not mine.
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  20. open2it

    open2it Well-Known Member

    True, it's about their fantasies and fun but it's also about yours as well. Part of the intense fun for a cuck is seeing a lover and his cuckoldress lost in the orgasmic bliss of their sexual union. Don't be afraid to be expressive.
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