Creampie question for newbie - safe sex or no sex?

Discussion in 'A Womans Perspective' started by kinkycradlerobbingslut, Dec 3, 2007.

  1. I am new to all of this so forgive me if I inadvertently step on any toes, it is not intentional.

    I was introduced more formally to the cuckolding culture (in theory not practice) by someone I was considering having a formal relationship with. We have not been able to move forward with this but my curiosity has not left me so here I am, doing some research and exploring on my own.

    My question revolves around creampies which seem to dominate a great portion of the cuckold experience from where I am reading. I practice safe sex regularly and I refuse to have unprotected sex with someone that I am not in a proper relationship with due to accountability issues. My hurdle comes in when it comes to entertaining a third person in my relationship with my significant other (S.O.) in an attempt to allow him to have the whole creampie experience because I can't imagine wanting the third person around more than a few times as a matter of novelty (any more contact after this and it then becomes a relationship and I am not sure if I want that with both men). I am familiar with the swinging culture so I know that there are groups out there that are not as paranoid about safe sex as I am and are still around today, happily swinging and healthy to boot.

    So for those of you who are able to have the full cuckold experience with creampies, can you please share with me how you have worked through the safe sex concerns?
     
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  2. voyeur

    voyeur New Member

    creampie

    This is the first time I replied to a post, am sort of new to this site, hope my reply is what your looking for. BTW am also from philly.

    I also worry about relations with people I do not know very well, but the wife picks the man she wishes to be with, so far she has been only with married men whom she feels is safe, because they are in a relationship with someone else. She does spend time getting to know these men thru internet chat and phone calls and she will meet them aleast once in a public place before being with them.I do enjoy her bringing home a freash creampie the smell of sex on her is a real turn on for me and the sex we have then is strong and passionate.
     
  3. EmmaK

    EmmaK <b><font color="#ff0000">VERIFIED REAL MEMBER</fon

    Not to be rude but the whole idea that a "married" guy who is cheating is somehow safer just seems ridiculous to me. He's fucking your wife without a condom. Isn't there a possibility that he's also fucking other women without a condom? I think anyone who is fucking you without a condom is likely to have fucked others without and is therefore risky.

    I never have unprotected sex. Period. I am the mother of a young child and the idea that having a little unprotected sex (because it is somehow supposed to be more thrilling) could impact the future of my entire family keeps me having safe sex.

    In general, any exchange of bodily fluids has some risk. This means oral sex, etc. But my understanding is that oral sex is a far lower risk. This is a risk I've been willing to accept. As far as creampies, of course they don't happen for my husband but what we do is let guys cum in my mouth and then I share a kiss with hubby or the guys cum on my tummy or tits and then hubby licks it up. That's pretty hot for him so I think you might be able to do something like that without increasing your risk too much.
     
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  4. ccs2essentia

    ccs2essentia New Member

    We've been in the cuckold/femdom lifestyle some 12 ish years now, i love the thought of a creampie but i can live without it in favour of safe sex.....

    A good snog after she's sucked one of her lovers off is the nearest i've ever come
     
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  5. kinkyhusband

    kinkyhusband New Member

    Have her require to jack off as she tells you how well her lover has used her. Upon cumming, she must require you to clean your hand up orally as a reward for being a good cuck. That way you get your daily feeding too.
     
  6. lancer

    lancer New Member

    try Sxcheck.com get them tested. If you one to do this and are happy i suggest you keep him as long as possibile.Ideally you get as many studs as you want tested for stds
     
  7. lilsilkworm

    lilsilkworm New Member

    Methods

    Unless you can guarantee safety, creampies are out. We have not been able to guarantee too many guys up till now. I can think of only three instances where we knew for sure the man was safe. We knew all three personally. My wife prefers to do as someone else has pointed out. She has her lover cum on her somewhere and leaves it for me for when she arrives home. I not only have to clean the cum from her body as she describes their time together, I also have to suck the remainder whatever clothing which was pressed against his semen. I particularly enjoy cleaning her shoes if she has him cum on them. The other method she has recently started using is saved condoms. She gets a real thrill out of tipping the condom upside down into my mouth. She likes playing a game of trickling the cum a little at a time or in streams controlled by her, again talking to me the entire time.

