Because I want to be. I love her and she loves me. It's just the dynamic of our life together. It's always been this way, up and down. It's kind of ironic, because so many guy out there fantasize about dominant women taking control, and here I am with a real life 'boss wife' and it's a lot harder in real life than in fantasy. I haven't been here much lately because there hasn't been much to report. But over the past week or so . . . . I ran out of deodorant. She told me it's silly for me to run out to the store to buy some when she had some I could use. So I did. Then she said that there's no point in buying two different kinds. Since then, I've been wearing Secret deodorant. Same thing happened with soap. I used to buy men's body wash, but she didn't like the fragrances, so now I use her soap, which is basic Dove with floral/rose fragrances. Three nights ago she said that it wakes her up when I toss and turn at night. Since then, I've been sleeping on a mattress on the floor beside the bed. She gave me a pink satin pillow and matching pink satin comforter. It's not a true pink, more of a purplish pink. But . . . it's pink. I got my evening chores done early, otherwise I wouldn't be online now. Plus, she went out for a bit. A girlfriend has a date and the guy told her to bring a friend. And since it's just a favor for her friend, my wife decided to go out rather than sit at home.