Cuckold secret

Discussion in 'Controversial Issues' started by cuckis, Apr 16, 2015.

  1. cuckis

    cuckis Member

    Hello

    Have you ever tried to tell your secret(cuckolding) to your friends?Either the fantasy or the reality?I have tried to approach one of my good friends(no other friends in common) about my fetish.At first she was acceptable but i think as the time went by i lost her friendship
     
  2. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    You have to chose carefully. No Neon signs
     
  3. cuckis

    cuckis Member

    Yes i agreed but that girl seem like she was open,at least that was what she stated all the time! Has anyone any relevant experiences?
     
  4. Ekad91

    Ekad91 Active Member

    It kinda slipped out when I was talking to a friend of mine. We were talking about sex, then about threesome, then my wife. Now he knows I wouldn't mind him so he talks to my wife often and hits on her. It really turns me on when he says my wife is hot and he would love to fuck her!
     
  5. saturn

    saturn Super Moderator Staff Member

    Most of my wife's Asian friends knows that she has permission to do what she wants. I think they actually like me more now that they know. And most of them wish they had a man that was as "cool" as me. heh.

    But NONE of my friends know. I actually don't really have friends, other than work friends that I rarely if ever talk to outside of work. I like it that way.
     
  6. BetaBettor

    BetaBettor New Member

    How would your wife feel if she found out you had told your mate / buddy? Haha, mine would be pissed.
     
  7. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Other than the people we are involved with, no one has been told.

    The funny thing, however, is that Audrey's parents (mother especially) know of her romantic life (no committed relationship, fucking around with married guys) before we met and married. In particular, Audrey's mother has teased her about "how many husbands she's had, including those of other women."
     
  8. Mercator

    Mercator Member

    Not for us, we instead have always kept it a closely guarded secret. By keeping it secret we also keep it special, this is our erotic hidden life, shared with no one. None of her friends and family would understand, so why bother to even try to explain, or even justify? I see no value in others knowing, but I do accept that some in this lifestyle would find it titillating for others to know.
     
  9. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    Most wouldn't fully understand, but if they were to know there would be both insight into why we are so happy and condemnation arising from jealousy that those like us here in our various ways pull this off as a couple.
     
  10. Worth It

    Worth It Well-Known Member

    I am like you. My wife is my best friend. My adult children have also grown to be my friends now that I no longer need to be raising them.
     
  11. Rob Y

    Rob Y Guest

    Family and a number of friends know that she "cheats" (she's rarely taken great pains to hide it) but they think I put up with it because I love her (which I do). As far as I know, no one is aware that I gladly accept it, let alone get off on it. I like discussing it through email with those who seem to get it, but I don't know anyone in my personal life with whom I'd be comfortable broaching the subject.
     
  12. BetaBettor

    BetaBettor New Member

    My wife has only told one other person, "Jane". But she told her she is cheating on me. Jane cheats on her husband (behind his back - he works offshore), meeting men at "mature singles" events. My wife wanted to accompany Jane to these events - mostly for the dancing, but also to allow herself to be picked up occasionally.

    Apart from that, no - for us, it would be too weird. It's our secret.
     
  13. Mickle

    Mickle New Member Founding Member

    Mine has openly cheated since we began dating, believe me you go through all the emotions every time.
     
  14. Rob Y

    Rob Y Guest


    Very true. You feel elated, jealous, horny, scared, and a dozen other things. And again, for me at least, it’s not made any easier when you can’t or won’t risk telling anyone the whole truth. I’ve had several friends and family members over the years (more from her family than mine, oddly enough) take me aside and try to talk some “sense†into me. Some of them tell me to man-up and put my foot down, that it’s the only way to stop her. Others seem to automatically assume that I’m too stupid to know what’s going on, so they have to “explain†it to me. Some just hint about it, without ever really telling me anything. Years ago one of my wife’s cousins came on to me. She was never a fan of my wife’s, so I don’t know whether she was trying to get me to cheat to even the score so to speak, or to find out if I was straight or what. But yeah, you run the whole gamut emotionally.
     
  15. rfresco

    rfresco Active Member

    No,
    We pretty much keep it close hold. We keep our public persona separate from our private lives. Very large brick wall. No hints, no double-meaning, no innuendo. Condoms are kept in a very private location in our home, so even if someone were to shuffle through our medicine cabinet, they would see only what most folks have. Even her toys are kept far separate.
    We think it's generally safer.
    Interesting topic though
    R n T
     
  16. rfresco

    rfresco Active Member

    No,
    We pretty much keep it close hold. We keep our public persona separate from our private lives. Very large brick wall. No hints, no double-meaning, no innuendo. Condoms are kept in a very private location in our home, so even if someone were to shuffle through our medicine cabinet, they would see only what most folks have. Even her toys are kept far separate.
    We think it's generally safer.
    Interesting topic though
    R n T
     
  17. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member

    There are a lot of potential reasons why. As you said, she could have been wondering whether you were gay.

    Don't discount some of the other possibilities. One of the big ones would be that she just plain hates your wife, and maybe that she thinks your wife is mistreating you by fooling around. That sort of falls into the category of mercy fuck combined with revenge fuck. (The revenge targeted at your wife, of course.)

    And there's always the possibility that she had a score of her own to settle, that perhaps she was pissed off at her own husband, for some reason.

    xoxoxo

    Christine
     
  18. Rob Y

    Rob Y Guest

    It could have indeed been a revenge thing, because she and my wife had a history of being pretty competitive, in terms of trying to date the same guys. They went to the same high school, and it started there from what I've heard.

    I hadn't considered that it might be a personal thing on her part. She was married at the time, and they eventually divorced. Everybody talked about their marriage being in trouble for a long time, but I never knew the cause. Definitely a possibility, though.
     
  19. cuckis

    cuckis Member

    Hello all!

    Thanks for your kind responses.As a matter of fact cuckold must be kept a secret as it seems.I still feel a little sad for my lost friend but i though she would at least understand.Thanks again!
     
  20. christinebitg

    christinebitg Well-Known Member



    You'll probably never really know for sure. But my best guess is that your wife was trying to horn in on a relationship that her cousin had. Or already had accomplished it, possibly.


    xoxoxo


    Christine
     

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