    All in all, there are many ways to share your lovers cum with hubby. Be creative; he will enjoy it even more.

    Missy
     
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  8. male37slave

    male37slave New Member

    What about the cucks safety?

    This is an interesting topic. I fully understand and support the wife being careful and protecting her safety, but I wonder how safe some of the practices described are for the cuck. If the cuck eats the lovers come from a used condom or somewhere on his wife's body where her lover left it, isn't he exposed to the dangers the wife is protecting herself from by using a condom (other than pregnancy obviously)?

    PS... I mean this seriously.
     
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  9. EmmaK

    EmmaK <b><font color="#ff0000">VERIFIED REAL MEMBER</fon

    I'm not a doctor or anything but my understanding from the research I've done is that oral transmission (from semen to mouth or from sex organ to mouth) is a lot lower than sex organ to sex organ for most STIs. So the risk of getting things through oral contact is significantly lower than through "regular" sex or anal sex.

    If you really want to know the risks for any of these activities, you have to do some research beyond the internet and even talk to your healthcare practitioner.

    You can also check out Dan Savage who gives straight up advice for the kinky and gay crowds.
     
  10. benlavale

    benlavale New Member

    creampie
    when we were younger and aids was not part of our life we found out that cream pie is the most erotic act you will ever experiance, simple as that..
    But is the life of your love one worth it?
     
  11. Jim49

    Jim49 New Member

    creampie vs reality

    Hello, I am a long time lurker and wanna-be. Although the thought of creampie is the ultimate, it may be helpful if the woman plays with the fantasy and tells her husband that she wanted him to wear a condom "this time" because of her cycle. In our case I had a vasectomy years ago and the last thing we need is a Ooops. that being said, It is a cuckold fantasy of mine to be conditioned to only be allowed to give oral after she has had sex with another man. This streched pussy and condom taste is a very real indication that the wife has had another man. being masterbated at that time I almost always cum. She giggles and tells me only real men get penatration sex. Its a very hot thing to know that you did not get to have sex with your wife and another man just did. Also she does make me lick her hand clean of my cum as well.

    Jim
     
  12. naughtylilme4

    naughtylilme4 VERIFIED REAL MEMBER

    For me, this is why I have regular buddies as bulls. They are my friends which tends to taunt my cuck partner a bit as well (he knows what the joy that I am going to be experiencing, we know that they will show, he knows how the bull will talk to him instead of dealing with a crap shoot everytime there is someone new), AND I know what they are up to when we are not together. They are tested often and use protection when with others. It is a risk that I am willing to take with my trusted long term bulls.
    If someone new plays with us, I always have them wear protection. It is this way for sometime, until a trust is built between us (sometimes for a year or more...and sometimes it never happens).
    This is the way it works best for me, but then I have never been really into sleeping with the random guy "off the street" that I can pick up.
     
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  13. georgedgerton

    georgedgerton New Member

    Creampie

    You certainly are right in saying a pussy thats been fucked with rubber has a distinctive smell. I find it revolting. Be careful how you choose friends and enjoy slipping into that sensual cum-filled pussy your partner has so lovingly provided.

    george
     
  14. georgedgerton

    georgedgerton New Member

    Long term


    Once again, we have someone that has been around the style for some time.

    Take time develop that trust and sure use rubber if in doubt. I do understand peoples feeling, and yes most of the oldies have visited the same dilemas.

    Build the trust, and get rid of those rubber insulated feelings towards the people you want to be close to.

    George.
     
  15. MsTastys_boi

    MsTastys_boi New Member

    As i understand it from discussion with several medical professionals, HIV cannot live without a host for more than a few seconds. Hep C can only be transmitted through direct blood to blood ingestion. So licking cum from a used condom &/or off Her body should be safe from those risks.

    And EmmaK is correct, the enzymes present during oral sex do reduce (but not eliminate!) the risk of infection.
     
  16. Sassy

    Sassy New Member

    If it was 'so hard' to get STDs there wouldn't be so many! Risks are risks. I don't say this pointing fingers, I say it because by the nature of the lifestyle of not being with one single partner, it puts you at risk, plain at simple, that includes me. I try to lower my risks using safety methods, and testing of partner(s).

    (LOL sorry if it seems like a lecture, but I went through the 'lecture' in March from the doctor, when i asked for testing, and explained why i wanted the results in writing.
     
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  17. midwestbull

    midwestbull New Member

    mods please feel free to delete this post sorry for the duplicate
     
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  18. midwestbull

    midwestbull New Member

    No such thing as "safe" sex" only "safer sex"

    As you can all see this is my first post but the subject is a very important one and Im glad its being discussed, I dont know why so many of us have our heads in the sand on this subject almost like there is no risk at all . You MUST understand that there are always risks even when having "safe sex", I dont think everyone realizes what true safety is. Lets take stds for example I hear a lot of people say that they know their partners and they trust them however if their partners are having sex with others they may have contracted things that THEY dont even know about so in that case it's not a trust issue its a case that they could unknowingly have contracted something that has yet to or many never show any symptoms while still putting others at risk. Testing is very important however one needs to know when those people got tested and how many partners they have had since that testing, a succesful test and a subsequent infection is an oxymoron in my opinion so you see how this could get complicated with just keeping track of one person much less multiple partners or complete strangers. Condoms, while rank high on the protection scale are not the complete answer I think we should all agree on that, Herpes type I & II can still be passed from one person to another even with a condom, all that needs to happen is skin to skin contact WITH or WITHOUT an open sore because people with the herpes virus often go through a "shedding" process where the virus does not produce any sore but sheds itself on the skin and can be passed that way so if one of your partners has herpes but no sores he still has the potential of being contagious albeit the shedding process holds less risk of passing the virus. I have seen how some men use condoms (yes I was in the lifestyle for many years) its like not having anything on at all. When I was active in the lifestyle (as a black bull/Dom) I admit my sexual practices were not as involved as others because I traded less involvement for "safer" sex. I always wore condoms(correctly) even when receiving oral and this is a practice that Im glad to see has become more popular with todays lifestylers. One must realize that just as we look to survive so do these various viruses and bacterias which constantly look for a way to spread from one host to another. There are many diseases,viruses and bacterium that can be passed through sexual contact that we dont even know about so please, not only know your partner or partners on a social level but also know their sexual habits and testing procedures. In the end the only true safe sex is the one you dont have, a lot of people have a lot of good ideas on safe sex here I just want to bring out the other percentage of what I feel isnt being discussed. Thanks for listening.
     
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  19. KimM2F

    KimM2F Transsexual 2 Female Cuck

    Test - and Be Responsible

    Even with the precautions available, it is still smarter and the best action to minimize risk to begin at first (then periodically) test individuals you consider in and for sexual capacity within your life. If people did more of this, the percentages for transmittal of these conditions would decrease, if for the valuable knowledge of each person's health snapshot alone. No sex is worth dying for - we've all heard that catch phrase, and its true.

    Unfortunately, many people refuse to be so rational when it comes to sex, so infection rates remain higher than they need to be. Get tested frequently, stay smart in your decision making, and enjoy all the possibilities that a lifestyle like this can provide its participants. There are variations that involve risk in cuckolding if people aren't tested, and better that these variations are available as options, than not available to the involved.

    Kim
     
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  20. verkitwme

    verkitwme Well-Known Member

    My lover supplied us with RECENT medical tests so creampies were standard right from the start. Something about when a man cums in you (or on you) that is extremely exciting for me. I love to watch as a man tenses up his cock gets even a little harder then he fills your pussy with his seed. VERY enjoyable for me (and hubby loves his clean up role)
     
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